Well im a straight guy, young im only 20- and im looking for my first gay sex. Iv just been very curious about it and want to try it once but i cant find the right person. It seems all of the guys i have had responses from are extremely not my type. They are either usually old and hairy or just huge perverts looking for a rough get off. I wish i could find a young male my age who has never done it before who is attractive shaved and smooth and understanding and compassionate. Any idea where to go looking for a guy this type? Also im thinking about buying a toy, like i said im straight but i do enjoy anal stimulation here and there with my fingers. Im thinking of upgrading to a vibrator, dildo or butt plug. Which one do you think brings the best joy to the orgasm and what size should i get? Thanks people!

 

if you're straight why would you be interested in the same sex?

 

You are right . He cant possibly be straight with the thoughts of anal sex. But it is he who has to ultimately find this out and admit to his urges......

 

This is a textbook bi-curiousness. He's not completely straight but I consider bi-curiousness to be still in the straight area. Nothing to worry about if he was about to.

 

wondering

i have the feeling you've been had by and older person before and wondering if you really liked it . i find it hard to believe you just woke up and said i think i want to suck a cock today?

 

I agree. I perhaps was too hard on him n my response. Having some of my readjustments in thinking going on at this time myself. Nothing wrong with being inquisitive is there?

 

No. there's certainly nothing wrong with being inquisitive. Besides, he doesn't seem to be worried about anything. And when it comes to the readjustments, I made many myself, most of which were thanks to this forum.

 

There is really no doubt that this forum has had its effect on me as well. If one can get through some of patently dull bull crap some great insight can be had. It is nice to know that some new sexual urges are just for trying and not to create a permanent new lifestyle

 

I agree, you can find some great insight if you don't mind all the bull.

 

im married, love women and i love shoving a butt plug / dildo up my ass. i look at naked women all the time but i also get off on seeing 2 hot guys going at it. theres nothing better than looking at bisexual guys fucking one another while getting blown by a cute girl...

 

You are 100% right. One great scenario and one that many here would love to take part of. I envy those that have already had the experience.

 

well lets chat u never know we might be able to hit 2 birds with the same stone

 

hey guys sorry i havent replied on here lately i havent been on. I am actually straight and have had my share of girlfriends and sex with females as well. just becuase i wonder what its like doesnt mean im gay at all. there are plenty of straight men who enjoy anal play and stuff. just becuase i want to try it once doesnt mean im gay or bi. just curious. i have to big of love for women and could never give up the vag but it wouldnt hurt to venture out there once and give something a try. thanks for all the responses people- if you pmed me i just got them and im trying to repond to as many as i can.

 

It seems as though the rules for what men are allowed to find sexual are much more limiting than they are for women. As soon as a guy starts talking anal (unless it's in conjunction with a "woman") - it's gay. But women kissing women is hot, and we don't get bogged down in a whole discussion about whether or not they're gay, bi-curious, straight. I feel like society labels sexuality way too much. It's a fluid thing.

If you read his original post, he's very specific about the type of guy he's looking for. Among the qualities, he lists understanding and compassionate. The immediate response questions his sexuality, and implies that he must be confused. But he is not confused at all; he knows exactly what he wants. He's not asking advice on his sexuality, he's asking advice on how to find what he's looking for. He already knows what he wants.

FFmm16, you could always try the bar scene, but that tends to be a little predatory sometimes. If I were you, I'd make friends with a nice group of lesbians. I'm sure they'd be able to help you out. I'd go to the gay bar, buy some sisters some drinks (make it clear you're NOT trying to get with them), and let them know what you're looking for. I'm sure they'll be more than willing to help.

 

You are correct have always thought their was synergy between both communities, homosexual and lesbian.

 

We should find us a pretty lady, Z and rock the casbah haha

 

You are so right. If you read any of my post you know I'm married an I still go an be with a guy every so often. An many times my wife is there an my wife an I share the other cock between us. So far the other guy hasn't complained any.

 

Texas Proud seems to have found an ideal wife and setup. I guess all it takes is a wife with a surging libido, an understanding heart and some trust in the relationship to make a marriage move along well. Most guys aren't as fortunate. I know many guys of all ages, married with kids and working high pressure responsible jobs , that survive in a quiet desperation in their sexual matters . Many turn to affairs or hookers to satisfy their needs or seek out bi-men because that really requires less effort and mental bull crap that with women can create.

 

I have had a friend or two tell me how lucky I am. But it does help that I'm understanding in what she wants too.