i m 23 male..i just realized that i m horny and i have an addition of jerking offf...when ever i see a good looking girl my fucking brain starts thinking about sex and i gradually get erection but immediately i divert my attention to other things and erection goes off..this thing happens to me couple of times a day...i want to get rid of these thoughts and jerking off....really need help....anyone????

 

lol no offence but you seem like pretty much every other guy i know... so you find women attractive and they get you hard... is that really that big a deal?

 

Just realized? Um, wow. I thought that started about 10 years earlier.

 

Think that’s why people masturbate, to get their mind off sex.
Least I do.

 

whatever you do DON"T stop jerkin off! you'll back up n your nuts will explode.

 

Nobody cares if you're horny so stop whining about that. You can always try and practice self-control. Preoccupy yourself with other things. Just stop cold turkey.

 

I would like to know why you believe you should stop masturbating. Has it become such a problem that it has seriously affected your life? Do you believe these thoughts to be unnatural, unhealthy or somehow dirty?
You should know that at this point in your life, noticing women as sexual beings is normal and should be expected. I remember when I was still a virgin (just a few years ago mind you) that I would be minding my own business, head buried in a book (I have aspergers syndrome, so I'm very shy and quiet), and suddenly I'd sense something moving by, turn my head and there would the backside of a woman. "Oh god, look at her ass... Aughhhh.... It's got that jiggle..." It would basically ruin my day because I couldn't focus on studying anymore because I'd get hot, my mouth would water, cock would get hard, like really fucking hard. As in, sticking out my pants hard. The only way I could deal with it was by watching porn and jacking it. Eventually I met a girl, fell in love and we got married. Now whenever I get horny for no apparent reason, I fuck her brains out!
Seriously, you're okay, these thoughts are not bad, these thoughts are not evil. If you masturbate that doesn't mean your commiting genocide, mass abortion or whatever. I say go and enjoy these sexual feelings. Truly, how wonderful it is! Would you much rather go through life never feeling anything at all? You don't want to go down that road, I walked that way for almost ten years and I'm still learning about feeling basic emotions. Just enjoy your boner and thank god that you can feel this way!

 

Ah, another man laid low by cultural restrictions and religious superstition.
Sex is normal.
YOU are normal for having feelings toward women and getting hot and bothered for them.
Despite whatever dogma has told you otherwise, sex is great. It even helps keep you healthier! How could that be a bad thing

 

jesus ur 23, grow up already

 

go fuck son, instead of thinking about having sex with them engage them in a conversation. Flirt a little bit, and get to know them. From there it's all on you. Keep it real, and keep jerkin'

 

Join the military and go cold turkey for however long basic training is.

 

hey baby

 

Ur so hot daddy

 

200fucking8?????