Obtain some nerves of steel.

You gotta have the courage to go the next step.

 

Love the baseball metaphors, spring season is nigh.

But remember, only those with faint heart are afraid to try to stretch a single, go for it.

 

I'm a DJ in a bar so I don't have a problem going to the clubs. The problem I remember one night I "grew some balls" and was told no by seven women in a row. *I even had two women who were exact same age tell me no because one said I was too old and the other said I was too young!* How the fuck do you battle the age thing? For those that want to know how old I am, you're going to have to pm and me and convince me that I can trust you not to ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever give it out on here; not even by accident. My age is a secret for personal reasons.

 

Knee cap 'em with the bat.

 

This post is correct...nice job X

 

No problem.

I was unsure, however, whether people were being deliberately obtuse, or jstu plain fucking stupid.


Name's Orion, btw... I wanted Orion when I joined this site, but some other bastard who never posts has taken it.

 

its easy, i have been there done that... you just get one of them sit down and go "hey i have something to tell you" and boom go on a little discussion of how you feel towards them and how you cant see why they pick the jerks they do etc... works everytime...

 

Yep, pointing out to a girl that she sucks in making choices in her life, is always a great turn on for them.

 

Have you considered you may be lucky in one respect. I hung out with a mixed group of friends when I was younger my best friend was very beautiful and knew it! She was a cow to boys - if I say so myself! We always had a car full of petrol and driver ready to take us (there were 4 of us hung out together) to whichever club at the weekend, when we got there we would enjoy the evening and she would always go to whomever the guy was when it came to drink time! She used to take the piss out of them something chronic behind their backs calling them her little lapdogs and she used to have a tape of music to put on in the car including Easy Lover which she said was her theme (shell break your heart etc...). I cannot believe some of the stunts she used to pull and scrapes she got into. Well we all grew up and she married - FOR MONEY! and she is still a friend - but looking back she could be really cruel and I am sure the guys she messed with will be kicking themselves for letting her be so obvious, but they just wanted to be a friend!

 

get them drunk first and then fuck them.

 

Why bother getting them drunk first - watch and wait at a club, let someone else pay for their drinks then jump in when their drunk! costs less! isnt that why blokes hover when the slow music comes on!

 

I think he was describing that it was he who plied the ladies and lost them to the other guy.

 

Theres nothing like a confident man

... if you don't ask it may become too late ... I once asked a man how come he waited so long to let me know his interest and his answer was that he was to shy then I was with someone ... He was hot too & I would have enjoyed his company but due to the lack of confidence we never connected and I ended up going elsewhere ... I still wanna know him in ways that I have never known him

so dude ... just ask she may be just as hot for you as you are for her ... if she says no then she's not right for you and it would never really work anyways her heart isn't in it

:rose:

 

I agree with most people who've posted here.. confidence is key.
Good luck!

 

i'm with Archi. stop being a whimp and get aggressive. women want to be wanted but you must make them want you to. its a tender balance.

 

How about if you have sex with one of the "psycho bitches"....and then you prove yourself to be such a wonderful, awesome, incredible fuck, she immediately tells everyone she knows, including the hot chick you want to connect with. Presto!

But be careful what you wish for, because you might just find that those girls aren't what you're looking for, when all is said and done.

 

Hoo Ha, I am ancient but when I am dancing I have never had anyone older than 35 come over to dance with me, that is a big mystery to me. I have even had guys that were out with their girlfriends come and dance with me. Dont know what their girlfriends thought except I saw some dirty looks. I do pass for about 42 to 50.

That's OK we wont tell anyone you are only 16.

 

Way off base where my luck is concerned.

If I thought I were lucky in any respect I never would have started this thread in the first place.