Dressing up in my wife's Sexy Lingerie, Outfits and wearing her Panties when she let's me play...

 

Super sexy!

 

incest, fisting & public nudity probably. Sleeping with my son is my ultimate fetish. But sadly I don't have any children.

 

Cumming on my food. Yum

 

Exposing my wife,we like watersports, her in diapers. Enjoyed 3somes and more. Mutual masterbation is fun. My fave is exposing her.

 

Anal
Strapon
Pegging
Body swap
Many but these are a few of my favorite ones

 

I have been raped and it was awful but it's weird now I love to fantasize about it, although I haven't found anyone to role play with

 

Maybe you should tell your wife and you could open up a whole new stage in your relationship?

 

Damn just one?

I love variety. I like to mix it up. The one lately, that won’t go away is tit torture. It feeds my sadistic nature. Extensive squeezing, nipple clamps, stretching, twisting, pulling, flogging, slapping, striking with a crop or switch. No breaking of the skin, or extensive bleeding. Blood from needle pricks ok. Welts? Definite yes.

Spanking with crop or switch to the ass only. Like me a rosy red butt.

 

Wife and have an ex-wife who both have the same effect on me. The sweet scent of their armpits makes me absolutely horny, hard and ready to fuck like a wild animal. I know it's all pheromone related, but kinky, maybe a little weird lol.

 

I'm too damn bashful to say.

 

Loving with my dog buster

 

You naughty naughty girl.

 

I want all 3 sisters in law be under me while i cum on thier faces.

 

Wife wants to be my sex slave on weekends. But isn't interested in others being involved. Would love to send her for a week of training by someone more experienced then me.

 

CMNF, CFNF

 

My experience is the owner needs to be trained not the dog. The dog wants to please. The owner needs to learn how to read the dogs needs. He also needs to learn how to get the dog to obey. Sometimes it's a bone. Sometimes it's business end of the stick. Extreme subs want to be abused and humiliated. If that's not your thing or you can't see yourself growing into that role, watch 50 shades of grey, and have sex. Live it vicariously leave BDSM alone. Best advice is each of you make a list of things you either want to or have done too. Exchange the list answer yes no maybe. Set aside all the yesses. Discuss the maybes’s rewrite with limits make them yesses. Decide on hard limits. (they are things you won't do.) One of mine mutilation or did figurement. I won't do that. While I am a sadist I have boundaries. Even look at the no’s if limits can be placed and make them yesses. Now you have something to work with. Each Dom/Domme is different. We all have our likes and dislikes. Good days/bad days. But as a Dom/Domme you must be consistent you can't have a bad day at work come home take it out on your sub unless they are hardcore extreme subs. Subs perform best when they know what's coming. The sub can't forget to sir and get her teeth rattled if a hard slap is a normal punishment. Being a Dom/Domme is hardbgoddamned work. At all times safety is first. Slapping a sub wrong could result in loss of hearing. Choking a sub wrong could result in a crushed larynx or death. As much as it appears the Dom/domme is disrespecting their sub, there is an equal or greater respect for them. Choose a safe word and action in case the sub cannot speak. It means stop. Remove restraints if needed. There is no grey area, where no may mean yes. It means STOP! If you cannot respect that, find a different activity, there is no room in the BDSM family.
Read books, read on line, go to forums, learn how to be a good dom. You don't send your sub off to be trained. You learn how to train. It is hard goddamned work. But, it is so worth it. I listed maybe three percent of what you need to know, but it is enough to get you thinking, and researching. Take it seriously. Put in the work. I guarantee the more you put in the more you will receive. Once you put in the work, it will get easier. My list of most import aspects.

1. Safety
2. Trust
3. Respect
4. Consistent
5. Obedience

Notice obedience is last. If you get the first 4 right obedience will fall in place. Complete 100 percent obedience is boring. I mean the sub wants punishment wants humiliation wants to be dominated. They are going to do whatever it takes to get that need filled. It may be as simple as ordering their food and not asking them what they want. They are going to misbehave. When they do and they will, it is your fault. If they crave humiliation do it before they misbehave. If they need to be slapped, slap them, call the a fat pig that nobody could ever love. Sounds cruel, but some subs need to hear it or feel the sting on their ass from the switch you just snapped crossed it. One last note, once you think you have it all figured out, your wrong. You never will. If you ever do, it will be boring.

I must note this is not directed at @Moose690 this is for anyone considering the lifestyle.