It's been over 9 years with no sex at all with another person, and how do I cope ? During those years, jerking off is it.

 

I turned to porn which steered me towards becoming a cock sucker. Life works out sometimes.

 

I have had sex with a lot of guys with sexless marriages.

 

My marriage went from sex 10-15 times a week, to sex 4-5 times a year. I started watching lots of porn and masturbating. I’ve move on to chat forums and stories lately, and still lots of masturbating. I tried to find a FWB or some “side pussy” but didn’t have much luck. In more recent years I’ve been working my way up to trying my luck with sucking cock. I’ve found quite a few guys who want heir cock sucked, but they don’t care about my enjoyment, so they were crossed off my list. It’s difficult to find someone so suck, and to be fairly certain that they’re safe and I don’t bring anything home to my wife for when she does have sides with me.

 

I have this very same problem, for me it’s been over 4 years. I would cheat but I have been out of the game so long I don’t know how to start:/
Thanks for sites like this to help me know I’m not alone.

 

Well I’m on this site called Xnxx.com/forum lol

 

Me too except Im the sexless one

 

We have a 90s military code, she doesnt ask and I dont tell. I do my thing during the day when she is at work...

 

I like many on here am getting little to no sex. Currently I have had sex twice this year.
In honestly it’s not the not having sex, it’s the constant turning down/rejection.
I don’t stop trying.
Tried taking to her but she shuts the conversation down as “it’s all you think about”!
When we do have sex she has no adventure, she hasn’t sucked me off in 16 years and never until I cum, she doesn’t want me to go down on her, so I end up fingering her till she cums a few times which she always pauses during as it’s too intense for her and then we do missionary or doggy till I cum which is not normally long due to the lack of sex.
I have tried weekends away, underwear and lingerie for her, underwear for me, being naked on the couch when she has come back from a night out etc… and still no.
I have lots of stuff I want to try even without the type of sex with additional people (lol) but can’t even discuss it with her.
From reading in here it’s nice to know not just me.
I will keep trying with her, as I love her and that doesn’t change.
However on the sex side there is a couple who I have met once and are interested in just sex. I have met once and finally been sucked off until I came in her mouth and on her face. When things allow they are going to work through a lot more adventurous sex stuff with me. It’s just fucking. No romantic connect/situation. There is stuff I have not thought about doing but agreed with myself and them that whatever is behind the door I will go with and try at least once .
It’s not a perfect situation as would rather be trying different things with the mrs but it’s the best option open.
I think it’s right for me and my situation but won’t be for everyone.
I am really looking forward to trying the viagra I have!!!

 

When my wife got bored with having sex with me and would cut me off from sex for about 6 weeks I would go out and find sex elsewhere I didn't care if it was with another woman or a man as long as I had sex because I crave sex I've always crave sex and I'll always crave sex

 

CHEAT!

 

Here's a different spin that nobody has taken into account. My ex and I were together and were absolutely toxic to every aspect of our lives for 12 years. Especially sexually. I got to the point I had no interest whatsoever and she appeared to have the same attitude. Then one night she came in from the club and got me spun for the first time. I became so horny I ate her all night. I wanted to fuck but couldn't get it up. My relationship takes a turn at this point. It has repaired itself somewhat because we both took off in different paths but are actually more respectful of each other's journey of self discovery

 

Once my wife found out that I was getting sexual activity from other guys and women she got really jealous and mad she told me I was going to have to quit having sex with other men and women I told her if she was willing to spice up our sex life I'd be more than happy just to have sex with her but she wouldn't do it so I continued having sex with other men and women and I divorced her

 

If I didnt know better I would swear I wrote that. It sounds so exactly like mine situation, that its scary, esp the "Thats all you think about" quote. Once in counseling, she said that and said I felt that sex was an outward expression of we fell on the inside, in which she immediately said it was bullshit. The Counselor told her she was wrong and said that was the best way she had ever heard it stated. I finally told her just because she was shutting down shop didnt mean I was going to. Now check out her answer, she said " Just not in my house"... So there you have it. Now its gotten where it difficult to find partners... Good Luck brother...

 

Mine just said, not in our house....

 

Like to find someone like you for a LTR..

 

I play on XNXX. Some of the women here are friendly and let me have fantasies that help me find some level of self satisfaction. It doesn't replace the real thing, but that's life.

 

Having enjoyed, and still enjoying sex with my wife on a daily basis for 50+ years - it is sad to know the problems in other marriages. Thank you God and Fate for the position I find myself in.

Here's a kick. If not for xnxx's Sexuality Forum I might not know that my sex life is better than some others. I value it more now.