Hey im new to the forums.

This is quite a common subject i spose.... but, do people think porn is "wrong", am i a gigolo/slut/whore/bitch/slag is i just register on a forum to discuss my emotions openly.?

There are issues of morality involved, whether it is right or wrong to show parts of your body, to talk about your body in a certain way, most of these ideas are portrayed by the church.

People think that if you "like" sex you are a slut etc etc. but really..... what has it to do with them, sex is natural.... why do they have to pry into our lives as if they are always right?

I would like people to think about the many issues and arguments about this subjects, views and comments appreciated.

 

Porn

Hey: I see it as total freedom of expression and free flow of ideas of any and all kinds.. It just so happens that porn and sex is the center of this forum.... Opinion is far ahead of the question of right and wrong..

 

CONTROL. Thats the answer.
People like to be Control freaks.
Thats why they go into our lives and tell us whats right and whats wrong.
But its our own lives! We do what we want.
Dont listen to them, fuck the system!

 

I love sex and everything sex related. I also am a christian, and I don't see a problem with that. Also, loving sex does not make me a slut (thank you very much!).

I always say, if it feels good do it. You only live once, might as well make it good.

 

I have learned the hard way listening to how I was brought up and thinking sex in general was not lady like. Spreading your legs etc was not lady like. Its great that your questioning these things now. Sex is natural and don't let anyone at any time let you think otherwise.( But be safe doing it!) I had to look into myself and do alot of reading to be happy with myself and be able to enjoy and be open with my husband because of how I was taught and told my entire life. I know differently now and my sex life is very enjoyable and mow I am trying to make up for all those years I let pass me by. Do what you feel confortable with and follow your heart & body to sexual pleasure!

 

Exactly my point 8)

 

Leviticus? Wasn't that written about 3 days before the previous post in this thread?

 

Often, I live too far into my own head, forgetting that there is a (more often than not, thin) societal shell of 'Shame on you!'. I was messaging a woman with whom I'd recently gone out to have coffee. We get along just fine and are rather open about things 'respectable' people consider over the line. This is true in both in-person and remote company. In the message, I made an off-hand joke about her vibrator coming up as a suspicious item during the carry-on screen at the airport. Radio Silence.
She later downplayed her disappearance as having to tend to her daughter's school but she didn't jump right in about TSA inspectors and the anticipated frowns, nod etc., either.
It is really nice to be in a forum like this where I can be as fully perverted as I really am, without anyone mistaking me for an actual creep.

 

Yes,

Whatever religiosity you may embrace; I can't pretend to know 'god' but I can't imagine a universe in which this god does not want us to enjoy intimacies with others we like, love, admire and with whom we want to be close .

 

It's the sole right of every individual to express themselves sexually in their own way and to that no one should impede their journey. Though many take their religion to the extreme by forcing it upon others, I think there's a valid argument for being cautious in reserving one's indulgences to avoid the point of recklessness.

 

I don't and never will quite get why being sexual or indulging in your sexuality is considered some kind of sin. I believe in God but i do not think we are judged as harshly by God as we are by people that think their religion permits them the right to judge everyone for everything they do wrong.

 

The whole 'porn' thing I guess affects some folks more than others.
I never realized when I was learning about sex, that people did it for fun, and NOT just for procreation....
That revelation was reassuring to me because before that I just thought that I was the only perverted boy around.

I've enjoyed sex videos since the first I was able to get my hands on some.
Although the seemed perverted and lewd at first I couldn't help wanting to participate in what I was watching.
Those early days are pretty tame compared to what is being created today, visually.
Now, at my age, it seems people are way more into more 'kinky' and odd ways of being sexual than I was.
So, just enjoy sex, as long as you just don't hurt anybody else along the way.

 

I'm of the opinion that a whole lot of people that are against porn have other issues going on. And yes, I do also think it's a control thing. I also know a lot of people that don't watch porn regularly but privately watch a particular type from time to time. A friend of mine always tells me that she doesn't really like porn and hates watching it with her boyfriend but when he's at work, she somewhat fequently watches lesbian port to masturbate to. She won't tell him that she does and she doesn't like him watching it though so it's a little weird.