Just curious on what all your opinions on this subject are.
Would any of you consider cybering as cheating?
Nothing serious, just RPing. Practically just porn, but interactive. But what do you all think?

 

not cheating

 

Leave it to a fellow male to say it isn't. To me, it would be. Unless it's with your S.O.

 

If you feel wrong doing it or think it might hurt your significant other.. then yeah. I mean, I personally would find that to be cheating if my boyfriend did that.. because it's like.. He HAS me.. why would he want someone else instead? It's just a weird feeling to have your significant other want to cyber or do something with someone else.. At least to me it is.

 

This is a yes and no for me here.

Yes because you're going outside the relationship for sexual gratification. I'm not talking about porn or anything, just that you're looking to others that are real people to do for you what she should be doing.

No because if you have no intentions of actually touching someone else or seeking a romantic relationship with them, then it's more just an interactual masturbation.

Either way I think you should see if she would RP with you...either that or think of why you need someone elses input into your sex life other than hers.

 

If your significant other does not know or does not approve, it is cheating.

 

well i met my boyfriend online, and we have a long distance relationship and the internet is a primary way of our communication. so yes i believe it to be cheating. i dont take my online relationships with anyone lightly.
i guess it's because my boyfriend and i roleplay/"cyber" together anyways, and he is the best i've found. he also knows what i like inside and out. it'd be no fun to be with someone else.
also this might help you decide what you think, would you tell your partner that you were doing it? if you say yes then no its harmless and you're not cheating, if you wouldn't tell them, something's wrong. if you can't tell them then it means something more than just getting off.

 

Anything you would not ordinarly do without your S.O. being present is cheating.

 

I'm a yes/no on this. What really matters is if your SO thinks it's cheating. She's the only one who's opinion should count.

 

cheating s NOT a physical thing.....

Its a mental thing!

If you significant other is hurt by it.... ITS CHEATING!

 

if you start getting feelings for the person, yes.

 

So without feelings...its ok?????

But without feelings.... whats the point???

 

if you are just lookin for somethin to jerk off to, and you could care less who is on the other side of the cyber, then, well i'm not really too sure thats cheating. now, if you're in a serious relationship, the guy probably wouldn't do it anyways.

if you're cybering and start to feel yourself growing attatched to the person, and getting feelings for them, then yeah, you took the imaginary sex to another level.

 

I agree with Furred Goddess...for me, it's all about whether or not my husband knows about it. And he does.

But in a relationship where both parties give each other a lot of space...in, say, an "open" relationship, they may not define it as cheating. That's entirely up to them.

 

Thanks everyone

 

i do not think it is cheating. how is it any different from watching a porno and jerking off to that?

 

because you are actually interacting with a person.

I agree with the popular opinion that it depends on your relationship with your SO and how you as a couple define cheating.

 

It's only cheating if your girl finds out. This is a good way to think of it,would get mad or feel uncomfortable if my girl was doing this? if the answer is yes then your probably doing something wrong. Also, would my girl be mad if she found out that I was doing what im doing? AGAIN if the answer is yes then you guessed it your probably doing something wrong

 

If you do whatever you do secretly, with the knowledge that it would hurt your partner, it's cheating.

 

Yeah i say it would be cheating. You obviously not talking dirty to your lover so you must be talking to someone else dirty. Therefore cheating. Unless it turns your lover on of course. Then go for it.