Hello everyone, first of i have never had anything in my ass. no cock, or dildo, or anything of that nature. now, i been wanting to try something new for a change and ive been thinking of putting something in my ass hole. now i dont think ill go as far a a cock up the ass but i wanna try something to see what all the hype is about, i was in the shower yesterday masterbating and i was rubbing my asshole a little and it felt good, i went inside a little with my finger and rubbed the inside, felt good. now i want something inside to see how good it will feel, any tips on what i should try as a first timer? also, am i going to bleed? ive had a virgin girl before and her puss bleed all over my condom yuck. so what can i use for my first time?

 

My suggestion is.

I'm not really into the whole anal masturbation thing. Personally though, my opinion would be something small, at least to start with. For example, my ex-girlfriend used to lubricate a the end of a sharpie (bottom of course and don't forget to clean it before and after). So that would be my advice to you at least just to see if you would like to advance further in anal play. Bleeding shouldn't occur unless, one you over stretch yourself, or two some medical problem that you should have looked at if so.

Just don't forget the lube.

 

thanks. now, doing this wont make me gay right? like my whole life i been straight, if i stick something up there can i still say i straight or am i now bi or gay or what?

 

Actually-

The truth of the matter is, contrary to popular belief. More straight men then most believe are into anal and prostate masturbation. It's all about preference my friend, anal play does not make you gay.

 

No. You'd be gay if you felt sexually attracted to other men, what you do with your own body doesn't make you gay, bi, straight or whatever else. Lots of straight guys like anal stimulation, and many gay guys don't. I love to play with my ass and I'm 100% straight.

 

in moi opinion wanting something up your ass and your not really the straightest of guys, ask your mates see what they say lmao

 

Sorry, friend, but you're already gay. As soon as you even thought about putting anything even near your arse, you crossed the line into homosexuality. Preference for men has nothing to do with being gay -- the only reason gay guys like men is because men have the right tools for anal stimulation. Duh!

Enjoy life as a gay man. I know I do.

 

lmfao love it bunny

 

My suggestion is a glass butt plug "beginner toy". Glass is very, very awsome to use. With glass you can sterlize it by putting it in your dishwasher!! Alone of course not with your dishes. But with glass and lots of lub it just glides in and out. Glass toys are the best!! Once you have had a glass toy you will never use another one again. Men love their butts played with. The prostate is just like the G-spot on a women and once a man finds that prostate with a toy they will have the most intense orgasam ever!! Most men don't want to try it... but once they do, they are sorry they waited! Our men really love it when us women guy those toys for them!! but trust me... it is one of the best things ever! Exact quote from my husband!

 

Thats wrong.

ask any guy in public, and they will say thats gay! More than half have tried it and liked it, the other half tried it and didn't like it.. and the people that havn't thought about it are sexually sheltered/inexperienced.

No, you are not gay, bi, or bi curious. You simply like putting stuff in your ass.

Now, if your attracted to men in a romantic way, then your bi or gay.

 

i agree, you find the prostate and you will be in heaven!!

 

anal beads....

 

This may be a little gross but for reasons to long to post here myself and my wifes sex life is almost non existent. I'm also not masturbating regularly in place of sex with her.....any way heres the gross, part several times over the last couple of month I've leaked some semen after... shall we say cleaning my ass. It's kinda scary but I suppose I'm backed up and pressing on my anus triggers something. Makes me wonder also what kind of orgasm I'd have with some stimulation while masturbating.

 

try something small like a pen and then work your way and putting stuff in your ass no way makes you gay. Their has to be other traits to make you gay. Like getting feelings for guys then yeah you are gay or bi but that is it putting stuff in your ass no way makes you gay.

 

yes try a pen and then you will realize you like it and be happier!!! have fun!!

 

start with a small sharpie or something and then buy yourself a butt plug kit for like 20 30 dollers then youll have an array of anal assault toys

 

Go for it dude, i dont do it often, but i have before, I started with a finger, then a toothbrush handle, then a wooden drum stick in a condom

 

Sorry to bust your bubble but your concept of some one wanting to try something anal doesn't automatically make them gay. I know many straight guys that get their wives to do them with strap ons.


Personally I am gay and I love something up my ass. Most of the time when I am home I use a but plug or dildo which I wear most of the time.

 

You are definetely not gay because you would put something up your ass.
You couldn't become gay either.
It does not work like that.
There is no 'line' between gay and straight. It is not like O or 1.
There are many gradations between gay and straight.

I would take care not to put anything breakable up there, I'm not familiar with a glass butt plug , and you should be certain it cannot break, you actually could bleed to death.

If the object is small you could find it hard to retrieve it, it could (temporarily) disappear

Use a condom over a small banana with plenty of lubricant

PS I'm somewhere between gay and straight and I don't like a penis up my ass, but I do appreciate some mild stimulation once in a while...

 

are you ever gonna tell us what happened???