Hello everyone,

I'm 18 and entering my senior year of highschool next year (no, I've never been held back). I will be taking 4 AP classes, and a 6th year of Deutsch.

Ive been dating this girl for a while, and we're to the point where we both want to have sex. What I'm worried about is getting her pregnant, which would be terrible in the sense that we're both not ready for it. I 100% plan on using a condom, and wanted to know, should I still be worried? I plan to pull out as well, but what about precum? Additionally, I don't think she'll be able to go on the pill anytime soon.

Just want some thought, the community here seems nice enough.

 

precum can make her pregnant. Be carefull!

 

Your Using A condom...

There is like a 2% chance of is failing...
or just use the pill...

 

Just make sure you roll the condom on properly before you get anywhere near her pussy - sperm can leap about 3 feet - so be careful.

Don't worry about pulling out - if you have the condom on and its not holed, then there is no need to withdraw at all - enjoy it !

 

So basically, if the condom fails, I'll KNOW (due to holes in the condom). If there's no holes, no chance of her getting pregnant, correct?

 

There is ALMOST no chance, not quite the same as no chance at all, but yeah you'll be fine.

 

Dude.....I will tell you like this. What you've heard throughout your school years about "Abstinence is the only 100% foolproof way to prevent pregancy," is true.

But the condom (and other forms of birth control) is the next best thing. Just make sure you use it, roll it all the way down. And like the other person said....you don't have to pull out. But don't think that JUST BECAUSE you have a condom....there's NO WAY she can get pregnant. But the odds are in your favor....99.9% lol!

So enjoy yourself!

 

IF you;'re 18 they sell a back up. "plan B" I'm pressed for time so I can't get into the details but pharmacists sell it behind the counter at most major drug store chains.

 

The manufacturers put a hole in every condom - otherwise you wouldn't be able to put it on!

I did hear that group of Cathlic Priests are specially employed in the Vatican to puncture condoms that are supplied to the world so everybody gets to play a game called Roman Roulette.

 

Theres nothing to worry about.
When you put on the rubber just squeeze the air outta the tip and roll it all the way down.


Think about it this way. In the very unlikely chance that the condom does bust, its not 100% that shell get pregenent.


Btw i wouldnt try it without a condom........
Youll never ever want to use one LOL.

 

Personally use a rubber also look for spremicidle condoms so if something does happen theres alittle help for and also if there is something that happens make sure you know exactly where a clinic is like planned parent hood so you can get the morning after pill

 

you don't have to go to a clinic anymore, pharmacy's carry it.

 

I know people who have gotten pregnant using a perfectly good condom. Freak accidents do occur. The only sure-fire way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence.

That said, if you're gonna have sex, a condom would be a really good idea!

 

I've used hundreds of condoms, and none of them ever broke. Sex with a girl on the pill is mauch better, but not all females can use the pill.

 

all i can say is be careful. Sex must be great but it also is dangerous even with a condom.

IN a sense....99.9 is still scary since you never know what will happen.

dont put 2 condoms at one time it makes them break easier.

spermacide is nice to have on a condom since it adds a higher chance of not getting pregnent.

also i would reccomend she washes her self after your done just to be safe.

people think it's fun but i reackon it is still dangerous.

good luck and i would still pull out any ways.

 

just out of interest why dont you think she will be able to go on the pill anytime soon?
the pill is the safest form of bith controll, when used right its 99.9% effective, condoms are only 98%. if she will go on the pill and you use a condom, although its still not 100% certain she wont get pg, the chances of both birth controlls failing is very remote.

 

I actually wouldn't recommend her washing herself afterwards. When she douches, it acutally can send the sperm closer to the cervix. Naturally, this isn't something she would want to do if she was looking to NOT get pregnant. Or at least this is something I've read by medical doctors.

 

If used properly, condom are more than 98% safe...

That 2% is for people who misused it such as:

- Fooled around before putting in on (rubbing the entrance of the vagina with the unprotected penis for example)
- Stayed inside after cumming instead of pulling out while still erect so sperm can't leakout between the condom and the soft penis
- Used petoleum based lubricant that disolved the condom/made holes in it
- Damaged the condom with fingernails, teeth or other sharp things and condom broke while fucking
- putting 2 condoms on top of eachother... they end up breaking themselfs cause rubber on rubber does not slide well
- Using out of date condoms
- Reusing / washing condoms
-etc

A condom is a physical barrier between the sperm and the vagina. If you make sure you don't geopardize that barrier in any way, this thing is very close to 100% safe... unless there was a production deffect in the condom (very very very rare) or someone tampered with it between the condom plant and your bedroom.

 

First you have to realize that MOST times, without a condom you won't get a girl pregnant. But there is a much greater chance than with a condom. With a condom you have 98-99% probability of not getting her pregnant. Make sure the condom is the right size, because if it isn't it could come off or sperm could go through. Also, NEVER use 2 condoms. The friction from the two causes little tears which the sperm can go through.

Have Fun!

 

Man just wear a condom, go for it. Pull out if you want to but its not really necessary as you are wearing a condom and if its going to break you would be so fucking unlucky for it to break just as you cum in her. But hey, if your that worried just keep it as foreplay. Everything but sex.