Rudeness, inconsiderateness, machoness, most men, assholeness, too.

 

Why do I get the impression you've been recently lied to?

 

I had that feeling too...someone we know?

 

Haha...yeah. My husband lied about something so stupid. It wouldn't have mattered if he told me the truth in the least, but I hate being lied to about anything.

 

He didn't hurt the goat did he?







lol j/k Sorry Sweetie.

 

I know exactly how you feel....

Thankfully, the last time my husband lied to me (or at least, the last time I caught him at it) was when he went to a strip joint with his fellow football nuts. They said they were going to a sports bar, but they seem to have made a wrong turn.

One of the other guys ratted them out to HIS wife. They're all TERRIBLE liars...

 

This probably belongs on the other thread, but one reason I quit lying in general was because my wife could always tell if I was lying, and if I was willing to lie about the little things there was no way she was going to believe me on the big things.

The other part of it was that she has also always been very forgiving and open minded so there was no reason to lie in the first place. I found being able to trust each other without even thinking about it was very important.

So in the case Kimiko used I'd have just told her, hey we're all going out to the strip bar but we're going to try and lie our ass off about it because the other guys wives don't know. On the other hand if one of the other guys wives called and asked where we went well they'd have been busted is all I can say. Because she just doesn't lie.

 

Girls who are rude or ignore you.

 

Not dissin on your post rain, but the irony here is hilarious! lol lol

 

For me, it's a real turn off is too many facial piercings. I love some piercings.. I'm a huge fan of studs and bars (despite me not having any more piercings but my ears.. yet) but I hate facial rings. For me, I really only like rings if their on someone's nipples or ears.

My cousin recently got snakebites and I just find her face very difficult to look at now because of them. I just find facial rings.. lip rings, nose rings, eyebrow rings, etc. to be just frustratingly ugly and off putting. But I'm not a huge fan of too many facial studs/bars either. I was looking at this suicidegirl on their myspace and she had these cheek bars or studs and it just looks so gross to me.

BUT I think piercings can be hot like nipple piercings (hence why I want to get them myself), ear piercings (industrials and other piercings with reason), and facial piercings (WITH lots of reason and not a whole lot)...

Does that count for blindfolds? Because those are just hot.

 

I honestly don't know why mask seem to creep me out. They just do. I knew there were people who find it hot and a turn on. Blindfolds do fall in with them as well. Granted I have some odd quirks and fears anyway.
I know heavy amounts of make-up has always been a turn off for me as well. Another is one someone else mentioned which is a partner who just lays there. Sex is not enjoyable unless my partner and I are both into it. Way I see it, if the person I am with is not enjoying it, I would do better by jerking off.

 

Yeah. I don't like putting on heavy amounts of make-up because then it loses most of the nice quality of it being.. my face. I'm glad my boyfriend is that way.. and is okay with my standard eyeliner and mascara.

But I understand what you mean by the just laying there thing. I feel bad because I kindof feel like I'm doing that to my boyfriend.. which (given the chance) I'll try to stop and be more... into it.. I am into it.. it's just alot of the time he gets on top.. and then when I'm on top.. it's really hard for me to move my hips/body at the pace that could get him off sometimes. >.<

 

You would hate to be around me then. I have more body hair than Ron Jeremy and my kids tell me I am a yeti when I walk around without a shirt on. Oddly enough, when I asked my wife if she wanted me to shave it all off, she hated the idea.

 

haha that was funny, "mmm this is so squishy, sooo mayonnaisy"

I'll post my turn offs when I think of em

 

I have to say attitude, but, I can never keep my mouth shut.

 

A lack of intelligence
Poor personal hygeine/badly dressed
A lack of confidence
A high pitched voice in a man
Dishonesty -- even if it is to someone else. If you lie to them, you will lie to me.
Gossips -- if you will talk about someone else behind their back, you will talk about me behind my back.

 

*throws up, then smacks you*

 

Same for me. Well when I had a boyfriend that is.*sigh*

 

Funny, how many people don't get that ...

 

an egotistical guy who thinks he was gods gift to women, a non- romantic guy and a guy who doesn't know how to please a woman and is not trustworthy