Why do people enjoy watching their significant other get fucked by someone else I never understood it like personally I would be so jealous and Is there a name for it?

 

Jealousy is a sentiment that comes from feeling insecure. In our case, I've always been convinced that nothing will come between us. Or as we said - we're going back home together. Once you know that for sure, there's no reason there's nothing triggering jealousy, and we could enjoy all fun of threesomes that you will have to miss out on. I always took a moment to watch my wife fucking our fuck buddy, and instead of jealousy, I felt pride - pride for my gorgeous hot and sexy woman, and pride for our relationship being so strong.

It's called hotwifing. There's also cuckolding, but that is (AFAIK) some kinda roleplay where the husband is being humiliated seeing his woman fuck someone else.

 

in this moment of my life i am not willing to share my gf with another man...
but i would not have a problem with sharing her with a woman...

 

@Saint Pablo everyone has their kinks. There is a psychological reason as to why, but dont over think it. Just know what you like, and don't, and don't let anyone but the closest partners to you bend those limits.

 

It's called "here you fuck her for awhile frankly I'm tired of fucking her" now can i PLEASE fuck your wife???

 

I had to make a trip out of town to get some clothes for and overnight trip and found myself locked out of my house for fifteen minutes;. My (Navy) brother-in-law was in town and his car was in the driveway. When my wife finally open the door the covers on the bed were in disarray and the bro-in-law was in the bathroom red faced & holding an erection down between his thighs when I had to get my shaving gear. There always had been a close camaraderie between the two, but I didn't know it he was screwing her too. Years later, after retiring and she had had her 'tubes' tied, we both were living in the same city and she end up working for him in a 'Wedding Card' printing service. The were days, after work, she would go to bed early too tired for sex. I figured he was still screwing her, and me being as perverted as I am the thought of it really aroused me. I would really loved to watch ...

 

I am secure in my marriage, and my wife is my favorite real-live porn star. I love watching her make-out, kiss, suck, fuck, and enjoy the pleasure of another cock. It is incredibly hot, and helping her enjoy intense, overwhelming orgasms, and the sensual, erotic pleasure of it all can't be beat.

 

I can't stand all that cuckold shit but I love to watch my wife being fucked. To me there's nothing sexier than the woman I love demonstrating how horny she is by needing more than one dick. I know she's mine completely so there's only erotic jealousy. If at any time it affected our relationship negatively we'd stop and review it.

 

It's not so much watching other guys (and women) fuck her.
It's more watching her enjoying herself.
*MOST* women are brought up to believe that sex is an intimate encounter between two people in a committed relationship. It's an expression of love, (and it can be all of that) but watching her give herself over to pure hedonistic pleasure is very hot.
She's not looking for romance, spiritual fulfillment or any of the bullshit you read in romance novels. It's just fucking!
You also get a different perspective when you're watching and not participating. You can see her react and respond to different things that you might miss out on when you're a participant.

 

That is not something that I will be watching. If it happens the female will no longer be my wife or even friend.

 

When I was married, my husband loved other men seeing me nude and making love while they watched. Use to invite some of his friend from work over and loved to undress me in front of them. I must admit it was a turn on to me.

 

Dude it's so hot. I love watching my wife's pussy get fucked.

 

I don't understand why anyone would enjoy watching his/her SO having sex with someone else. I can understand it in a group situation where you are participating, although I'm not sure that I would want to be in that situation. But to just watch, no thanks. And I think I would be hurt if my SO wanted me to have sex with someone else.

 

We need a professor Hush interpretation

 

Perhaps if you were more interested in her wants than your own, and viewed her as another human with her own thoughts, wants and feelings other than a possession it might make more sense to you. Even your statement of "sharing her with a woman" smacks of yours to decide for, and for your own entertainment, not her pleasure. My guess is that it is a non-issue anyway, and even if she is sleeping with other men and women, lots and lots of men, fucking and sucking and thrusting and cumming, filling and covering her in their hot spunk... She'd likely not tell you anyways. Gals are funny like that when their lovers treat them like humans rather than something that they own.

But don't sweat it. As long as she showers before coming home, you'll never know.

Hush....an alias

 

If you are jealous then it is definitely not something for you and that is OK, not everyone wants or can handle it and many more think they can but cannot.

