Alright, I've got a kind of interesting question. My girlfriend and I dont have full blown sex, but oral is ok (she's not into the whole "premaritial" thing, but thats cool with me, anyways) she was givin me a blowjob one night...and it no joke, took like an hour and a half for me to get off. Is there something wrong with me maybe? Or...is she doin somethin wrong? (keep in mind, this is the only girl i've had experiences with) I can get myself off in like 15 mins...but it took an hour and a half that night...Is it me?

 

And...just to add to my previous post. She doesnt like the idea of cum in her mouth....is there something i could do to maybe...help her out?

 

Were you anxious of cumming? If so, that would be a big part of it.

Yes, you can help her out. Let her know what feels good and what doesn't work for you.

 

Sorry, submitted too fast.

An hour and half? That's a long time to give head, I'd say she was extremely tired and wasn't giving as good as she normally would.

 

Maby you were nervous or had something on your mind.. maby it was her not doing a good job at it. Tell her what you like and what you don't like.

Also, if she dosn't like the idea of cum in her mouth, don't pressure her to do it.

 

absolutly! i would never pressure her into doing anything. im NOT like that. it's just like, it's too easy to pleasure her...and im the difficult one? im gonna have to try that anxious thing though lol. cuz i might have been/probably was, and she wasnt giving me head the whole time....infact she probably only did that for 5 mins...the rest was a handjob...i know this must sound really boring to yall, but we both just turned 18...and we're only doing what SHE is willing to do...ya know (cuz i'm just a little more outgoing and ventureful, but thats somethin else). Whenever we do "play", for lack of a better word...she always ends up gettin frustrated because it takes....10 mins for me to get her off, just doing little things (i've learned waaaay to many tricks from watchin porn)...but i always take longer...is there somethin i could do, to maybe...speed up the process?

 

OR you could make it last longer for her. Make her orgasm more than once.

 

i try! after that first one she says it hurts...like it's sensitive

 

well just give it time to rest i know i get really sensitive after the first one

 

this is gonna sound really selfish and arrogant i know...but it isnt taking care of her thats the problem...is she isnt takin care of me, ya know?

 

yes buddy but her arm/jaw is going to get tired if it takes that long!
It probably wont next time anyway though.
But if you play with her, at the same time, or not, or 69 maybe, again once she stops being too sensitive, she's not going to get bored is she.. and she'll stay horny rather than feeling like its a chore after a hour.

 

If your mouthing her clit the entire time, then yeah, I'm sure it is sensitive. Porn is not the best tutor for sex, your daddy should have told you that. Try putting your mouth other places. There's a long thread about going down on a girl somewhere in here, do a search for it.

And the time factor with you is most likely all mental. Also another thread on that somewhere.

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I'd cum on her belly, then slurp it up and say "that's how its done hon"!

 

Have you fingered her? Might help.

 

That's an easy one to answer. You been beating off for so long that you fell in love with your hand.

I know his post is 15 years old but I felt the need to answer it just in case someone else can't cum with a woman..... Plus I thought it was funny.

 

I first read the message and thought, “Duh! She doesn’t like the thought of cum in her mouth, there’s no surprise that it took her 90 minutes to suck your cock and make you cum in her mouth.” My *wife* doesn’t like the thought of cum in her mouth, so she won’t even put my cock in her mouth. I have “tried to convince her” that it’s OK and it won’t kill her by eating her pussy until she squirts in my mouth, eating her pussy after I have filled it with my cum, etc. She doesn’t like the thought of it to the point of my even cumming on her tits or close to her face make her gag, and almost vomit. Once I realized it was a trauma issue from a past experience, I have let it go and accepted that she will never suck my cock. We have now been married 30+ years, and had sex for about 5 years before getting married. During that 35+ years, she has had my cock in her mouth 3 times, and no single time for longer than 10-15 seconds. Yes, you read that right, in 35+ years, she has had my cock in her mouth for less than 1 minute total. She never let it get anywhere close to cumming before she stopped.
Yeah, I’d love her to actually suck me off, but I still love her. Enough so that I will go without getting blowjobs to please her and not remind her of her past abuse.

 

If a man's cock is in my mouth I am in control!

 

You said "one night" so I have to ask if it's always taken that long for you to get off?
Most guys would be thrilled to receive a 90 minute blowjob.
Is she doing something wrong? No. It's your job to communicate to her what feels good to you. She's probably new at it too and thinks it just putting her mouth around it and bobbing up and down.
Sex can be like drug addiction. You probably were thrilled the first time she said "No fucking but I'll suck you off." Now you know you can get a BJ whenever you want one so it's become routine, and boring to you.
We want what's denied to us. You can't get between her legs so you want it even more.
If she said "We can fuck but no oral or anal, you'd want those.