I know someone who has been married for many years and I know her husband to be a lovely, if somewhat browbeaten, man. She shared with me that he never fucks her ... it's always making love. While I find that sweet, I don't think I could go upwards of 20 years like that (or one, for that matter). FUCK ME, dammit! Conversely, I don't believe 20 years of fucking without lovemaking would appeal, either.

What do y'all think?

 

I agree with you...both elements need to be present, at different times, or at the same time. If I didn't get a good, hard fuck sometimes, I'd probably be tempted to go out looking for one.

 

[ If I didn't get a good, hard fuck sometimes, I'd probably be tempted to go out looking for one. [/quote]


Take note men!!!!!!

 

Take note men!!!!!![/quote]

*laughing* Anyone who has read my stories is entirely familiar with this aspect of my personality.

 

I hear ya. I suppose she has no one to blame but herself, as she's never once mentioned it to him.

 

*nodding* Women tend to bring this on themselves, because they expect men to read their minds and KNOW what we need. Well....fuck that.

 

I've never met a man who could. And I'm glad. I'd be in trouble if I had.

Oy, no, that guy does NOT have a thick uncut cock! I've seen him at the gym. Now, back to thinking about getting on your knees, but for ME!

 

Lots of Ways to Let 'Em Know

Gotta unleash the slut in us even in a warm loving relationship. Not every relationship has good verbal communication, unfortunatel. But, if we think about it we have plenty of ways, a lot of them very unsubtle, to let it be known that we'd like to be fucked, not just loved. If you want to be treated as a fuck-puppet, look and act like one. If subtlety fails (not all guys get subtle hints--big shock), be unsubtle.

 

Oops. Better answer

Sorry, Piggit, just reread your initial post. If it's the woman who has browbeaten the man, it may be hopeless without a lot of help. But if he's beaten down by job, life, whatever, then she might be able to give him a new lease on life by asking him to take charge of her once in a while. And she might be able to do that with little more than an occasional "take me" "make me do..." "tell me to...". As much as many younger guys may have all their brains in their little head, a lot of guys are more sensitive, and an improvement in their sexual outlook can do wonders for their whole outlook on life.

 

Thanks

Thanks, dbkid. I try.

 

I'm Flattered

Sure, go ahead. Just give proper credit to the author.

 

ok when im with somone I love delicate sweet love making but then some nights I want to be pind down and lost to the sea of pashion....but that could just be me

 

So, sweetie, you wouldn't like it if me and lisa and getmehot put you on a big plastic sheet, oiled you up until you were slippery from head to toe, ran our hands all over you, stuck our fingers into you, and then got you up on your hands and kneew, spread your cheeks, and took turns thrusting our entire collection of toys into your pussy and your ass, telling you the whole time what a fucking slut you are?

 

couldnt be dealin with just love making i mean fair play its quality everynow and again gotta have a bit of passion and romance, but sometimes you just wanna get down and dirty

 

This might be too subtle for me so I'm asking you ladies.......
You speak of "Getting Fucked" as if it's a different activity to "Making Love".
One would assume the former has more aggression that the later. Is that the only difference?

 

you know im far to innocent for that

 

yeah but there is a difference, getting fucked - getting boned horridly talking dirty, breaking boundaries etc and then lovemaking gotta be whispering sweet nothings, slow sensual stuff you know

 

Breaking boundaries might be part of it.

 

There's a first time for everything, luv...

 

well ok