Ok, so I met this guy on a completely different sight, and we were talking. He asks me "This may sound forward , but you wanna meet sometime and have sex?" So I tell him. "Well I'm definitely interested in you, but I'd need to get to know you better."
So we talked for a few days, and stupidly I say, "What are you doing next weekend?" He says "Hopefully you"
I send him my phone # and tell him to call me sometime during the week and we can work out the details. He acts all excited and says he feels like a kid who gets to go to Disneyland. We talk back and forth the next few days, but no call. Then nothing. I can see he's online, but he won't respond to any of the few messages I've sent him.

So tell me, what causes a guy who has the opportunity to have no strings attached , wild sex for a night, with a girl he claims makes him rock hard every time he looks at her picture, back out and run away?

 

His wife may keep him on a tight leash.

 

He probably got nervous and backed out. Likely it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him being scared that it actually might happen. Some guys are just wimps.

 

Dude, I have no idea unless it's the thrill of the chase he's interested in.

 

'My opinion, he's missing out. As to why he did that, That question can never really be answered because we just never can understand the motivations of the person. I hesitantly say he lost interest... but then again, what did you give him that did that. I can't really say with any confidence.

 

hmmm..... he has a girlfriend, or was talking to two of you at once, and he is with her. or he decided that the random sex with a stranger was too risky.

 

But then again, he was rather forward with it all... Maybe it was the thrill of the chase, in which case, you're better off without him

 

Like the dogs they are most men like the chase. What does a dog do when he catches a car. Runs away. Typical. Most men are too afraid to just go and do things like that and the ones that do go ahead are the ones you prolly dont want to mess with.

 

true. very true.

 

How old is he?

 

Did you ever see a picture of him??? That could have something to do with it...Just chalk it up to a bad experience and forget it...You really shouldn't be meeting these guys anyway, be careful!!!

Hi ya, Piggit, it's good to see you!!! Hope all is well in your world?!?

 

Not all men are like that
Don't generalize XD

[Funny thing is I can name 6 of my friends that are like that, true but not true of all guys]

 

I think I could understand more if I was the one who was pursuing him. But he started the whole conversation. As for what I said, I just followed his lead in the dirty talk department.



I have to say that it was a hit to the ego.
It's not like I have random sex with just anyone. It's been years since I've had sex AT ALL!
I can say that I'm discouraged for sure. There's many men who have tried and failed, and the one guy I finally say, I'm in , runs away. *sigh*

 

Well except for porter that is.

 

He says 39 on his profile.

Most of the guys hitting on me on that sight got a firm NO from me.

Yes I saw his pictures. He is a cutie, and has nice eyes.

 

Why
Is
Freakyboy
Evading you?

I could spell it out for you....

 

dont worry about it you probably werent the only one he was talkin to and he was probably just seein how many "positive" responses he could get. Or the guy is complete ass and got scared. Either way dont stress it like you said many have tried and failed so you probably get a second shot ;-)

 

Don't under any circumstances crumble if he suddenly gets in touch with you in 2 days with some lame excuse. Be done with him.

 

Oh I'm done! I have nothing else to say to him AT ALL. I was just trying to understand why he even brought it up if he wasn't going to go through with it. I would have had much more respect for him if he would have just messaged me saying he was too nervous to go through with it. To be honest, I was terrified, but too horny to care.

 

and he might been the same as you but he might be more terrified then you are hun. or he had a girl firend and is in for just the chase