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  1. kneesatmyears

    kneesatmyears Newcumer

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    I was in what I guess you would call a D/s relationship, but I never see stories that reflect my experience. He didn't want a girl who liked taking a load on her face/anal/humiliation of various sorts he wanted her to take it despite her preferences. Is this really very rare? I lived with this man for eight months because I wanted money and he gave me a lot of it. (And aside from the sex it was pretty cushy .) My sexual satisfaction was never the focus, only his. He would have me do degrading things to "show my devotion" often so that someone else would see what I was willing to do for him, (or what I would let him do to me). Is there no interest in stories where the girl doesn't come from getting fucked after she's blown his buddy in a restaurant , or she licked his ass until he was ready to blow his load? Are there stories where the moans from getting her asshole stretched or nipples pinched are not because it gives her multiple orgasms, but because it hurts and she wants it to be over? I have stories to share, but now I'm thinking no one would want to read them. What category would they even be in? Maybe this guy was wierder than i thought he was? When I was dancer in a place with a busy VIP room, it seemed like a lot of my customers were into using me, not pleasing me. I met him through the owner of the club, and his thing just seemed like an extension of that sort of kink.
     
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    1. GemmaSwinger101
      I don't know, give it a try?
       
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  2. Wozza6969

    Wozza6969 Porno Junky

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    I'd be interested in reading something like that but I think most guys fantasise that they'll give it to a girl so good in so many ways she won't be able to help herself.
     
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  3. AnnaSiciliana

    AnnaSiciliana Made your girlfriend gay

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    I donct write non-con stuff because I can't sell it. However, the non-con stories I've read eventually end in everyone's orgasm, as usual.

    Personally, I wouldn't care for a story where one participant doesn't get a bit of pleasure out of it. What kind that pleasure may be, is sometimes difficult to describe. Maybe it's not a full-on gushing orgasm, but degradation and objectification are a big turn-on for people as well, and they enjoy the treatment on a different level.

    A story that's essentially just about rape and abuse would hopefully only appeal to a very small set of people.
     
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  4. CharlesWolf

    CharlesWolf Porno Junky

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    Technically, your true-life experiences do count as sex stories.

    They could have some value as research for writers to base their stories on.

    At the end of the day, these stories sound like they'd be more informative than fun.
     
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  5. Joe Blob

    Joe Blob Newcumer

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    I find the stories where a woman likes what her partner likes because he does and for no other reason, may give her some vicarious satisfaction, intriguing. Like by being obedient she is somehow indulging a parent/ child relationship that she never grew tired of. She does what she is told based upon her belief in her partner knowing what is good for her. While both players are legally adults, determined by this site as over 18, such a singularly gratifying arrangement would serve a certain purpose. A purpose which isn't pornography in the vaguest sense. It is more erotic. It is intriguing only due to its descriptions of acts and behaviors. No one will be stroking or jilling off to it in two minutes, so here it has no redeeming value.

    Sexual release for some of us is no more important a function than blowing one's nose or urinating. It can be done without up to the point when we can't stand it, forgotten about entirely, or indulged so much so that it becomes dull and boring. So having and keeping a woman to service a need shouldn't be seen as any more abhorrent than a person buying a box of Kleenex.

    Write whatever you wish. Just keep things within the site guidelines and those who are curious will read.
     
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  6. speakeasy

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    I hate to be a Debbie Downer here but I think most of those stories are written by men who, deep down inside think that a woman would enjoy it if she just relaxed and went with it.
    Back in the "old days" most courts found that if a woman had an orgasm then it wasn't really rape. (because she must have liked it)
     
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      They were a bit more realistic back then. But giving a hoot over the phobic wasn't wise.
       
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  7. Perv Otaku

    Perv Otaku Amateur

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    There's a few perspectives on this.

    For starters, a woman enjoying her abuse or rape (even if not at first) makes her a slut, and everybody loves sluts. On the other hand, if the woman never enjoys it, then the guy is just a predator, and speaking personally it's a little creepy having to cheer for the actions of an abusive rapist while getting myself off.

    Here's the other side of it though, lots of women love nonconsent. Reading it, roleplaying it, acting it out. For a lot of them, the appeal actually is the guy using the woman for his pleasure with no concern for hers. Now again, I love that these women like this sort of thing. The idea that a guy would get off on it is somewhat worrisome. When I read or watch rape porn these days I get off thinking about the women that would love to be that rape victim, and not by thinking of her as an actual victim or by thinking about how much the rapist is getting off. That's a little convoluted, I suppose. This problem is also why such stories are near universally from the woman character's perspective, not the man's.

    So yeah, probably there should be more stories with women that are totally unwilling, don't enjoy what happens to them, and remain that way throughout the story. What you said about doing it for money is a good framework for a story, with an ongoing internal conflict between wanting to leave to end the abuse and wanting to stay for the cash, with a dose of self-loathing in there too I'm sure. That's probably more classified as consensual nonconsent, possibly similar to a blackmail sex slave scenario, as compared to outright rape or a kidnapped/imprisoned sex slave. It's definitely different from the more BDSM flavored sex slave stuff, where the slave outright gets off on humiliating and abusive treatment, i.e. drive her to tears begging for it to stop but later she'll say she enjoyed it and can't wait to do it again.

    I wrote a story recently that toys with the idea of the rape-fetishist woman that enjoys the idea of not enjoying, and force her through rape situations where she can't tell if it's real or a game, if she likes it or doesn't. Frankly it was intentionally meta, meant to fuck with the heads of rape-fetish female readers. I don't know that I would have it in me to write a story where the woman just suffers outright with no benefit to it, but if you do write about your experiences or a story based on them, please let me know, I'd love to read it.
     
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  8. CharlesWolf

    CharlesWolf Porno Junky

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    In my story, ROOKIE COP CAPTURED BY WHORES !!!, I had originally considered writing the story with a female protagonist and, had I done so, there are a few things that I would have felt obligated to change tonally.

    Thinking about this, I'd gather that most of the rape stories on this site use a fantasized version of the act, that pretty much skirt around the actual consequences and aftermath of what an actual rape would be like for the woman.

    Also, any sex story (esp. one involving non-consensual sex) where the antagonist doesn't get aroused and/or have an orgasm, doesn't sound like a fun story.

    It's kind of like interviews I've read/listened to, where the dominatrix drones on and on about her role being more about power than about sex. Just a buzzkill.
     
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  9. Veronikakay

    Veronikakay Amateur

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    I would love to read your stories
     
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