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Who is likes to be dominate and who is submissive?

  1. I am dominate and I want to be in charge.

    18 vote(s)
    20.0%

  2. I am submissive. Just tell me what to do.

    35 vote(s)
    38.9%

  3. I am a switch it depends on my mood.

    33 vote(s)
    36.7%

  4. I am not into the dominate or submissive thing shut up about it!

    4 vote(s)
    4.4%
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  1. Damifudo

    Damifudo Sex Machine

    Joined:
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    Sep 26, 2016
    Bump
     
    #21
  2. coraline

    coraline The Witchy Woman

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    I am a switcher
     
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    #22
  3. slutwolf

    slutwolf Porn Star

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    I am not labeled.
    The fact that I've enjoyed many fun times in NS relationships with self proclaimed subs , dose not label me Dom. I just enjoy life with fun people I get on with and like , and been lucky to know so many :)
     
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    #23
  4. CharlesWolf

    CharlesWolf Porno Junky

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    I'm mostly sub, but I've been dominant with women who prefer that.

    Also, not into the whole "lifestyle" thing - it's just a fun, sexual roleplay type thing and then I/we get on with my/our lives.
     
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    #24
  5. Kristie2288

    Kristie2288 Sex Lover

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    For me, I am a switch and it depends on the gender.

    If I am with a guy or girl, I am submissive the first few times and they need to make all the first moves. After a while, I will demand it. But if I am with a guy who likes ass play or a girl that craves pleasing me, then I dominate.
     
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    #25
  6. Damifudo

    Damifudo Sex Machine

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    Sep 26, 2016
    A guy that loves ass play.
     
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    #26
  7. xxxsexydegurlxxx

    xxxsexydegurlxxx Sex Lover

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    Sep 26, 2016
    submissive with men and older women, Dominant with younger or inexpiernce women
     
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    #27
  8. Oooosch

    Oooosch Amateur

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    Sep 27, 2016
    Pure Submissive.
     
    #28
  9. cockandcumlover

    cockandcumlover Amateur

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    Sep 28, 2016
    I am totally passive and totally submissive, always have been, always will be.
     
    #29
  10. Trina Spunkt

    Trina Spunkt Porn Star

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    Jan 27, 2017
    i'm mostly submissive, but i will take control once in a great while with the right partner.
     
    #30
  11. kinky bastard

    kinky bastard lingerie lover

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    Jan 28, 2017
    Sub all day long love to be dominated and humiliated online and in person
     
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    #31
  12. titsMaria

    titsMaria Amateur

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    Jan 28, 2017
    Submissive all the way. Hubby has complete control over my sex life. He organises all my partners and even directs how I am to be fucked. When it comes to sex he says I am a fuck doll, simply available for male pleasure. He enjoys sharing me out and making me into the biggest slut and whore he can. Luckily I love cock and am addicted to cum so it suits me fine.
     
    #32
  13. randallgossip

    randallgossip Bad Wolf

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    Jan 28, 2017
    heh heh... you said "pole"
     
    #33
  14. KatiBadbaby

    KatiBadbaby Amateur

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    Jan 28, 2017
    I am choosing option number 2 and I am submissive
     
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    1. jhnthis
      Do you Choose it? Or do you really not have a choice? Is it just the way you're wired?
       
      jhnthis, Feb 20, 2017
      #link
      VenusInFurze likes this.
    #34
  15. paulsuna

    paulsuna Porno Junky

    Joined:
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    Feb 18, 2017
    I joined an adult male dating site to be the submissive because, after a few trysts with older brother, I craved taking it in the ass.
     
    #35
  16. mjsmaster

    mjsmaster Porno Junky

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    Apr 28, 2017
    I was the Dominate in every relationship I had till just a few months ago when I meet a Female Dominate who totally intrigued me. I got so caught up in her desires to take control of me that it was not long & she showed me the other side of the coin. I was put into the position of the Sub & was so caught up in the situation, she was doing to me what I'd done to man, all of my life. The other side of the coin was so intriguing while under her control that I have been looking on line for Female Dominates who want to play on line in a role play scenario, I have not been having much luck.
     
    #36
  17. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    Apr 28, 2017
    Omfg "dominate" is a verb not a noun. This is one of my biggest BDSM pet peeves. Dominants dominate.

    I'm obedient to my Master. I'm a bottom to people who top me, and a top to people who bottom to me. I'm a Domme to my sub. I'm a masochist but I can do that from the bottom or the top.

    I hate the word "switch" because it sounds like turning it on or off. I'm always myself, and different aspects come out in different situations.
     
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    1. thinskin
      Yes but you have grown since you took your sabbatical Venus!

      ts
       
      thinskin, Apr 28, 2017
      #link
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    #37
  18. GeekBoy28

    GeekBoy28 Porn Star

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    For the most part I am submissive. I will almost always defer to someone else's desires. There are a few things and a few times that will flip a switch inside me, and I will need to be in charge once that happens. Once I am in that mode, I will not be controlled by anyone else, and others will either yield to me, or will get out of the way.

    My wife is of a similar personality, which often causes conflicts between us. A friend of ours who is also a sub (in the BDSM sense as well as in the rest of her life) once told me that she and I would never get along because 2 subs can never be truly happy together. Our friend will also switch when the situation dictates, but she much prefers to be a sub.
     
    #38
  19. noboat

    noboat Porn Star

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    Apr 28, 2017
    When the panties hit the floor i submit
     
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    #39
  20. naztypanty

    naztypanty Porn Star

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    I picked "Switch" but it is more complicated. With females, I am only interested in being a man. But that does not necessarily mean "top." It is more "male"... ie, as a male I am "usually" the initiator of sex and I am usually the one on top who sets the pace. But I am also TOTALLY into making sure she has an orgasm using my mouth to stimulate her clitoris. I have had sex and not had an orgasm and been totally happy.
    I like having sex with men. Then I am interested in exploring the roll of a submissive. However, I have never been able to totally release control of my right to stop whatever seems unpleasant or unsafe. And, I am also happy to play the "top." In my experience with guys, they mostly want to be topped anyway.
    Sexuality is, for me, a moving, blurry point on a jagged line.
     
    #40
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