Love it

Love to try new things as long as no one gets hurt and there some fun to be had then its what ever floats ya boat

 

I try to keep an open mind but my wife keeps closing it

 

I wish there was someone to explore my sexuality with....anyway, I wouldn't want people to know about it, because it seems to me that when a girl explores her sexuality it's hot but when a guy just looks at another guy's dick he's gay for the rest of his life.

 

So ... you are afraid then ...right? If you look at another guy's cock does not make you Gay for life. Think back when you were a kid in gym class ... & you had to get naked to take a shower ... didn't everybody look at each other ? Right ? Did that mean you were all Gay for life ? I think not. It just meant you were curious about what everybody else looked like ... remember ? Some had more or less hair than you, some were bigger or smaller than you ... right ? Everybody does it ... believe me ... It does not mean you are Gay for life ... just curious & that's all it means. So please don't think that way or you WILL be labled a PRUDE FOR LIFE ... & to me ... that is alot worse than what your thinking.

 

That doesn't mean you're afraid of exploring it. It just means that you're somebody who doesn't spread his business all over the place and keeps private things private. I'm the same way, I'm a subtle person, and I don't even tell my friends when I have sex, cus I don't care about people knowing, and cus what I do behind closed doors is my business and my business only. I have sex to have sex, and to enjoy it, not so I can go telling my friends and everybody else "yo dude I just fucked this chick" cus the majority of my friends would be like "good for you, nobody fucking cares" and that's how it should be. I'm not saying not to be public and share experiences, but sex should be about pleasure not about stroking your own ego, ya know?

 

Thanks for the encouragement, the 'prude' thing kinda worked. But don't take me literally. I just wanted to point out that exploring one's sexuality can be different for guys and for girls when it comes to the point that people find it out. I still see this society as mainly homophobic with the exception of woman/woman exploration encounters (not lesbians). A guy simply cannot expect to be allowed guy/guy exploration and remain 'mostly straight' or 'bi-curious' or 'bisexual' without being labeled 'gay' forever. That's how I feel it. And....

...as Baller pointed out I'm not afraid of exploring my sexuality but I would make sure nobody knows for the reasons I described above in addition to these. Baller, you hit the nail on the head.

Getting back to the society for a while - I still really see it as homophobic but this forum teaches me otherwise, it kinda opened my eyes, XNXX rocks and I LOVE it. Before I checked it out I probably wouldn't even consider 'exploring' my sexuality and just hold back my urges. Thanks all of you for your open-mindedness!

 

I have gone a little into that direction and it was nice. Maybe sometime in the future I will explore it again.

 

Want to go to the beach? The weather's great here and I've got some wonderfully sensual massage oil.

 

Your welcome ... that's what we're here for ... to help in any way we can. Sometimes I like to interject some of my humor just to lighten things up a little bit, but for the most part I do try to be serious when it comes to serious questions or problems. You're right ... Xnxx rocks !

 

Tempt!

 

Mmmm, hmmm.....nothing like the feeling of the warm Summer sun bathing your bare skin.....soft hands pressing into your slippery, oily flesh...the sound of waves lapping the shore, lulling you...the gentle tug on the bow at the back of your swimsuit top...feeling safe, in good hands....a warm wet glow at the core of your womanhood....

 

Truth is I have only had a limited number of partners. This is so because I was in a very long term relationship and when that ended I was a hermit for almost 3 years. I Met and started another long term relationship that i am still in.
I have explored many aspects of sex with my limited partners but there are others that I wonder about.

Will i ever actually try any? Who knows. What I can say is that there are some that will definitely stay fantasies. There are others I would definitely be curious to try if the opportunity presented

Some may call me boring and maybe I am. I can say that the few women from my past apparently had good things to say about the sex and the other relationship related activities.
There is my story in a nutshell

 

If you don't take the time to get to know your own sexuality, then how would one expect to be able to fully please a partner? Besides we did it as babies, as children, as teens, and now as adults ~ eeerrrr that is unless you were taught it was evil and wrong and your going straight to hell for being a sexual creature.

 

The day I stop experimenting and trying new things is the day I DIE. I need sexual exploration, I need variety, and I need new experiences. I love pushing my limits.

 

I am there for my man's desires.

 

I agree whole heartedly. :-E

 

I'm open to exploring...within my limits.

Some things I just won't do. I can't bring myself to do them.

Now that I've got a better idea of what I like, I don't feel the need to explore often.

More power to those who forever search, though!

 

Sometimes I am afraid.

 

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