i'm just married this year but my wife's a nurse and works long hours so it feels sexless when she's at work but that's why i signed up to xnxx to keep me stimulated while she's at work

 

This is the saddest shit! God help people in this situation! Also sad for the other half who loses that feeling as well, but If I went fridged(sp?) I would let you know that I wanted you to go get your needs met if an intimate discussion didnt solve anything. We live this life once, and denying someone else’s needs or happiness is the last thing my concience would deal with.

 

My husband has been ill at various times, through no fault of his own, and he empowered me to by excessively active elsewhere as the stories aroused and pleased him.. then there was my Lesbian friend, my set of butt plugs, dildos and vibrators, and a friendly family dog.. xx nit everyone’s solution but whatever works for you., xx

 

This is a very interesting thread. I had no idea there was a population of older men that no longer get sex from their wives that turn to other men for sexual satisfaction. So sad to hear....hopefully my desire for sex never fades...

 

For me. I’m on this site for my satisfaction.

 

For the moment, I am in a sexless relationship, which, however, has other benefits. I solve the absence of sex by visiting prostitutes.

 

My first wife did not exactly go cold, but the last 2 years of her life she was too frail for much sex even when she was horny, and the last 18 months in too much pain to be horny.

I coped, mostly jacking off with porn when she was asleep, and then writing porn. I loved her too much to abandon her when she most needed me, but the frustration shows in my posted stories. There are fantasy stories of "Taking it out on her" writing about abuse, rape, even snuff helped me cope. There is a reason the series is named Guilty Fantasies.

A healthy way to handle the problem? Likely not, but I got by and am now, decades later, only a little bit insane. I say that because I still write these stories.

 

One of my very good friends married a woman 12 years his senior, she cut him off a long time ago.
He tells me of his frustrations and just does the easiest thing, masturbates to porn.

 

My first wife was that way I was fucking her sisters and best friend eventually divorced her had to wait 5 years to get a better cut she was wealthy

 

I masturbate, visit escorts, and go to a local adult theater.

 

I sometime wish there was a matchmaking service for males with this issue and females with this issue. Unfortunately, I'm guessing mostly males. Any females in the bay area want to start the testing the idea of the service? LOL

 

The reason I’m surfing online

 

Not an uncommon thing. Married... 30+years. Love my wife deeply. But she is just not into it any more. Some of it has to do with physical injury. Some is just libido. We have a wonderful marriage (yes, incredible kids) in every way but this, where we are just not compatible any more. Will I leave her? Never. Do I suffer? Yes, if you mean in a sense that 'physical needs are not taken care of' means suffering. Could she fix it? Sure. A handjob a week would probably make the issue go away, and yes, that drives me nuts, but ain't going to happen for some reason. Yes, she will have sex with me. Occasionally. It takes just less than begging. And though I can still make her cum, it's just not for her any more.

 

Oh! The question is 'how do I cope'?

A lot of masturbation. If she is out of town I get kind of drunk often. Have ended up in bars. Usually a bad idea (that doesn't end up in anything).
Open to other solutions. How do you deal with things when you don't want to hurt the love of your life, but have physical needs?

 

Used to give head to several married men regularly. Sexless marriage is bad.

 

When I was married and she wouldn't give me sex I would just go out and get sex from several different men and women and and very first time I cheated on her I absolutely enjoyed it

 

I jack off every day if I can. Wife hasn't ever been into sex. I'm a perverted old man, wanting any type of sex.

 

You do what you have to do to have your needs met, secretly and very carefully.

 

We don’t have a sexless marriage. Just not enough for me. So I go outside of our marriage and have amazing sex and adventures he’d never do.

 

i masturbate with a little help ftom lovely women friends on here