That's pretty much all there is to it, I'm baffled but this is not the first time she suggest such a thing. I have said no in the past but this time she is really pushing it. She is the insanely jealous type so this behaviour is not at all what I would expect.

 

One crazy woman in your life is more than enough to endure, you don't need to add to your drama by adding women.

 

Maybe she wants you to bring another woman home?

 

Has she initiated any steps herself towards that? Has she tried to hook up with other girls? If not, then why bring it up with you?

 

I can see the headlines... Jealousy Murder.

 

See what she says when you tell her,that she should fuck another guy while you watch and see what her reply is.

 

Yeah, if she is the super jealous type this doesn't add up. Either she has a kink that the thought of you fucking another girl gets her wet, or she has a side guy and is feeling guilty. I'm not saying that scenario is the case but... be careful, I hope it's the former.

 

Well, she sends a lot of mixed signals and has never been 100% straight about her kinks. She says she would never be with a girl, but she also says she loves the taste of pussy and that its such a turn on. Then she goes berserker every time some hot chick pops on screen, but she tells me I should get a sidechick to do all the stuff that I like and that she doesnt do. I dont think she has a dude around, I run a pretty tight ship and she hasnt screwed up once (and she is not the brilliant mind kind of girl so, if she does ever screw up I would find out). I told her that if she is ok with it then it might be a good idea, and she spent quite a while signing up to a bunch of dating sites to find me a girl. I honestly no longer know wtf is going on

 

Give it a shot, but tread carefully.

 

Letting her find the girl would b the best idea. If u find 1 then she can accuse u of finding a girl u like better, but if she finds u a girl then ur a bit safer since it was her idea and her girl.

 

Thats exactly what I thought thats why I told her she should find a girl she feels comfortable with.

I dont know what to think of this situation, do girls really have that fetish irl to have her partner fuck around? That sounds extremely unreal

 

Yes some do I worked with a woman who did. It's rare though. She also wasn't the super jealous type either.

 

Anyone else has come across this kind of glitch in the matrix?

 

Why would you even care what's going on with her, she gave you a free card to fuck anyone you want. You didn't say that she wants you to tell her about it or that she wants to know who you're fucking and how you're fucking her. Just don't let her find the girl and fuck whoever you want and if by chance she happens to find out you tell her that's what she wanted you to do, you put the blame on her. Plus you never know you just might find a better piece of ass.

 

It means one of two things.

1. She is already fucking another guy(s) (possibly wants to, but I'd bet it is past that), and that's her way to cover her own butt now able to say if caught "you were fucking other women."
2. She wants out. If she is that jealous yet wants you to fuck other women she can pass it off as a test later to you and even herself that you failed. Naturally the point is for you to fail.

Personally I'd bet it's 1, or 1 and 2. Jealous people are typically jealous not so much in that they fear losing someone, yet they know themselves and what they do. So fear that you're doing like them, and so try and bully their spouses into basically becoming eunuchs. Then naturally they don't want you in that you're not the person any longer they cared for, a pussy, a wimp, even though it's what they demanded. Frankly I have no idea why anyone tolerates living with a jealous person. It's a lose-lose from beginning to end. Naturally they can never do anything to try and keep you in that "why should they change" all while they ask you to jump through hoops to keep them demanding that you change, and 99% of the time it is for no justifiable reason.

Write down on a piece of paper "I lied, I have not cheated on you ever" and seal it in an envelope. Hand it to her and tell her that you have done as she asked and started seeing a side gal, and then when she flips out and you know her reason, tell her to open the envelope, then do what you must. If you won't/can't do what you should, then simply tell her to never bother you again with such a suggestion or her jealous BS.

Hush....an alias

 

I dont believe this but on the assumption this has any basis in fact I am going to say this:

She is either cheating on you, or wants rid of you but doesnt want to come out with it or possibly both.

Sorry to be the barer of bad news.

 

If she is really as jealous as you say, then I would say she is either testing you or she's nuts. Either way, I wouldn't want her as a gf.

 

Well here is a test you can try out. As a percentage how many Woman want their partner to go out and fuck other woman, let alone encourage them to do so.

Now lets try that one again this time with Little Miss Jealous

She is either testing you which is a pretty shitty thing to do or she wants to end the relationship. Either way things are looking pretty bad, time to have a conversation with her about how she wants to proceed ( and this under no circumstances involves bringing anyone else into the mix)

 

this sounds like my ex,she acused me of cheating when she was the one cheating on me, so i bet she has a side chick,and feels guilty. so talk to her and find out why the change all of a sudden. me thinks something is going on here!!