If the opportunity arises, take it. It may not come your way again. Just do it. Don't be sorry afterwards for not carpe diem.

 

My advice is embodied in the Latin phrase, carpe diem (literally "catch the day", or utilise your opportunities as they come by). Don't hesitate. The unique opportunity arose to make love to my sister, and we did it. It was consensual and fulfilled in both our needs. Never regretted it, never had any hangups, although we were both very hestitant the first time the opportunity arose. We enjoyed a loving, sexual relationship thereafter, lasting three years. So many guys and girls don't know what they are missing out on by not taking the step when it arises, due to the outdated taboo perceptions to sex as they still prevail to this day.

 

First off I love this @PrettyBabyWhore as I'm all in about educating our youth so that rather than making irrational sexual decisions with no clue of the consequences, I'd love to see the parents take the responsibility of an ongoing, age appropriate sexual education that leads to an open ended discussion that far exceeds the lack of education that they received. This would also benefit the parents to know where they go wrong by not being able to discuss their own wills, wants and needs to their lovers and just maybe in a generation sexual problems would be countered with an educated mature approach regardless of the level of relationship.

1. Parents would start with a game plan and a massive research into "what is" a healthy sexual development by educating themselves in every weakness they feel they have and WRITE IT DOWN in preparation! A plan to fail is in the failure to plan.
2. Armed with the knowledge that emphasizes first the variables of making love and indiscriminate sexual exploration this education would start at about an age just a couple years prior to the average sexual curiosity (no ages given, you need to figure this out based on the child) How can we expect them to learn the "how" when they are not even taught the "why?"
3. This would then lead to the safety factors like pregnancy, disease and psychological head games used by lovers and peers, so that maybe they have enough pride in themselves to not feel like their being used and take only calculated risks
4. Lastly prepare them for the experiences in later years of their development with an assurance that there is just about nothing (within reason) that is unhealthy to a strong sexual relationship in the way of positions, sex acts or future predilections they might think of or be offered. As long as it feels good, is done safely and to know what good and safe mean to them and by an encouraging partner not a sexual bully!

Done correctly they will make mistakes, but hopefully these will be the calculated risks I spoke of and not the random act of a teen that's all hormone with conscience brain activity being led down a path of sexual destruction to their very being. Last bit of wisdom I feel helped my children I always told them and others (even adults) "If a unfamiliar lover tells you that you "that you don't have to use a condom if you don't want to" make sure you wear one, if they insist you don't use one? Pull up your pants and panties and GET THE FUK OUT OF THERE!" So ends my thoughts, thanks for the indulgence.

 

Venus has the best advice I can't really add to that.

 

Only have sex with those who make you a priority… Not someone who considers you an option.

When two people want it… they are more open, there is mutual trust and respect.

This allows communication and once you have communication… Try to achieve as many first experiences as possible .

If in the end… You don't like a certain something… You talk about it and there's no hard feelings and you move onto the next best thing.

Drop the Egos … It takes 2

Or three or four if you get to that point

 

1. When you find that someone who makes you feel special and loved, despite the inevitable temptation of someone new, don't cheat, you risk losing that special someone for a cheap thrill.

2. Learn to communicate with your partner, discuss things openly and don't judge them for their kinks/fantasies

3. If you get curious about something, seriously consider trying it sooner rather than later, as long as it doesn't break the law, or rule 1

 

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Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.

 

Reading this thread again. Read a post that I totally agreed with. Went to hit "like" and planning to click the person's avatar when I noticed it was me, from 13 months ago.

 

That masturbation is the easiest and safest way to relieve the pressure. Especially boys should be encouraged to masturbate because it makes us less prone to being so desperate to have sex that we either act stupid (begging girls, paying for sex) or being really stupid (rape.)

 

sex is fun, have a good time and do like one of my older lovers said"slow down hunny we have all night"best advice I ever got! slow down love ur partner.don't fuck her,make love to her. talk to her see what she likes.look at her body languge to see if she likes what ur doing, and vice versa,tell her what you like.that will make you a better lover all the time!!