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  1. Gheist

    Gheist Amateur

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    How can I say this... Well, last night, me and my girl friend were enjoying a nice make out session and well, we got real playful doing a lot of touching and the such. Just when I'm thinking "yay, I'm gonna get lucky," my girlfriend breaks the kiss and tells me she the type who wants to wait till marriage.

    Needless to say I was kinda bummed but really didn't care cause I really really like her. I'd rather have something I can get than wanting something I can't have.

    So to the point of me making this thread. Now, I'm not going to force her to do anything she doesn't want to, I repsect her way to much. Not to mention I'd never force anything on anyone (unless that's what they wanted). My question is is there anyway I could maybe get her to change her mind? Have any of you gone out with someone who's abstinent till marriage and if so, have you gotten them to change their minds?

    If not, oh well. I mean, sex doesn't mean that much so long as I love her, and she loves me.
     
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  2. DonkeeDick

    DonkeeDick Sex Lover

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    Keep doing what yer doing and be patient.. she'll break. Guaranteed.
     
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  3. HLSlaveGurl

    HLSlaveGurl Porno Junky

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    Do you love her?
     
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  4. BeatItUpRight

    BeatItUpRight Porn Star

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    Dated a few girls that were talking about not til im married and I always got in, may have took a few months but I got in
     
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  5. Gheist

    Gheist Amateur

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    Yeah, of course I do. That's why it doesn't bum me out too much that she has that view.

    Well, that may work for you. But the girl I'm going out with is fairly religious for one. Also, I think I'm the first guy she's ever gone out with (don't worry, she's not underage or anything. She's 19). So I think that plays into the situation as well...
     
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  6. Kadajnightmare

    Kadajnightmare Porn Surfer

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    dude, just keep doing what your doing, make sure that she knows your behind her in her decision, shel like you even more and maybe shell change her mind somewhere down the road. but your right not to force anything.
    just hang in there man ur doing great from what uve said.
     
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  7. DaddysLilSlut

    DaddysLilSlut Porn Star

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    be patient...it's worth it--especially if you two love each other a lot
    trust me i know
     
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  8. Gheist

    Gheist Amateur

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    Well, thanks all for your advice! I think it should help.
     
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  9. Jarhead

    Jarhead Porno Junky

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    I had a girl the first night we dated and she said she was that type.
     
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  10. Rain

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    The decision she made to stay a virgin until marriage is a decision she made for herself, not to torment you. If you really do respect her and her choices, then you will not try to change her mind. You might get what you want, but she might also resent you for it. If she does change her mind about having sex, I'm sure she'll let you know.
     
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  11. Gheist

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    I know she didn't choose it to torment me. And I do repect her. I'd never do anything that she doesn't want, I even told her that when we first dated. And I don't want to force her to change her mind but I wouldn't mind if she on her own accord. Like I said, It's not important to me that she has that train of thought, just as long as she loves me and I love her. I know a relationship isn't just about sex.
     
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