ok i have tried every thing i think i have eatin her out rubbed her clit a lot she gets close then justs loses it she wont have sex yet since she is a virgin so i need some help here any tecnichs?

 

she needs to feel comfortable and so do you....trying and expecting it kills any mood that could cause an orgasm....
dont feel so pressured about it, enjoy being together and enjoy and sexual acts that you do.

Orgasms will come (no pun intended) it just takes love, patience and time

 

alright ill try but idkkkkk

 

LIke SemiLunate said, just stop worrying about it and enjoy the moment! Just enjoy her body, kiss her all over and add some licks. Hahaha I always find teasing to be fun. Get really close to touching/sucking on her nipples but dont actually touch them for a while and make her anticipate. Your woman has to be in the right mindset to have a good orgasm

Oh and as a side note, having sex isn't gonna help her have an orgasm anyways.

 

haha alright thanks ill try. its like odd tho like a lot of times i cant turn her on and, well her nipples arent sensitive at all only like when shes on her period! so what the hell! lol

 

Send her to me - I'll guarantee her orgasms.

 

Takes everything slowly start by making out and get into it till she's practicly ontop of u.
Thats what i did then i started using things such as licking slowly(neck & body), biting softly(on neck), sucking(lips, toungue, nipples)*becarefull on that one tho =P* and kissing her everwhere id move to. Only gave oral tho and fingers her but man she orgasmed alot =)

 

Slap her and call her a whore, girls love that.

 

It takes time and patience.. but have you asked her what she likes? Maybe have her guide your hand? Talk dirty to you, etc?

 

maybe she is feeling uncomfortable being even this sexual?

patience and practice, dude. one thing i found for myself is that i need to get rid of distractions like the tv and so on. even if i'm into something i can lose focus quite easily. blindfolds, and lots of sensual foreplay helps.

 

I'm with a girl right now that has the same problem. I really believe that she is worried about how big it will feel and if she can handle the feeling. When she does cum, it takes her a good 20 minutes to want to play again.
One of the positions that we do is to have her sit on top, facing away from me. Its a good way to get direct feeling on her G spot. Seems to work nearly every time.
Also, consider limiting her senses, meaning; a blind fold, a blindfold with headphones, something that limits distractions.

Many girls have a hard time releasing themselves to their pleasure, guilt seems to be a big part. One thing that I highly recommend is holding her after she does cum, thanking her for the experience. Be truthful and honest and tell her how good you feel when she feels sooo good. It helps to reinforce her pleasure. Best of luck,

 

ya ill be with her tonight ill tell you how it goes ha

 

Would that be a money back guarantee???

 

well one thing you have to realize is an orgasim is directly realated to emtion

An orgasm is directly realated to emotion not just physical contact and if she is a virgin there is more emotion within her than you realize she has to be willing to release herself to you all I can tell you is that remember fear is resolved by confidence in her mind not yours

 

i find that if i lick a girls clit slowly to start off with,then inserting a finger in her pussy moving it around, then when she starts to squirm speed up on her clit, dont make it all wet, just use the tip of your tongue so its hardly touching, and if shes happy with this put a finger up her arse,

its worked for me everytime,

 

She has a good point. Stress could be a good reason to.

 

well it was all good last night until i started to finger her i havent been with her in about a week and she was tight as fuck so. i only used 1 finger and she was telling me it was hurting any help here?

 

make sure shes wet, sometimes ive gone straight in then it hurts the girl and i dont get anything for the rest of the night, lick your finger or give her oral first

 

the vaginal walls expand when a woman is turned on so use as much foreplay as humanly possible.

lots of kissing, sucking, licking, touching, etc.

try talking her through sexual fantacies. I'm nowhere near pro but i start with my own fantacies (in my sexiest voice ever) and then move onto hers. Be inquisitive on deep details.

good luck dude, i know how you feel.

 

Watch this vid, it's called orgasm school. Worth a try?
www.redtube.com/2325