Honestly?! Because in a slut and can't keep my legs together! Lol. I've been through three marriages, and each time I try...but I end up seeing something I want to try, and can't help myself. Thankfully, my current bf is into me being with other men and women...If only I had found him twenty years ago!

 

I'm in a bad relationship now. Staying together because of our daughter. She's cheated and so have I. I don't feel good about it. I did it for payback reasons. I let my anger get the best of me. We are at the end of the tunnel in the relationship now and once it's done it will take a lot for me to get back into another relationship, maybe never. A FWB would be nice though but that's wishful thinking...

she knows what's going on,not the cheating part,but she wants me there because her and her mother fight like cats and dogs and I'm the mediator lol. But she graduated soon and its done

 

Just as a reminder to the holier than thou brigade. Almost everyone has cheated, has been cheated on, will cheat, will be cheated on and probably a combination of some or all of the above.

Its called life if anyone tries and tell you different, they are lying or in denial

 

Lol . I'm the king of happiness

 

I have cheated because I can't suck my wife's non-existent cock, and I wanted to do that.

 

Because I am hornier and kinkier than she is.

 

I've cheated on my current husband. We where going through a really rough patch that was honestly, repercussions of his choices in life. I slept around quite a bit, and to be honest, at the time I didn't feel bad at all. He had no idea what I was doing, which was a combination of him being to busy with doing his own thing, and me being really good at hiding it. It was fun to a certain degree. After a while, I felt single and just told him we weren't a couple anymore. I did meet someone from this very site, had a fucking blast actually. I did tell my husband all about what I had done, and who I slept with. It absolutely broke my heart to see him cry. I never wanted him to suffer, I just wanted to feel wanted. Anyhow, karma had her way with the situation. I have to say he wasn't the best husband a woman could ask for, he has many faults, but everyone is capable of personal growth. During the end of my affairs with others, I needed support to get through some really hard choices and he was there. We are trying to work things out. No one knows what the future holds. I've learned some really valuable leasons, from the entire situation and from the people involved. Give some one a broken heart and you earn one... Karma is real guys.

 

I have not cheated on my wife, yet, but I have had thoughts and desires to do it.
The biggest reason for me is the lack of sex in my marriage. Before my wife & I got married, we would have sex about 15-20 times a week, and that continued on for a short time after we got married. Then things started to cool down, and we got to the point where we only had sex about 3 or 4 times a year. My body (and mind) still craved the higher frequency, and the sex in places where others might see us. It was then that I started looking to find someone else to fulfill my "needs" and it's also when I started finding places outdoors to masturbate. I have found that I really enjoy going places and masturbating where others might see me, especially if they replaces where others can see me if they look, but they but they just don't normally look in that direction.

 

I don't cheat, I'm considerate. I'm not going to bother my wife for a blowjob or if I wanna get laid, the poor lady works hard all day. Sex is the last thing on her mind when she hasn't even started making dinner yet, then she's gotta clean up, do the dishes and give the kids a bath and get them ready for bed. And do you think it would be nice of me to ask her if she wants to have sex, the poor woman's exhausted.

 

After being here for years I still don't know when @Jack Mine is riffing for fun or telling the truth.

 

Because I need more than he is willing to give...it's very complicated. I don't just mean 'more' sex....but there are things he's not willing to do, and some things personality wise he's just not able to do....

 

With me it was more things that i didn't want him to know about me. Easier to be that way with someone i don't know.

 

Sex it's always for sex....

 

My first time was nostalgia...at my reunion and remembering all I did in school. Then I started because we were in bad financial state and we needed to not get evicted. That led to my current job position..

 

Most guys come to me because their wives have lost interest or just aren't showing them any affection and interest.

 

Never have and never will. I've gone to him if I was in the situation that it crossed my mine for 2.5 seconds and we fixed that. So now if I ever feel the need for whatever stupid reason we will find a way... one way or the other. But we will have communicated first. It's called self control and respect....

 

Well, currently I'm in a partially open relationship, so it's not cheating now. When I did cheat it was purely selfish. I'm very self-conscious and hate my body. Hubby always tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc, but I feel like he has to say those things because we are married, and that he sees the girl I was 25 years ago, not what I look like now. Anyway, I had a guy show a lot of interest in me, flirting, telling me how hot and sexy I was. He had no reason to say those things. It made me feel good about myself. Then he did things that my hubby wouldn't or couldn't do, and I was lost in it all.

 

The guy who showed interest in you had a good and ultimately successful reason to call you hot and sexy.
Your husband also called you hot and sexy.
Is there another reason why you cheated?

 

Living a life your loved one finds comfort with is not necessarily living the whole truth. Sometimes (often for some) it is necessary to let more of your truth be known. I suspect not all will understand this comment. To them I say, don't judge.