What is your opinion on older women being sex mentors for young men?

I think it's great as a 19 year old guy myself I would love for an older woman to show me the correct way to pleasure a women.and also I find older women just as attractive as young ones

 

I love the idea

 

I was 19 when, after a physically and mentally disastrous ignorant attempt at sex at 17, a 38 year old woman 'mentored' me and it was the best thing for me, and future partners, that ever happened to me.
She was my tutor, in other subjects, at university. Was she wrong? I don't think so; I was of legal age (in UK) and a more than willing participant and she possibly saved me, and partners, from years of sexual ignorance and unhappiness.
30 years later I still think of her and thank her.
I don't know what she got out of it and to be honest I don't care because I got a very good 'tuition' in all aspects of sex - from the anatomy of a woman, through the many and various ways of arousing, to the many and varied ways of fucking. She started off by making me study diagrams and then her body; she taught me about breasts, nipples, labia, clit and vagina; about the use of my hands, fingers, mouth and tongue; she taught me about self control (not easy for a hormone charged 19).
It was only when, weeks later, I 'graduated' in these subjects that using what she had taught me that she (at long last) let me attempt/have penetration.
I can still remember the first time I experienced all the sensations and pleasures that that and my first 'real cum' gave me.
I can still remember the first time when (eventually) I experienced the sensations and pleasures of giving a woman an orgasm.
My final 'graduation test' was when she introduced two of her friends, of a similar age, into the 'curriculum'.
We used to get together occasionally over the next 7 years until she got a job over-seas.


I still like the idea of so called 'primitive tribes', where at puberty the young are initiated into sexual matters by special selected, caring and experience members of the tribe.

 

This is real sex education. Should be, if not required, at least available to all that want introductory education. Better yet have a woman and a man as co-instructors so the student, man or woman, can ask for whatever education they desire.

I wonder if this could be legally accomplished. It's education, not prostitution. This is 'Merica so fuck publick edjukayshun. We can have govmint fund a sex-ed curriculum Charter School.

 

What's in it for the woman?

 

I loved it ! When I was 40 my husbands nephew of 18yo , moved in with us while he went to college here.
I like to think I turned a nigh eve virgin , into a Man and a great lover ! He thanks me every time I see him, and his new wife even thanked me Too!
They were 4 very interesting years, I even learned some new tricks too !

 

I don't know if I want to be taught anything but rather go on an explorative journey with my young lover learning and teaching each other how to please and pleasure each other, for ever forging that link in our relationship.

 

I've somewhat been in this position a few times.

 

It is indeed.
It does not matter how comprehensive or how in-depth the 'standard sex education' is, how many diagrams and pictures you have been shown, once you are being educated for real they mean nothing.
Speaking as a man, the first time you see a real woman, see the 'wonders' of her, see the curves and contours of her breasts, the swell of her belly, the rise of her mound, feel the softness and differences of her labia lips, feel the numb of her clit, see and feel the twin domes of her butt and the curve of her thighs, see her in all her 3D beauty the flat diagrams in books mean nothing.
Nothing classroom taught can prepare you for the different scents of a woman and the effects they can have. Nothing classroom taught can prepare you for the levels of arousal you will feel, nor teach you how to 'control' them for mutual pleasure. Only a CARING experienced woman/or man can teach these things.
In every other activity in life, where there is a possibility of failure/unhappiness, possibly lasting a lifetime, or even danger, learners are expected to have a qualified trainer or instructor.
This role, in certain societies, looked on as been uncivilized, is carried out by CARING members of the society and looked on as being the norm. In some it is thought that this is a role that can be carried out by prostitutes, incorrectly, as they neither have the care, nor time, to spend initiated the inexperienced and 'time is money' can lead a total misunderstand of all that good sex entails.

I doubt if with all the 'civilized' hang-ups about sex whether the 'utopia' of the uninitiated being taught by the experience will ever happen - but if the uninitiated is with-in the age range of consequential sex and there is no 'forcing' on the part of the experienced, then society should accepted it for all the future sexual happiness and pleasure it can lead to, not treat it as being unacceptable and/or a crime.

 

I think it would be awesome to find an older woman like that

 

Each one teach one older more experienced women are the best I'm just saying especially ,because they been in training and know exactly what to do and how to do it best. they ain't scared to be themselves.so older freaks hmu ladies I'm willing to show u a Thing or three. look I'm experienced so let's experiment sexual pleasure how we know it hmu women.

 

What happens when the student exceeds the teacher?

Thinskin

 

The teacher gets better by learning more?

 

I (kinda) believe that ideally, it is best for a young couple to learn together, make mistakes and learn from them, develop your own sexuality instead of taking on your more experienced mentor's. The guy I'm with now is about 10 years younger than I. He was a virgin when we met. I seduced him. I often regret robbing him of the opportunity to find a girl his own age, fall in love and learn all about sex together. Trial and error leads to trial and success, sometimes. Unfortunately, too often, trial and error leads to divorce.

 

Older women are considered sex mentors for young men but older men are considered perverts for having sex with young women, go figure?

 

I don't want to teach or mentor anyone who actually does not know how to have sex. I don't foresee getting anything out of it and I'm not a charity. Younger men who know what they're doing are awesome - damn, they can go and go and GO - but I want to be getting satisfied too.

 

And how are young men supposed to learn 'how to have sex' - they are by nature not the best pupils left to their own devices, and school education does not (really) help.
Are they expected to learn, most likely incorrectly, by 'fumbling and poking' with those of their own age who also know nothing - a case of the blind leading the blind - fraught with danger when there are so many 'traps and pitfalls' lurking.
The best way for a young man to learn is to be firmly taken in hand (pun intended) by somebody of experience and understanding.
Teachers, in all subjects, can 'get something' from teaching, the pride in a job well done by the final success of their pupils and certainly do not have to be charities to teach. Often times teachers can also learn something new from their pupils adding to their own knowledge and future happiness.
What is the point in having knowledge, of anything, if it isn't passed on, leaving each generation to take years to reach the same level of knowledge?
If it had been passed on the recipients and those they associated with could have been enjoying life and happiness, maybe in their turn passing their knowledge on and adding to it - that is the way to development and progress, ever adding to the 'map of sex', not leaving the unknowing to 'fight their way through the jungle of inexperience', many getting lost and dying of starvation of happiness and fulfilment.
Sex, in the so called 'civilised world', is the only subject where passing knowledge of a physical activity on (with-in the law), in a hands on way (pun intended), by experienced tutors is frowned on. Anybody who needs to make their living by using tools, of any kind, needs to be shown how to safely and advantageously use those tools and the whole human race, to be living happily, needs to know how to safely and advantageously use its 'tools'.
Of course as in everything else in life in sex there will be those who will quite happily take advantage of the 'training', without having contributed anything towards it

 

I was fortunate enough to be with a woman who was several years older than me. I was 21 (still am) and she was 28. I learned a lot from her and she was very patient with me, which paid out well for both of us in the long run. Hell I even taught her a few things that my sad virgin mind had come up with at the time that she ended up enjoying. So it can definitely be a good experience with the right person. One issue I can see with this is if one person is in it to take advantage of the more inexperienced person instead of helping to advance their sexual understanding. In that case it can probably be pretty dangerous for a person's ego and sexuality in the long run, having a bad example being set that someone else will likely have to fix down the road. Don't take advantage of people folks, you'll fuck them up :/