whiskey dick... minus the alcohol.

i'm having trouble with erections; getting up and staying up. during sex its hard to stay horny! my mental state is very blank; nothing is a turn on (or something? AGH!)

every time i've had sex (a relatively small count) i have had to finish with seriously rough masturbation to cum. what's up with that?

thanks in advance for help or advice.

 

That could explain the problem.

 

yeah...how do i fix that?!!!!!?!?!?!

(fucking wellbutrin)

 

Try a little concentration.......

 

ha yeah thanks. DUDE?

no shit.

but really...

 

I'd agree with Notserious.

Concentration on the task in hand is all important.

Don't let your mind wander.

 

alright...

i think i have some ideas

 

Maybe you should have a little whiskey before sex calm your nerves and relax yourself a little just don't over do it i suggest some sort of wine would be better. Try boonsfarm it taste like juice.

 

i see. im getting alot of 'relax' themes here.

i think maybe this focus should extend beyond the moment...why am i thinking about it?
i guess thats a start. i should have explained my situation in more detail.... this isnt a girlfriend, its a fuck friend. is there a good way to handle that mentally? sex should just HAPPEN right? so the relax could be going towards me just being focused on having a good time... hmmmmm....i think about it too much! well it did kinda come out of nowhere so i was excited for it, and that of course kinda ruins it.

so just have fun?...i hope?

 

I think youve sussed it! You are thinking and probably worrying too much - just enjoy!

 

I agree.. the more you think/worry.. the more problem you'll have.. its a viscious circle right enough.. one thats difficult to walk away from.. but it is possible..

Maybe you could have a lil search around here.. I think Baller16 had the same problem.. he got tonnes of really good advice.. not havin' a go at ya.. sometimes you gotta know where to look before ya find anythin' hay?

Good luck and I hope you get it sorted soon..

 

First question is how old are you?

Second question is: are you taking any medications that could cause it?

Third question is: have you checked for any circulation problems, heart problems?

Fourth question is: Have you any abnormalities of the testes?

Fifth question is: Have you checked hormone levels, testosterone, etc.?

It used to be that the medical quacks all claimed it was psychological just like they did for allergies when I was young. Now they have become enlightened enough to know now that usually the cause is simply physical problems. This Tgirl has gone through the same thing, but diabetes and age is the problem with me, and well, maybe the phytoestrogen I also take.

I hope the above list of questions gives you some clues or at least what to ask your doctor. Urologists are the specialists to see.

 

18, antidepressant (wellbutrin), heart is good, balls seem fine, not sure about testoserone.
is it that damned bottled water with its synthetic estrogen?

THANKS TO ALL for the help.

 

My advice is go see your doctor and explain the symptoms and problems.
It may be a recognized side-effect of this particular drug and they may be able to put you on another type.
It may also be a root cause of your depression and could help you over-come it!

They may even be able to offer another solution

 

Fucking hell.........only 18 and on wellbutrin already?

I'd sue the doctor that put you on that shit.

Talk to someone about what's getting you down......

Don't you have friends?

 

i mean is it that bad that i'm on wellbutrin??

at least i feel ... better than i did!

hmmmm.

 

At 18........yes.

 

Depression knows no age limit. I was put on anti-depressants at 6 for an attempted suicide.

 

alright, im gonna taper my wellbutrin immediately.

im a zombie. happy zombie. FUCK

yeah i hope theres no permanent damage. im pretty sure there won't be, but shit... i haven't had a good look at porn in a day or two, i'm gonna go test myself.

but i'm DEFINITELY cutting that shit asap.

 

oh for chris's sake. im going cold turkey.