At my age (71; she's 70), and with four grandkids that I will not even remotely risk harming in any manner whatsoever, divorce is impossible. She's completely passive as far as our sex life (using the term very loosely) is concerned: it's apparently entirely my problem, start to finish. I can't so much as get any feedback, unless it's negative. The list of what she'll tolerate (notice I didn't say "enjoy"; that was intentional) is extremely short, and not subject to any additions: I've tried multiple times and the results are not at all satisfactory, ranging from a flat "no" to grudgingly humoring me once. And to top it off, counseling is a non-starter too.

So...we largely live separate lives, spending minimal time together. I've gotten to the point where I'm largely indifferent to affection. If I were a widower, I'd probably wind up alone for however long I'd have left: not sure I'd be able to give a woman what she wanted. The equipment would still work, but the emotional battery would likely be dead.

 

So sad, I fear I'm not fard behind you,

 

I'd be happy to chat with you about anything that you want, I'm on here almost everyday.

 

I just fuck everybody else

 

I am on now... is it ok to send a pm .. I will do it in a minute

 

Sure, let's go.

 

@Smcatt@69 have sent pm

 

Well hell yeah

 

I have not had a sexual relationship with my wife since 2009. I also have grandchildren, so divorce will never happen. I have never cheated, other than masturbation. It is all quite frustrating… Now I have to be truthful, during Masturbation, my fantasies always leaned toward male, specifically - cock. Needing to speak to someone, I found this site. Now, in my opinion, there is some crazy things happening here that I am just not into .. but I have found something that seems to bring me some relief, online mutual masturbation. I have had a few sessions already .. two ok (due to my anxiety and a somewhat nosey wife) but one session was spectacular… So, I would recommend this to men who have not had sex in with their partners in years .. I do prefer men who do not have sex addiction, just ordinary men who need to orgasm now and then.

if any men would like to speak to chat about this, please PM me. Stay well!

 

While I love my spouse, he seems to be more excited about things like football. Like I could be on my knees naked in front of him and he would walk by to get to the TV. Sex is very seldom. I've enjoyed flirting for fun, playing with myself, and a recent FWB to deal with it.

 

I am 75, no sex in 4 years, so I have turned to men, we know how to please each other.

 

Sex is a couple of times a year. We are in our 50's but it's been like this for 20 years. I love her dearly but she has health issues that just make it tough for her. She doesn't enjoy waking up with back issues the next day, so she just never suggests it. And of course that becomes a guilt trip for me when we do. Unfortunately I'm a horny bastard, and I think I always will be. I used to drink too much and that lead to infidelity. Got caught. Unless I lose control again I won't do it again.
I've never found a solution other than masturbation. Not really into the 'danger' of relationships.

 

I cheated, it led to divorce, and now I am free to fuck with whoever I want

 

With illness there is no angry feeling or disappointment only the yearning to it. I was given the blessing to keep swinging just can't bring people home anymore. I got very lucky with a younger couple next door..seems he's a little cuck and she has a thing for older daddies..

 

Ours is not a lack of want to it 5 spine surgiers since 2016. Nerves are healing and so we play but for me its been a 3 year edging. I get her off with my hands and tongue.

 

Looking for women and pron

 

I got a gf when that happened

 

I'm here.

 

My ex-husband just turned into a fat, boring, beer drinking slob.
He just lost interest in sex and finally my 14 year old daughter told me to dump him.
It was not a hard decision to make.

 

Well I do a.lot of masturbating and get some help with handjobs and blowjobs