wow,you are fine,,,,,,,,,,,sexy and pregnant too,,,love to see that pussy open to see

 

Been here awhile, just never felt like posting. Until now. Your statement scares the shit out of me. Right now the only thing you should be concerned about is your child. A doctor can prescribe something for your back that would do less harm to your baby than pot. You make me sick. All you care about is yourself. Do the world a favor and when you give birth, have your tubes tied. That way, you won't damage anymore children. You are taking unnecessary risks and your child will suffer.

IF you actually cared about your baby you would stop immediately, hell, you should have quit the moment you found out you were pregnant. For your child's sake, I hope no damage has been done. Otherwise, you will blame others for your child being mentally retarded. He will be a burden on society, since he will require extra attention, and you will have ruined a child's chance to change the world. May God have mercy on your soul.

 

Would you like a ladder Hola987? Maybe a cherry picker or a fire engine??? Do you need some assistance climbing down off your high horse???

And Babygurl, I'm sure you'll do a great job as a mum

 

You are completely irresponsible.

 

No. But people who can't be responsible don't need to have kids.

 

Babygurl, you are a failure in every way. I've watched this thread for sometime now, and I can't help but want your baby to die painlessly and immediately. You are what evolution fights so valiantly against, the prorogation poor genetic material. What were you thinking when you did that first line of coke? "I can do this recreationally, it won't become a problem..." despite the numerous PSA's, multiple years of school based education, you thought that you could handle it. You're profoundly stupid.

Too add insult to injury, you're now bringing a child into this world. You're a 19 year old coke addict. I seriously question how you've "kicked" your habit, it takes time to rehabilitate, do a 12 step program, etc, etc... and again you're only 19. There is no way you can take on the role of a good mother, a provider and a nurturer. What is to become of your child?

Right now you've already revealed that you smoke pot, and its fairly obvious from your choices that you aren't the brightest bulb in the bunch. It's safe to say your will not only inherit poor genes, but also be a little bit slower then he should be from you smoking pot in utero. Congratulations, you're child will have an IQ of 85 if he is lucky.

The best possible course of action right now would be to pass off your, most likely, mentally deficient baby to some kind of adoption agency, and hope someone with some gumption can raise him to be a contributing member to his society.

As for yourself, stop leeching off of Medicare, or whatever government program provides your health care, clean up and get a job. The alternative is to remove yourself from society permanently.

As a physical vessel of human flesh you get a 5/10 - middle of the road white girl, average.

As a person 0/10, you're disgusting.

 

Hey prick, try talking like that in person, see how vocal you are then.

You say you've been watching the thread for a while? You only joined today, or were you watching on another account and you just don't have the balls to post up under your regular name?

What do you reckon you have actually acheived by posting this? Do you think she's going to listen to your "words of wisdom" and do just as you say? I wouldn't, because it's got fuck all to do with you! Yes, she made mistakes with drugs, but that doesn't mean she and her child don't have the right to live.

Get a life

 

Dude, just grow up. I can't even come up with a response to say to you, I sincerly hope that you words aren't taken seriously and that maybe you might go and learn a little something about reality. Some 19 year olds make better parents than older people, and some really good people make choices that not everyone would agree with. I hope for heavens sake you have no children of your own because I wouldn't want to know what they would turn out like.

Barb

 

Ouch man, that is pretty damn harsh. Is this what you call 'constructive critisism'. Cos tbh, some of that is bang out of order.

BabyGirl, Im on your side hunni.

 

My goodness, you two certainly are full of hellfire and damnation, aren't you?

 

Okay let me clear somethings up for most of you. Winbot and Hola if you have been watching this tread for a while then you would of read that i kicked my coke habit a month before I got pregnant because I got clean I got pregnant and No I'm not happy with my decision in life. And the coke thing I dunno what I was thinking the first time very many years ago. I will always be an addict and I'm not afraid to admit that. I will always be thinking in the back of my head why can't I just do drugs and kill myself. But I can't I know better I'm smarter and stronger now because of my past. I know that I've got a child to take care of that I will love with all my heart.
As for the pot I have quit and I did ask my doctor when I first found out I was pregnant that if their was anything he could give me or do me for the pain in my back. And my answer was no not really. I do yoga and I try but my pain will always be there and I told my doctor about the pot and he said that yes it could hurt my babies memory and have effects on him but that smoking ciggerates was worse for him then pot.
Before anyone has anything else to say about me I have researched my decisions and I'm not even on zanex for my aniexty because of the fact that I don't wanna hurt my child. I've been offered perscription drugs for everything and because I am due soon I won't take them. I don't sleep I barley can eat and my mind drives me so crazy I cry atleast 3 times a week. My pain has become so bad in back that I can't even stand to do dishes or cook anymore. But I have too.
I live with my father who is truck driver and I'm alone most of the week. I have no choice but to cook and to clean for myself I have no one to help me. I'm the only gurl who got pregnant at my age and kept my child because of my standards. I could of taken the easy way out and just killed my child with abortion like my friends did. But no even after my babies father left me and wanted nothing to do with this child I still kept him.
My baby boy is heathly and happy inside of me and I know that. If their was anything seriously wrong with him I would of been told weeks ago. His brain is funchtiong how it should and all of his major organ have grown in heathly his heart is perfect and beats just how it should. Of course I'm scared that what if I fucked up what if he comes out and has something wrong with him. But everyone worries like that.
I am strong and I am heathly my decisions are mine in my own. I'm not happy with the choices I made in life I might only be 19 years old and a single mom but my father raised me all by himself my mother died of cancer when I was 4. My father has been a single father since he was 37 years old and he raised me well but still couldn't prevent me being molested in his house. Still couldn't stop his drug addiction untill he relized what it was doing to me. I didn't choose coke it chose me. The addicition runs in my family. My father and my mother were both addicted to it. My mother smoked an ounce of pot every week when she was pregnant with me and I'm smart I don't have any behavior problems I do have memory loss but that's my own doing not hers. No matter what you do for your child you still can't stop what's gunna happen. You still can't stop what others are gunna do to them in school or in life. You can do your best to prevent it though.
I am using all my knowlegde and knowing of life to help my child live a better life. I will try my hardest to give him the best life I can and the one thing I can do and I know will give him a better life is go back to school after he's born and get myself a degree so that I can make the money that I need to give him a better life with. Not everyones perfect I have made mistakes in life and I'm not proud of the decisions that I've made but I do know one thing I can change and I will. I want nothing but better for my child and I will try my hardest to give that to him.
Thank you.

