Good. We like that.

 

I find most women my age boring in bed. They have no energy. If that makes any since at all. At the same time I brought up the question to see what others thought about it

 

It is just the interests of some, preferably others

 

I know when I was young I enjoyed being in the company of older men, something about them got me excited, their experience, maybe even the daddy image, I never shied away from sleeping with an older man. Having a multi year affair with a boss who was more then twice my age has to say something about the capabilities of older men being able to please women.

 

I've never been impressed by sick kickflips on a skateboard, lots of tats w/no money left to pay for dinner, and i think manbuns look stupid. But a man comfortable in his skin and mature enough to talk to me like I'm a real person.... THAT is attractive. That latter set of men typically end up being older.

 

From a strictly sexual point of view they have their own appeal, been with many guys in their 40s and 50s, they are in my opinion more passionate and appreciative vs younger guys who are more fuck and finish, usually have a better idea what they are doing too

 

I actually find it easier now to have a young woman attracted to me than years ago.

I should try that Amex thing though.....

 

I am having an affair with my coworker. I'm 10 years older than her. She told me she was always Into older guys because the way they treat her differs a lot.

 

What age difference is to much

 

OP: "Yet are they really attracted to older men?"

My wife hopes not. And to be honest, I doubt she has anything to worry about. I don't think "curmudgeon" is much of a turn-on, no matter her age.

 

It is n0t only dumb porn at all.
Every girlfriend I have had has been a few years younger, and I actually married someone 12 years younger, lasted a few years but matters other than age caused a divorce.
My biggest gap was a 25 year old when I was about 40, and she had had a few older than me. She was always attracted to much older men, but in her case could easily have been daddy issues, as her parents split when she was young and she had infrequest contact with her father, and mega problems with her mother. We lived together for a couploe of years fairly happily, but just went different ways, not really age problems.

 

there are many reasons to be "attracted" to older guys.....

 

Yes! The older the better! I couldnt fuck anyone who couldnt look my daddy or granpa

 

I love all ages but I usually find myself fantasizing about older men so I would say yes! For me at least

 

Darwinian Imperatives apply for most hetero-sexual women.
The sexual triangle in "The Quiet American" is a great illustration of that. (Amongst other things)



https://www.wsws.org/en/articles/2002/12/tqam-d17.html

 

We take our time and know what works.

 

Also could be in some cases older guys are longer/ bigger girth downstairs