if she fucks a guy the first time she meets him.

I think most people will agree with this. This has been the definition for many years now where I live in New York City.

But what about sucking a guy she has just met. I'm pretty casual about sucking and have sucked guys I met a bars and at parties the same night. Some of them I never saw again.

To me, its like a good night kiss but I really have to know the guys before I'll fuck.

Would you call me a slut?

Love,
lynn-nyc

 

I don't know if I would go so far as to call you a slut, easy maybe. Your idea of a bj being like a good night kiss, is a direct result of the drastic change of thinking by the younger generation, thanks to Bill "I did not have sex with that woman" Clinton.

I will be 60 next year, and when I was in my teens and 20's getting a girl to give you a blow job was the cherry on the pie. That was something you got only after you were married. A lot of people had intercourse, but oral sex, wow.

 

No, she is not a slut...Then again, neither is the gal who fucks 10 guys she just met in a bar like you did.

Makes no sense huh?.....Well, you are a slut for even smiling at a male to some women/men. To others you are simply for going into a bar (as I've been many places even in the U.S. where any woman going into a bar is considered either a slut or whore, yet in either case whether she wants it or not is going to get some).

Are you sure you want to put the label of "slut" on anyone?....As the second you do you just set yourself up to be classified as one by others.

K2

p.s......As for me I'll just kill the labels with the following; I'm a nasty, filthy, dirty, bitchy, butchy, cuntish, twat, who is whorish, trampy, a slut, and cumditch.......Sound like a lot of fun huh?

 

If it is ok for a guy to fuck a women he just met, then it should be ok for a girl.

That may seem like a progressive or liberal point of view, but it's actually just me being selfish and wanting as many women open to their sexuality as possible, to increase the odds of one of them actually sleeping with me!

 

You know, this is a VERY good point! NO ONE considers it WRONG for a GUY to sleep with a woman the first time they meet! DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!!!!

 

Not really......but I'd sure buy you a drink!!

 

I will let you know after you give me a bj.

 

No, most wouldn't, actually.

Only for people who are in their 50s maybe. How old are you? No one considers that "slutty" any more. Dayum - get with the program.

 

A couple I know had sex on their first date and then they got married and bought a house and have a kid together, and she wasn't a slut before she met him, and clearly isn't now. "Slut" is more of an attitude or a way of life than a specific behavior.

 

if you WANT to be a slut, then call yourself one, but if you dont, then dont listen/care/belive it if others call you a slut.....its a personal choice and its only a word made by men, usually to get there own back at women, espcially ones they cant get but think everyone else has

 

The only girl I'll label a slut, is a girl that has no standards and will spread her legs or do anything sexual for anybody who gives her a lil bit of attention

 

some times people use sex as a way to feel special and loved and cared for....

i wouldnt say enjoying sex or having alot of sex or having sex with someone you didnt know very well as being labled a slut....

i would say that being a slut is in the mentality not in the actions.

 

agreed

 

Back in the day I labeled both a 'slut' and a 'good girl' ... its all a contraticting perception.
But then again I have many labels and depending on who you talk to would either agree or disagree but the one that everyone tends to agree on is that I'm dark ...
so be it a Dark slut or Dark angel I'm a very proud slut!

we are all sluts by over sexing ourselves ... :lol:

 

How is that any different than a guy who has no standards amd will stick his dick into anything that gives him a lil bit of attention?

 

For me "slut" has very mean connotations. It's quite derogatory. But if I had to define what "slut" means to the majority of people I know, it's a woman (usually) who sleeps around with many guys, whether she's in relationships with them or not.

 

Where I live yes you would be labled a slut, but in my personal opinion no you are not

 

I never said it was

fortunately, that's not me though. I have standards.

 

A girl is a slut when she "I love you" but then phucks around behind your back. Other that that, it doesn't matter who, when, or how many she phucks.

 

Wait...sluts are real??

All this time I thought it was people who like to have more fun than others...lol.