 

Hot As Hell

I think babygirl is hot as hell and would love to eat that and give her a shot of myself. I think she is a doll baby when it comes to looks. I wish she would clean up the drug problem though. Babygirl, you make me hard as hell.

 

YOU GO GURL, YOU ARE ONE HELL OF A LADY, MORE POWER TO YOU, YOU ARE GOING TO BE A GREAT MOM.

 

take care baby, i will always pray for you.

 

can I say you made me proud for doing this. Look she has had bad times in her life. I know what it's like to be having a child at a young age, but hell that never happened because of my own stupidity with trying drugs made it to where my sperm was fucked up. Everyone makes mistakes and learns from them and all those haters can just shut up and choke on some fancy food while the sniff the asses of other uptight fuckwads that are with them. Babygurl I stand behind you and always. will like I said before in the pm I sent you.

 

I may not say much to you, but, i'm proud of you. you have my respect.

 

babygurl, i dont exactly post on this forum anymore unless i absolutely have something to say. when i was 22, i smoked cigarettes and pot everyday, and had for a long time. i started to feel dizzy while smoking a cigarette, and suddenly realized i hadnt had my period for a while (i didnt exactly keep track of it back then). i took a test, and i came out positive.

i quit smoking, cold turkey, and became mrs. brady. i NEVER went back to smoking, because i know the harm it does long term for a baby (in the womb it can cause miscarriage, u got lucky, or low birth weight). when i was your age, i also thought "pot is better than cigs, it doesnt do the same harm". WRONG. it still fills your babies lungs with smoke. no matter what it is, smoke is smoke. everything you put into your body goes straight to your baby (or at least a high percentage, maybe someone else knows?). and your depression and crying is also going to have an effect on your baby, so be prepared for many sleepless nights due to your baby crying for no apparent reason.

as for your baby being "perfectly healthy" right now, i can assure you, when that boy starts school, he has trouble keeping up with the other kids. it's been studied (you can google it) that kids that had mother's that used drugs (pot is 100% a drug that slows the brain) while pregnant are likely to have some sort of learning disability later on in life. your baby may look healthy, but he's actually not. and what are you going to do when you have him? go back to smoking everyday? if you breast feed, you're still going to do damage to him. if you plan on still using drugs (if you couldn't stop during pregnancy, i guarentee you dont stop after you give birth) he's going to grow up being surrounded by it.

for all of you telling her "im so proud of you", what exactly are you so proud of? that baby is going to grow up in a really bad enviornment, around people he should never encounter at that young of an age. where are you going to put him while you're twisting a joint and doing coke (you said so yourself that you have urges to go back to it), because if you have thoughts of doing it again, trust me, you haven't kicked ANY habit. babygurl, you say you cleaned up your act, and you say alot about what you plan on doing, but as far as i can see (read), you havent cleaned up anything... for the rest of you reading this, seriously think about this for a second. i did, because i'm a mother, and this is really disturbing to me.

 

Even though you were pretty rude to me for no reason at all in my thread, I respect you for what you've gone through. Good luck with everything, and I'm glad to see you sticking up for yourself! Always smile!!

 

Lisa, for not posting unless you have something to say, you did yourself proud.

Whether or not BG heeds your advise, it wasn't because you didn't try. Someday, perhaps she will remember your words.

TY for caring.

 

Like I said I'm an addict an addict will always have the urges to do drugs i have the will power to keep myself away from the drugs for my child. I'm not my parents and I won't be them. I have the will power to never pick up the drugs again. I am a strong person and I have quit smoking everything but ciggeretes One thing I can't kick the habit of. I've smoked pot longer and i quit that. I am a strong person and a good mother.