I am a 20 year old guy from the Philly area. I find it hard to last long during sex without a condom, since with my last girlfriend we always used one and it helped me to last longer. My current girlfriend is on birth control so we dont use a condom. Anyone have any tips?

 

if your worried about satisfying her then add foreplay into the mix or try changing positions more frequently. remember though not to often because shell never reach climax if you spend more time moving arround then actually pleasuring her.

 

well you should use a condom anyway regardless of whether she's on the pill or not because there are worse things than pregnancy

go to the drugstore where the condoms are and there are male desensitizers that might work

 

oh trust me, foreplay is no problem. in fact we usually mess around for about an hour before acutal sex. idk i guess i just gotta try different stuff and see what works

 

If you're able to recover fairly quickly after an orgasm, and if your second one takes longer, problem solved. Just let her get you off, get it out of the way, and then you can take your sweet time getting her off.

 

Well everyone is different. But I'll tell you what didn't work for me, is that desensitising cream,
one called, "maintain". It makes it too numb you can't enjoy anything. then if she goes to suck you, her lips
will get numb. If you try it get the smallest size.
Good Luck

 

imagine something else, if I feel im going too quick I do, once I imagined nascar and I lasted another 15 minutes. Mind Over matter

-I hope im not digging up old topics

Just my first time on a forum like this

 

Last longer

Well everyone is giving some good advice and no outside forces trying to get us off the thread..

As a youth you try to slow down the climax, and years later you are trying to have one..
Out of the past: Have kids that wake up while you are right in the middle of sex. Have the phone ring, that will slow it up.. Have it be your ex that will really slow it down.. Get a cramp in your leg, Have some one ring the door bell.
It boils down to, change things if you are getting too close too soon.. Take another position, take it out and cool off. As you inturept a climax several times, it will last longer.
If that doesn't work call me and I will demonstrate..

 

The whole kegel thing actually works pretty well. Just clench the muscle you use to stop peeing like you're working out. Start out with sets of 20 or 30 or however many you can do, and just do them through out the day. If if starts getting too easy and you can do 2 or 300 without a problem, add weight in the form of a damp towel or something else along those lines. It will also improve the sensations of your orgasm.

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I found a site about this that was helpful for me. It's called Legends Gym, you may have to go thru another site to get to it.

 

Lasting longer only happens with lots of practice. hint hint.

 

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Wow this is an old thread. The guy is 36 years old right now so hopefully he got over his not lasting very long LOL