So I was wondering how many women out there have ever faked their orgasms before?

 

I have faked orgasms.. but not during sex.. ya know.. when I'm chattin' on the phone.. and they're like.. cuuummm baby.. let me hear ya cuummmmmmmmmm.. and I do.. I give an oscar performance.. even if I do say so meself..

Came in handy when I was workin' as a phone sex operator.. nothin' worse I'd guess than a half hearted.. o yeah take me baby.. give it to me big boy..!!

My number? 0845 oooOOOrgassssmmmssss.......

 

I'll have what she's having.

 

is this question directed at current boyfriends or in general? because it will change what answer i was going to choose, if it's current.

 

Mine're better than that..

 

I'm sure of it!

 

I fake it all the time - that's just being polite, isn't it?


. . . besides, if I made my hand feel like it did all that work for nothing, it may hold out on me in the future, and that could get ugly! :-|

 

And there ya go... a guy posting in a girl's thread.

course now that makes me number two ( oh shit )

 

I am guilty of faking from time to time, I know he is getting tired and I just am not into it so I will fake... or I am hurting too much so I will fake enjoyment. It's a rare thing for me to fake but it does happen.

 

Lol

I didn't include guys because it's obvious if we cum or not.

Girls are a little more secretive and if they are actually good at faking, us men are none the wiser.

And Belle, to answer your question, I was asking for all time boyfriends, exes and all that. Hope that doesn't change your answer if you have already voted.

 

I think a woman who doent fake the occational orgasm...
"has no repect for my feelings", you cant make a woman
cumm EVERY time. So if she fakes a little POP on your behalf
SO WHAT, she cares enough to make you feel good about your
self. Would you prefer her to say...

"I'm not going to cumm so just amuse yourself until your done!"

(or just lay there and take it with no finale?)

No.... its a WHITE lie!

Except it... embrace it!

 

That makes me feel so much better about the times that I have.
I haven't done it that much, but when it gets to the point that it's starting to hurt and he's holding out waiting for me, it's time to fake the big O.

 

no, kryptonite i didnt vote yet. well, chris is the first guy to make me orgasm. i've had some selfish lovers, and American Psycho comes to mind when i remember some of them (the muscle flexing while he was fucking them scene)

 

I have the first time I was with a girl we were both new to it and it wasnt working well

 

I have not faked an orgasm, mainly because I don't believe in the lie. All sexual encounters are different. With my husband, it only took the gentlest caress to make me excited, and sex was always, absolutely earthshattering!

But now I don't feel the same way about sex. I suppose, given time, and the right person, I may get to experience that again, or at least partly. But I am not one to pretend just to boost an ego here, or inflate another there. Sometimes intimacy - sex - needs to be more about giving and receiving comfort than about acheiving the unacheivable!

 

thats right... guys do it too.

 

I use to fake orgasums all the time. It's hard to get me off and when I didn't care about the guy I would. I use to with my babies father to make him feel like he was better in bed when he really wasn't the only reason I'd cum is cuz i'd take control. But with my ex he knew if I was going to or not and is the only one who could control it for me. He's the only one who really put me in totally extascy ever. And I was deeply in love with him. I guess you could say i've faked it my share of times. I've gotten so good at faking it I couldn't remember the last time I had a real one.

 

Yep I have - quite a few times with hubby (probably more fakes than hits actually - but when you consider sex just didnt happen often with him its not that many times LOL), it seemed easier just to get it all over with as he was obviously not that interested so then he could go off and bleach himself (he freaks about any bodily fluids! almost wore a protective suit to change the kids nappies when they were babies) and I could finish myself off properly!

 

I have to vote OTHER

When making porn movies and pics it is necessary to sometimes fake orgasms for the composition of the pic or film.

Real life, I dont ever.

 

I can cum all the time, if the guy has ANY idea of seeing my physical signals and figuring out what to do. As in, pretty much anybody. Every woman's different, but I think it has a lot to do with how much they make themselves cum. If you know your own body and how to climb the mental/physical hills to orgasm, it's a lot easier for someone else to get you there.