I would just like to start by saying I am 18 years of age. I went to have sex with a girl (for the first time) the other day...While we were making out on the couch she was rubbing my leg and everything like that and I got a hard-on however once it moved to my bed and the clothes were off I couldn't get my penis erect. Was I just very nervous about my first time? Not that expierenced sexually, not that I am bad looking it just hasn't concerned me too much. Any suggestions or answers? Thanks.

 

no pressure! just try it again and don't think about the first time. First time is always with problems. Too fast, no orgasm and so on. Don't worry about it

 

I'm 18. I couldn't get hard my first time, I was really nervous. It was actually really embarassing COME ON PENIS, WORK DAMN IT lol.

I'd say just try to relax, don't think about it. Let the guy downstairs do the work.

 

yeah, just first time nervousness. Try your best to relax and keep your confidence. In the end, just go with the flow of things. Pick up on body language, you'll know what she likes by her reactions. I'm sure you'll be fine next time.

 

Thanks..It sucked having an erection walking to the bed and then losing it! Oh well always next time...

 

I agree with everyone else here, it's simply nerves.

Penises, as any man will tell you, are sadists. They tend to get hard in embarrassing situations, or refuse to, just when you need them the most. If a penis were your friend, you'd dump them. In the river. With weights.

So as everyone else as has, relax, tell her you're feeling a little nervous (it'll take the pressure off) and enjoy whatever happens. Once you get past the nervousness, there'll be no stopping you.

Bye for now - Fluffy McNoo.

 

Yep agreed with the above - relax - and let it happen - and to help you relax try giving her an orgasm with your tongue and fingers - you'll probably find you get rock hard doing that anyway !

Good luck

 

My first time went smooth as butter! I was very comfortable wiht the girl, which is a huge part of having a good first time.

 

Have Your G/f Suck On It

A Good Blow Job Will Help To Get It Hard Again....
Beside You Will Enjoy It.

 

Hell that happen to most of us the first time, don't worry about it, just paid attention to her.

 

Oh and wear protection...

 

Performance anxiety

If you think you'll go soft again, you will. It's all in your head.

 

dont think about it...the more you think, the more worried you'll get and the more it will backfire on you.

just because it goes soft doesnt mean that you have to stop....just do something different - use foreplay - its a GOOD thing! you might find thatafter a few minutes of touching and teasing will get you back on track.

 

If this is a recurring problem, you might want to go see a doctor---even if it is embarrassing. Probably, however, it IS just anxiety. The first chance I had to have sex, I couldn't get it up either and it caused me to be so upset with myself, I did not even want to try again for a while. But the second time, I got over it---probably because the girl I was with was older and = 'helpful'; after that, I was fine.

Just think 'happy thoughts' and don't worry so much!

 

LOL My experience all over again.

It's called Performance anxiety.

 

I'll second BigBird's suggestion, if you spend a while pleasing her with your fingers/tongue, then not only will you be rock hard, but she'll will definitely in the mood, and you wont be weighed down with quite so much 'must give her an orgasm first time' guilt, as you may have already

and first time sex is almost always crap - thats why people spend the rest of their lives practicing!
(with the exception of your first time Semilunate... *daydreams*)

 

Truth. Soon as you start to worry about it, things just get worse. Sex should be about relaxing, having fun, and doing what feels good. Once you're sure you're ready to go all the way, set the mood and just go with it. Also, maybe next time just do it on the couch