I need a little advice.
read down the question is below.

Last night my wife and me had the best sex we have had in a long time.
Here is a little back ground on the night.

we have 2 year old, so you know most of the time it has to be a quicky.

But last night was different. we put the baby to bed early, we sat down in front of the telly and waited until we were sure the baby was asleep.

we started in the living room, just kissing and fooling around. we moved to the bedroom as the bed is softer than a wooden floor.

we started by the usual, fingering, licking, sucking , you know the rest.
we began to fuck, and tried lots of positions. i was lasting longer than i normally did, and made her cum 3 or four times. while she was having the last orgasm, she stopped and was complaining that she had pinched a nerve in her hip, and got off of me and rolled around the bed in pain.
at this point i hadn't cum and was saying to my self "hurry up and stop hurting". i had got to the point where i knew i was was about to let my load go when we stopped.

And that is where our night ended. I had not cum and the rolling around in pain was a big turn off.

here is where i need advice.

should i play the guilt trip on her, and say she got to cum 3 or 4 times where i didnt get to cum once, so that she offers to make me cum tonight?
Here is what i am thinking. she has never let me cum in her mouth or on her face. so should i tell her she should make it special tonight as i didnt cum and tell her a full bj should make up for the night before.
or should i just have a wank and forget about it?

what do you all think
LTW

 

Can you guarentee that your wife has had an orgasm everytime that you've had one?
I'm not a believer in revenge sex. She doesn't owe you an orgasm.
She was in pain!!! That's something that is a mood breaker for most women.
I fthe situation was reversed what would be her revenge?
If you came before she did and you didn't finish her off some way would she get to fuck you in the ass with a dildo to make things even.
Sex isn't something you do to some one it's something you do with them.

 

after reading alot of your posts, it seems you think you are a little bit above the rest us here.

if you havent noticed this is not a serious web site.

point 1 , yes . even if she is faking it counts.

point 2. who said anything about " revenge sex"

Point 3. i have continued in pain before. to keep her happy. i had a back injury 2 years ago and it took a year to get the surgery.

point 4. see point 2

point 5. i do finish her offevery time if i cum first.

point 6. the dildo thing was the deal when we tried anal the first time.

point 7 ive been done by her and ive done her and we have done it with each other.

point 8 if she said no, i would respect that. we have both told each other no in the past.

 

point 1, a fack does not count
point 2, it is because you guliting her in to somthing she dosnt want ro do
point 3 pain is pain if she cant you shouldnt ask
point 4 see point 2
point 5 good that you see your job done right but you cant expect her to continue in pain remember sex is a good thing not work
point 6 dont see how the dildo thing as you put it relaits
point 7 just take your time be slow pashionate it will happon

 

answers to your points

firstly. i would never make her do anything she didnt want to.


1. if a woman fakes , she seems to want it to count otherwise where is she faking and making her partner think its real.

2. guilt and revenge are 2 different things.

3. i didnt ask last night, that would have been wrong. i understand pain belive me.

4 see 2

5 i acctually agree with that one. i hold my hands up to that one, i shouldnt have expected her to carry on just because i did.

6 see his comment about the dildo thing, then read mine again

7. agreed. we always take it slow and we are very passionate. but i think you ment patient. we also know the meaning of patient, we lived apart for nearly a year and the only sex we had was either phone or cyber and stayed faithfull to each other.

also. she is sitting here, reading these, and helped write the original, just to see peoples opinions.

we think it is best to admit that before this thread gets out of hand.

 

why in hell do you want to blame her????

 

She's sitting here reading this? lol Kinda blows the guilt thing doesn't it? Get over yourself dude. Just cuz dudes blow a load at the first breeze that happens by doesn't mean our ladies OWE us a nut. None of us men ever give our steady girls orgasms 100% of the time. I'm sure you've rolled off her all done and proud of yourself and she's thought "where's my fuckin nut, jerk?"

Just cuz she's yer wife don't mean she needs to satisfy your needs through pain. How bout being proud you gave her a nut so hard she got hurt contracting? I'd be braggin 'bout that shit intead!!!

 

never ever use sex as anything other than what it is: a connection between two people. if your wife was in pain and had to stop, then something was wrong. instead of worrying about yourself, you should have made sure she's ok. i know its hard not cumming, so you could have gone into the bathroom and finished, if you've been together long enough im sure she'd understand that you couldn't just stop that way.

please please please do not guilt her into doing something for you just because she was hurt. that's wrong and extremely immature. then you'd really not have sex for a while.

