How often after kids go to bed or sneak a quicky on weekends, you all swing, have a side woman or women / men or man, and find wife or husband still hot after all the years? It's the marriage thread with kids.

 

Wife and I go @ almost every night and squeeze a quicky in the master closet on weekends. Except on her periods... Nothing happens for a week

 

When the kids were young my wife helped me fix the toilet, washer and dryer an awful lot. You find ways, and that's what keeps your marriage hot, bringing in one of her girlfriends also helps, maybe not so much for her, but you won't believe what it'll do for you.

 

Been really pushing the limits with wife. When we first met anal was %100 NO! Now it's 3 times a week. Next up was spankings, a little hair pulling and throat grabbing, wife... Don't even think about it! Happened last night.

Anyone else working hard in there marriage?

 

You guys are fucked.

 

Having kids totally killed our sex life.. I love the kids to bits and wouldn't change that for anything but we simply don't have sex of any kind anymore

 

The number one reason sex suffers after having children is not lack of time or privacy. It's because the woman's work load has greatly increased and she's exhausted.

Any man who values his sex life will make sure he either helps her take care of all the new tasks, or he pays someone to do it.

 

Sex doesn't need to diminish because of the kids.
As long as we have our bedroom and they have theirs, When bedtime comes, that pussy is mine.
But ofcourse, we both have jobs and we come home tired to put up eith kids and look after them, it's tiring and sex diminishes . it's not like when we were single without bills to pay or kids .

 

When your son whispers in the door " I know what you guys are doing" kinda kills it for me, and for some reason they always know when daddy wants to bury his bone....them fuckers want ever go to sleep...so you learn to handle your business in the garage at 3am to some fucking stranger on xnxx...

 

Our bedroom door had a skeleton key lock and something to hang over the keyhole.
Did our kids know what was going on? As they got older, sure. Were we private and out of sight? Sure.
I was raised in a home where mom and dad never seemed to have physical contact.
Did not want to set that same example for our kids. It's important to show them that their parents loved each other.
We touched, caressed, and randomly kissed in public. While never talking about it, we made love and fucked behind closed doors. Sex produced those kids and is an important part of quality of life. Lead by example. Our kids are normal.

 

It has to be a priority.....many times we would grab a quicky downstairs in the laundry room or in the shower.....it only takes a couple minutes but more important is the message it sends to your partner that you will make time for them.....

Hell we would meet up for lunch at work and just crawl in the backseat.....

 

Obviously kids are too young to understand certain things before they can mentally process the information. And from looking around here I'd say most adults too. However most religious people teach their children that sex is dirty and is a sin....to me that is a horrible thing to teach...it's why certain things are considered taboo. And why is certain sex acts even considered taboo? Its fucking...isn't that how you continue life? Sexuality should be something to celebrate not condone.

Although I'd leave horse fucking up to the professionals....

 

After kids we had sex when ever and where ever we could. Before work, lunch time quickie, while watching porn after the kids went to bed, ect.
Before we were married was told by someone ( a minister) to take 3 or 4 long weekends with out the kids and never leave the bedroom. Worked for us for 39 years and still going strong.

 

As the member Bron Z mentioned about time. I put alot of effort into our marriage by helping wife out with dishes, laundry, playing with the kids, and cleaning around the house. I usually work a 50-60hr week but still manage to help wife out.

On weekends I'll take the kids to the park or something fun and wifey can relax home to watch TV, a movie or go shopping.

Another member mentioned that quickies are a must in the master closet, spare bedroom etc.. on weekends.

It's little things to help out around the house or errands that wife doesn't have to do to lead up to couple of hours of us time and we'll worth it in the end.

 

We could always work around kids and their interruptions. Hysterectomy and back surgery pretty much killed sex

 

We swing and fuck during the night or right after shipping them off to school. She still turns me on and is just as gorgeous as the day we met

 

I dont have kids I know people who do and apparently have fairly active sex lives. I know one couple who are still all loved up after all these years, you see that in the way they act with each other and she told me that things are just still A ok when it comes to sex. I also know some who have had affairs cheated divorced etc. How much this has to do with kids or just bad luck I dont know

 

Just tell the kids mommy & daddy are going to have private. Find a distraction for them on the other side of the house (tv, internet, games). Lock you door and have mommy & daddy fun.