For those that do enjoy it and make it work the reasons are too numerous and too personal to each individual or couple to be able to say.

I think Hush is right, it starts by thinking of your partners feelings and wishes first. Then comes how you connect with your partner and what role sex plays in that.

 

I here ya man. I couldn't watch my wife with another guy. With another woman might be fun.

 

I used to get terribly jealous and hurt over cheating gfs. Then I had a gf who was crazy for fucking other guys and couldn't seem to help herself. I forgave her a couple incidents since we were living apart at the time. But then one night she called me and said she really wanted to sleep with this guy. At the time I found it incredible that she wanted my approval for this, and I told her that if she did our relationship was over. I knew she would though since she'd made it clear by fantasies and actual incidents that she'd really like me to watch her with another guy, and this phone call was her way of getting in my head. Well, she did and called me the next day crying not to break up with her, probably hoping that she could tell me all the juicy details. I did break up with her, but with a heavy heart because she was both really sweet and really hot. But here's the thing. That night, while I knew she was fucking this guy, I lay there awake all night with a hard-on. Literally. Even while it hurt emotionally, I had to face my own arousal at what she was doing. It has changed my view of jealousy ever since.

 

Jealously is not the reason I will not see my wife having sex with other men.
It is more a matter of trust. When we were married it was with the belief that we would be faithful to each other.
If I could not trust her to continue with out agreement I could not trust her in any other matter.
Without trust there is no marriage.

 

Cuckolding (that's the term by the way, at least in the case of being married) really isn't something I'm into, but I have an interest in people's fetishes and want to understand them. I can't give a perspective as someone who takes part in it, but I can at least take a guess as to the reasons of its attraction.
1. Masochism. Certain people get off by being denied something or getting mistreated. I imagine being cuckolded would invoke a feeling similar to being tormented by a dominatrix. The more something is kept out of your reach, the more you want it, so to have your SO get fucked by someone else is the ultimate denial of what you want, which could, in turn, make you want it even more.
2. Viewpoint. Unless you have mirrors in the room, it's hard to actually see your SO at different angles during sex. Cuckolding could almost act as like an out-of-body experience, allowing you to step out of the role as participant and become a spectator instead. Think back to when you're banging her from behind, don't you ever wish you could see her from the front? That look of sexual anguish on her face, the bouncing of her tits with each strike? For some people, the desire to see her in that position may be greater than the desire to get her in that position.
3. Objectification. Cuckolding is an act of BDSM, but it can go both ways, offering domination to both partners. If the man ALLOWS it to happen, then that gives him a measure of control over the situation. He goes from being her SO to being her pimp, she goes from being his SO to being his whore, a toy for him to lend out and use however he likes. A long time ago, I saw a porn site where couples were paid money if the man watched his woman have sex with someone else. This can be interpreted in two ways. Either the man sells his woman and dignity for money, OR he claims ownership of his woman as property, and sells her as he would any other commodity. That way even if she is getting fucked by someone else, the man can feel that she belongs to him like an object.
4. A love-hate relationship. We all have times where we want to throttle our SO, it's natural. We all know couples that spend hours screaming at eath other and then minutes moaning with each other. A cuckold could possibly work the same way, in which you're punishing your SO and using another man as an instrument of that punishment. If the man is a sadist and the woman is a masochist, the two of them may get off by having someone else fuck and defile her, especially if it's rough and painful.
5. Competition. We men are naturally territorial and possessive, but so too do we seek conflict. Put a gun in your hand and you're naturally going to want to shoot someone. Perhaps cuckolding can be a means of instigating that conflict, sort of like the Joker never killing Batman because he doesn't want to lose his arch enemy. Your woman becomes the damsel in distress, and after the other guy has had his way with her, you get to re-exert your possession of her, you get to enjoy taking her back like a conquered castle and painting over his scent with your own, sort of like when two dogs will take turns peeing on the same spot. There was actually a law and order episode where that happened. A woman would invite a man to her hotel room, have rough sex like a rape fantasy, and then her husband would burst out of the closet and "defeat the rapist" (usually smashing him in the back of the head with something hard), allowing him to play the hero and then bang his wife.