I have been married for 3 years now, I am married to a wonderful and very hot guy, Im 39, he is 49.

Before getting married, we drew a contract together. He is a very attractive, successful men, I am an attractive, but a bit large women. I was crazy about him, he was a bit strange around me because I was not like the thin women his friends where telling him to date.

One day, this drove me nuts and I told him I would do what ever he wants to just go ahead and get married and leave this BullShit behind... He thought about it for a bit and put it on paper, a contact before getting married,

These are the points, the contract was super long, several pages, so I am just small descriptions of the whole document, I am a horrible speller.


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From the day of marriage, I Amanda XXXXXXX am to be used by my new husband XXXXXX XXXXXXX as his sexual slave, this includes the duties of:

- No clothing indoors, regardless of place as long as its not a public location or otherwise requested.

- Minimum of 2 blow jobs to completion per day.

- Must provide sexual favors for my husbands friends if requested by husband only.

- If any fluids are put into my mouth by my husband or his friends, I am to be grateful and swallow.

- Husband is allowed to bring other women home for sex, this sexual encounters might not include me.

- Vaginal and anal sex are to be provided as requested.
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This is just a small piece of it, it also includes non-sexual shores at home and outside the house.

Yours thoughs on this contract as a guy? any of you men or women ever been in one of this contracts?

i am not complaining about the contract, its more out of curiosity to see if this is common.

 

My Goddess, do you enjoy being his sex toy and slave. I would pay 10million dollars for a woman like you.

 

I love it. :wink:

Thanks,

 

sorry .... but thats just wrong.... on your boyfriends part or husband whatever.... u need a better guy he sounds like hes using you...... i could be wrong dont take what i say seriously just think about it..

 

DrUnkenLullAbie:

I know I am being used, this is not new, this has been going on for 3 years.

As weird as this might sound, I was a bit weirded out about it at first, but I am ok with it and actually enjoy it. I posted this message out of curiosity to see if its common, or to see what people thought about it.

 

It makes me sad and makes me sort of feel sick.

Aren't you a real person?

 

This has to be a wind-up, right.....

If it's true, do you get any pleasure out of this?

 

Well, again, it sound weird and it was weird for me for a while, but to tell you the truth, I really enjoy it now.

 

First off, it's not a legal contract. Any contract containing anything illegal is null and void. And a slave in the U.S. is illegal, even if you're willing. So really all it is is something to make you feel dominated. To make you feel as his slave and to give him a bit of a power trip.

My personal feelings is that it don't bother me none. I'm not sure why anyone would care. She's not actually forced, she can leave at any time, and as she said, she enjoys it. I personally find it distasteful, but it's not my life. Whatever tickles yer' pickle, darlin.

I'm curious if this makes you a kept woman, per se or if you have your own life outside the contract. A job and the like. Does the marriage have an actual pre-nup that will hold up in court or if he drops you or you him, do you get anything out of the deal?

Just curious.

-S-

 

Sounds borderline s and m.

I'm not going to judge or take sides on the matter but I think you should realize that such contracts are not at all common!

 

That's utterly ridiculous.
Only two blow jobs a day!




no but seriously folks, I could never treat a person like that even if I had their approval. The more I think of it the sadder it seems.

 

My thoughts are that it strikes me as a bit odd and seems if you are doing all the giving in your marriage, but if you are truly happy with it, it is your life.

Somthing though to consider. You describe your husband as attractive, hot, and successful. Yourself you describe as attractive, but large, not thin like the types of women that his friends presumably think is attractive. Reading between the lines, I only hope that you are not doing all the giving for fear of losing him and not finding someone else.

 

I've never known anyone to have a "contract" like this. It makes me very sad. People shouldn't treat each other like this.

 

Here is a safe link to actual exerpts from a marriage contract. The husband was arrested for and involved in some pretty freaky stuff.

Contracts like this are a power trip. Ultimately, it comes down to somebody valuing their own sense of power over another human being. I love my girlfriend too much to want her to sign a paper saying she has to blow my friends when I tell her to.

No offense, of course. If you like it, then you like it. Do your feelings come from love?

 

Sounds like he has your lives mixed up with the book " The Story Of O ". A great book and movie. BUT,that's exactly what it is.Just a book!

 

Like the other mature males here, I would never treat a woman like that, whether or not I cared about her. I have always put her first. Sex is never just to satisfy me.

 

Personally I like it... As of right now I have no complaints over it.

I love my husband. 8)

 

That's what i like about this forum, i get to hear some amazingly rediculous stuff that i would never have thought existed.

Other than that i have no comments.

 

Personally I'm surprised by the reaction of some posters on here. Right at the start you said you suggested the whole thing and have repeatedly said that you enjoy it. Obviously you simply enjoy being the submissive and have your partner dominate you. I see no issue with that whatsoever, and I disagree with assertions by some that this relationship means that your man is treating you badly. He's treating you exactly how you asked him to.

It's certainly not to everyone's tastes, and I will admit it's not to my own, but if it's what turns you on and you are happy then it's just another kink as far as I see it.

 

The idea of it in complete with a written contract isn't to my fancy... I think I would only go so far and be in submissive mood as and when the mood strikes. While it may not be to everyone's taste, I imagine that many people have some sort of agreement like this, written or otherwise. Some mentioned things are what many would do anyway, although not exactly as mentioned.
If you both enjoy it, and it's not forced, then where's the problem?
I just hope that there's room to negotiate should the tables be turned....