ok...yes im a virgin, sadly. But i need help, i have a gf and i wanna know how i could ask her to have sex??? should it be when we start making out and just go on from there? or jus ask her, let fuck?? help

 

Start with foreplay, then move on. If you're comfortable with each other, it will either happen or you'll talk about it. If you're not comfortable with each other, I for one suggest getting comfortable before you start having sex.

It's a close, personal thing. There's no advice that anyone could give you that will be better than you reacting with intuition and intimacy.



Oh, and don't forget to jump up and down and point at your dick.

 

Yep what Caff says.

Also I know its an issue in our society about getting consent on every move..well..if she says no its NO..

but if you take it as slow an easy as can be I doubt she will.
I hope for your sake..

when I was a kid..well..no meant you had to push harder and she would give in..so..I'm glad I'm not your age ..good luck..

 

ROFLMAO!!! Oh my god Caff, you kill me!!!

 

I'm sure you won't, but don't say "let's fuck...When you're in the heat of it all tell her that she turns you on and how much you want her. Believe me that will work much better. If you feel her hesitate let her know you're willing to wait until it's feels right for her also....Good luck with it and I'm hope it be wonderful for you both...:rose:

 

Well, you could tell her that you've just been told by your doctor that you have only weeks to live, and that you don't want to die without first experiencing heaven on Earth...

Okay, scratch that.

The others have it right. There's no magic here, just let it happen when it happens. Make sure she knows your interested, be honest about your feelings for her, and she'll probably give you the green light when she's ready.

 

Where you think you are, American Pie? I don't know any non-hooker who ever responded to "let's fuck" in the affirmative.

Best thing to do is just ask her about it. You can use the line about "taking the relationship to the next level" or you can just cut the crap and be honest with her. Just tell her (not while you're hands are on her tits) that you've been thinking that you'd like her to be your first time, but you wanted to talk to her about it and find out what her feelings are.

Is she a virgin also? That makes a huge difference. Some girls can be funny about how they give it up.

I hate it when people post really vague questions with no supporting details and then expect us to solve all their problems. We ain't the collective conscience of Dr. Phil you know. There is a lot of sexual/life experience on this board that has the potential to help you in many ways, but you have to ask the right questions. You just go posting willy-nilly with no thought about the question you want to ask or how it could be answered and you get a bunch of vague responses and smart-asses like me.

So, I'd like to offer you some sound advice, but you have to start with giving some sound background info.

-S-

 

if you really love this girl then you will wait till she is ready and by that i dont mean that you should ask her "hey you wanna fuck" just takes things slow but when you get the chance, cram her.youll know what to do when it happens