OK, so my first thread...Damn this site is great!

Anyway, like most guys, I love it when a girl swallows...The thing is, when you start a new relationship asking a girl if she likes to swallow usually isn't a topic that doesn't come up until later in the relationship...And trying to somehow, smoothly bring it in conversation or sex isn't always straight forward...

So the question is, how do you bring up this topic? And how do you convince her to try it (if she hasn't before)?

For the ladies who like to swallow, how did you let your man know you want to do this?

The first time, I got my ex to do it was pretty straight forward...

The first time I got a girl to swallow...
...While getting a blowjob:
...Me; "do you like the way it tastes?"
...Her; "yes..."
...Me, "after f***ing you, can i cum in your mouth?"
...Her; "ok..."
...Me; "do you want to swallow it?"
...Her; "mmm, yah"
...she did...damn it was good...straight out of a porn flic...sometimes i still can't believe it happened (many times actually)...anyway, still turns me on just to think about it...just wish i had it on video or something...hehe

 

Well, I don't see anything wrong with your method...but I would recommend that people just talk about it. I like to talk DURING sex, but the easiest way to approach this sort of issue is when you're basking in the afterglow...it often seems to me that almost any subject is fair game then.

But in any event, I'm the kind of girl who takes matters into her own hands, or in this case, her own mouth. I just do it.

 

I was taught that it is bad manors to talk wth your mouth full.

 

More geat advice from the queen - You'd be amazed at what you can get a girl to "try" when you're in the middle of fornication & foreplay.

 

Hold her nose.

 

I never had to be convinced, I just tried it, and I liked it....

 

Then it cums out her ears

 

actually my gf did it on her own, i was the warn who was shocked.

 

It leads to terrible inner ear infections, too.

 

Why are young people so afraid to talk about sex to each other..???

If your close enough to cum in her mouth.... you should be able to talk!

Try this....

During foreplay, while kissing, fondling, try some sex talk!

Work the swallowing into your dirty talk! Tell her what you want and coax
her to tell you what SHE wants during oral.

This will eliminate misunderstandings or fumbles....
(ie. why did you put your fist up my ass? I hate that!)
and will help make the moment more erotic..... if you like sex talk!

 

If you're close enough, just ask! Don't try to trick her, just ask.

 

well what do you know...these two hit it on the nose again. both ways are great. you'll be able to tell by her reaction if you start dirty talking her about it. if she doenst respond well you can quickly change the subject...and well if she likes it, you know what will happen haha.

and like kimiko said, afterwards is also a great time to share what you're thinking. it's kind of like a "review" of what's happened. and talking about what you two just did and what you want to happen next time is a great way to be honest with each other.

dont be scared to talk to her. if you're having sex, you have to be open.

 

fixed it for ya

 

My girl just let me do it, she didnt like it but iv done it a few times maybe 3 - 4

 

The first time.. I remember that I had to be very forward with telling my ex-boyfriend anything that I liked sexually. He was very... incredibly.. annoyingly prude.. and wouldn't talk to me about it unless I brought it up first. So I just told him after the first time I went down on him.

Of course, after that he told me he didn't want to use me and tried to not have me go down on him very much at all afterward. Hah, it was probably a really bad blowjob considering it was my first. BUT - I could fit it all in my mouth! So yay for me!

But anyway.. if you want to know that sort of thing, you should just ask her yourself. I have yet to actually tell my boyfriend officially that I wouldn't mind swallowing (and would actually prefer that to spitting it out).. I have hinted at it, but you never know for sure.. and I personally can't find the right time to say it.. so.. She'll either just do it herself or she won't, I guess. To get a better answer, just ask if you're so curious. ^_^

 

Its really cool that so many ladies on this forum have responded to this topic...I think I speak for most guys when i say, its nice to know there's a lot of women out there who like these sort of things and are open to try and talk about it later...man, where were these forums when i was growing up?? then again, the internet was just 2400k modems and bbs's then...haha

i gotta admit when my ex would swallow again, i always felt guilty afterwards until we got to the point that i wouldn't have her do it anymore even though i knew she didn't mind doing it...just felt like i was taking advantage of her or something like that...so definitely good advice you ladies gave about talking about it afterwards...

 

Hey

Wish my Gf Would Please Let Me KNow How...you did it

 

Seriously, nobody suggested the line "Swallow, or it's going in your eye!" yet??

 

It just never came up she just did it.