 

DD

If you read my reply to speak easy point 5. i said i always finish her off when i cum first.

 

Guilt tripping her into getting you off is not the best way. Do not play that card with her it just might blow up in your face. Just rub one out and forget about it.

 

double standards

I guess we got the reaction we expected.

but i have some issues

i can post a thread like this and get ripped to pieces, but someone posts a story including beastiality, incest,and rape of there daughter and friend. or preteen incest. and a thread posting pics of beastiality.

and speake easy, donkey dick, thorney rose and yes dls as beutifull as you are, dont have aproblem with that,hmm smells of double standards to me( and all these things are illegle).

speak easy's only problem with a story including rape of a minor and incest was " you dont indent"

donkey dicks only problem with a story about preteen incest was it is in the wrong section.

thorney rose you didnt have a problem with beastiality, in the post i read of yours.

even dls you said you fantasised about incest, in you post to a thred about it.

the only person here who doesnt seem to have questionable morales for these things is the fox.

If you look at my old posts , you will see only one that could be concidered questionable, and i admit it was a poor choice at the time, but i was a teen and so was she and teens make bad decisions, it is part of growng up.

so before you start to question others look at yourselves first.

ltw

 

Sorry Devil i dint see you before i wrote the last post.

you aslo dont seem to have any questionable morales.

i just wanted to add that incase you or anyone else though i had bundled you in with the others.

 

I just know better then guilt tripping a girl like that thats why I say dont do it because its can and will turn bad for you. But thats my opinion.

 

That would be my suggestion.

I find that tit for tat isn't good for a relationship ... but you should do what feels right for you.

 

I find this whole thread, and the premise of it, to be somewhat unpleasant. Writing something purely to get a reaction, and then slagging off those who reacted badly, is not particularly honourable.

Plus, using someone's past history to invalidate their arguments is called the ad hominem fallacy, and uses logic about as watertight as a chocolate teapot.

It is not necessarily morally reprehensible to fantasise about bestiality, incest, or preteen sex. I do, however, believe that it's morally reprehensible to try to get sex simply because you didn't manage to finish - because your wife was in pain. It's not like she just pushed you off and told you she was bored.

In fact, I think it's morally reprehensible to write a thread like this, that seems almost purposely designed so that you can make snide comments about people's fetishes and fantasies.

Oh, and let's see if you can find anything 'questionable' about my morals, asshole.

 

um.... this isnt even a hard one to answer. have a wank and forget about it. do you honestly think that if everything was going as "good" as you said it was that she would've faked a "pinched nerve"? no, she wouldn't of. either that, or she was so spent from four orgasms that you were starting to bore her. been there. the guy takes too long to cum, you lose interest. and im not sure about your wife, but after i cum i cant hear a damn thing, my body feels like jello, and i cant wait to sleep. plus, if im in pain, it's "get the fuck off, im in pain", and i take care of myself. if it happens everday, you have a selfish lover. if this only happened once, jerk off and ask if you can do anything to help her. unless you want to cause tension in your marriage.

 

this wasnt even a serious question? are you kidding me? you posted a question to get a rise out of people and then criticize them? i mean, based on your answers, it looks as if you searched the responders posts, to find faults and then bashed them. wtf??

 

What a fuckin waste of space... can't believe this dude even has a wife. As for jabbin you and not some douchebag fantasizing about raping a preteen, some arguments aren't even worth the trouble. You don't see me in the stories thread rippin on folks cuz they're STORIES!! Do your wife a favor and go wank off in the middle of freeway traffic. Solve the poblem for both of ya.

 

My point exactly, Lisa.

 

somebody who enjoys preteen rape, incest,beastiality and such, is a bigger waste of space than i could ever be.

i have no problem with porn just as long as it is leagle, even if it is just a story or fantasy.
for someone to write a story about preteen rape means they have those thoughts in there head in the first place and are just a step or 2 down the ladder of being a full blown peado. and the same is for fantasys, we have fantasies for one reason... we want to do it but cant for one reason or another. and again some one who has fantasies about sex with preteens is just on the way to stepping over the line and commiting the offence for real.

so with that said you will be glad to here, that i can no longer be on a site that allows cp stories, and the people who read and enjoy them.

i have asked admin to remove me from the forum.

and before you say good ridence. iam glad to be going. i was on my way when i wrote the original thread. which i wrote just to confirm what i already thought.....Double standards.