my wife has never orgasm when we have intercourse, but she goes all the time when I lick/rub her clit
i can say she has come very close to cumming when having intercourse, but i run out of steam.
do any of you women have this problem or any of you guys have this problem with your wife/girlfriend

PS i don't know if this make a difference buy my wife use to masturbate ALL THE TIME, she is embarrass to admit it but she started maturbating when she was 8 years old and did it almost everyday of her life until about 22 years of age, right before i met her.

 

if that had anything to do with it then hell i would never orgasm and i orgasm through penetration usually 5-20 times when i have sex with my husband and i started masterbating when i was 8 and i did it ALL the time

 

I'm positive she stopped almost completely, yes she has mastubated since we got married but it's been maybe 10 times in 4 years, she tells me everytime she does it. she'll call me and tell me she's horny and she touching herself, it doesn't bother me if she masturbates and she know that.
also she does enjoy sex ALOT, with me. we talk about it. it's just it's hard for her to have an orgasm with just intercourse, she has to be touching/rubbing her clit.

 

No i don't feel less of a man, it doesn't bother me, it bothers her sometimes, she thinks she should be able to go during only intercourse. just wanted to make sure that they are people out there that need the extra stimutation to orgasm.

 

I have a question. You said you always run out of steam right when she's close. How long does it usually take to get her close and do you mean got tired or couldn't last any longer? If ya don't mind answering I mean. If you do mind that's fine it's not my business.

 

Most of the time i can get her to go less than 5 minutes, with me licking/rubbing her clit.
when we have sex i'm a marathon man, i usually take about 20-30 minutes or longer, there's only been maybe 2-3 times in 4 years i didn't go b/c i was to tired (heart racing, sweating like a dog, just plain exhuasted) but it also depends how horny i am, you know sometimes you want to have sex but your not that horny and there are times that you are HORNY and you go in 3-5 minutes.

 

Oh ok will did you ever ask her if she's able to orgasm from penetration? I forget the exact numbers but not many girls are so that might be your problem. If not did you try any other positions that might work better for her?

 

She loves doggystyle, another thing she's only has had sex with one person ever, ME , she was virgin when i got my hands on her , i know it's not me(i hope) i've had several partners prior to my wife and everyone of them would have orgasms(with just intercourse)

 

it could be your wife then. not every woman can have an O from intercourse.

 

I am a 68 year old male and started masturbating at an early age too. After going through my idiot teenage attempts at sex I became more experienced and learned that I could not orgasm more than once without loosing interest immediately thereafter... so I tried my best not to orgasm till my wife was completely satisfied. I hated having cum and she's still working on her 8 or 9th. My wife has masturbated every single day since we've been married. Not to say that it has never happened, but normally she cannot get off without direct clitoral stimulation.

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Lots of women don't achieve orgasm during intercourse. I'm not one of them, thankfully. But most women need some kind of clitoral stimulation. In some positions, that happens during intercourse. You can kind of grind against it when you're on top, for example. Don't just thrust, that may do it for you, but not always for her.

As for masturbation, it probably was good for her. Women's bodies get "programmed" to have orgasms, and the more they have, the easier it is to have them. So, if you'll excuse me.... :wink:

 

My wife gets off easier from oral. So I make sure she gets what she needs first, then she lets me do as I please with her

 

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