Ok I really need to find the truth about this issue. My fiance really will not have sex with me if I am on my period, apparently because I'm "TAINTED". This really pisses me off, because I'm still suppose to give him pleasure. F**K that. Alot of my ex's didn't care, but my fiance no way...he's grossed out. He'd rather just do me in the ass, which to me makes no sense...I would think that would be worse. Guys I need ur opinion. Do you care if a girls on her period or not?

 

if thats what she wants

 

To the shower!

 

pft if he wont please you to hell with pleasing him tell him to use his hand or wait patiently

 

As long as its not painful for the girl, yes, no prob

 

This has never been a problem for me. An ex of mine was concerned the first time we started getting physical while she was on her period, because she didn't want me to be grossed out, but when I assured her it wouldn't be a problem, she allowed things to move forward, but she was a little nervous, expecting me to change my mind.

It didn't bother me, I went down, fingered, had sex. It doesn't bug me. We later found out that orgasms helped with her cramps

 

I was surprised when I view the vote. It was 7 yes and only 1 no. My experience is about half the guys get grossed out and won't go in. I'm not a heavy bleeder so it hasn't been a problem with me. I just put a towel on the bed under me and will do it.

I tried anal the first time because I was on. He poke around for a bit but never got the whole head up me. I ended up sucking him off instead.

Love,
lynn-nyc

 

most guys and girls are grossed out by it ... but seriously the vaginal walls are more sensitive and we are at one of our horniest times of the month! My x-gf was grossed out by it but she loved it when I played with her when she was on the rag ... keep towels handy ...

ppssttt ... the flow of the blood slows down when having sex on the rag, don't worry it will catch up but it will release her bitchiness too!

 

I'll lick her clit while she on her period. I don't lick around the hole though. Nothing wrong with throwing a towel under her ass and beating it up.

 

My sentiments exactly. As long as the girl is alright, I'm alright. Although my last GF wouldnt even take her pants off around me when she was on hers so the closest I got was fingering a girl while she was. But basically, if theres discomfort, forget it.

 

i've never had a problem with it, as long as she's in the mood for it, im game... however i've been with girls who wont have sex on their period because they think its gross... honestly it just varies between people... tell your fiancee that if he wont pleasure you, then you're not going to pleasure him.... i have a feeling he'll cave... and after he's done it a few times.. he'll end up not caring

 

I wouldn't eat at the Y but I'd still make sure you got yours.

During my fiance's period, I either patiently wait-or finger her and fuck her.

A side note-

A friend of mine used to look forward to his girl's period-as he put it one night when we are all fucked up, he could go straight for what he wanted (anal). He later turned out to be gay. Nothing wrong with anal...but he doesn't want to have sex with you while on your period because it's "tainted" but he'll stick his cock in your ass? Sounds a little suspect to me...and regardless you should get something out of every sexual experience.

 

my boyfriend has a huge blood phobia, so sex during my period is sadly a no-no unless we're in the shower. if i put a cup in, and clean up and blood, then being eaten out is a possibility too.

 

sex on rag

i dont mine if a girl is on the rag. i had a threesome with another girl my gf was on the rag and the girl did not mind bacuse my gf said it felt better . so when the other girl was on the rag she wanted to try and loved it. we dont even where condomes when she is on the rag.

come on guys its only blood it washes of dont you want to please you gf

 

i agree. in the shower i wouldnt care at all. in the bed i wouldnt be to thrilled for

 

Sex during menses

:rose:Sure, why not. However; being very anal erotic, I would probably take the old dirt road instead. How about going up the blood river, then the dirt road. How is menstrual blood as a lubricant for anal sex.:excited:


RICO

 

I'll only do it in the shower.

 

I start to feel really ill when i see blood. I haven't done it yet, but i would do if she wanted to.

 

Yes, of course - but perhaps when your not at full flow.

With respect to your man, his attitude is somewhat prehistoric and is he gonna be the right man long term?

Does he have a perm, wear Brute and say deodorants for girls?

 

My boyfriend had a problem for a while...after he realized that we had been having sex while on my period for almost six months. Once he realized that we were having sex during that time of month, he freaked and for a while he couldn't stay hard during the time of the month (he would see the blood and freak out and think he was hurting me). Then I just stopped telling him I was on my period, until we were fucking ( I wouldn't let him go down on me or anything, because then I know for sure that there'd be a total sex ban from him). Anyways, I would tell him while we were fucking and after a short time, he didn't get freaked out at all.

Just curious, but why does he think your "tainted"? I know that some religions think that and then you can't attend services for a while or take part in certian religious days or something like that. I could understand if it was religious reasoning or even, as some one on here mentioned, a blood phobia.