Dude, your 18 so what? I had friend who was sexy has Angelina and she was a virgin until she got married at 28. It was a personal choice for her. Anyway, the point is you should just remember girls are no big deal. You should join organizations where you can meet women and form friendships. Work, church, bank, charity of some kind, school, book stores, wherever. Start building your confidense. Remember to be yourself. There is nothing worse than a guy trying to be fake. If the girl is not interesting move on. You

 

maybe, maybe not. after i broke up with my boyfriend, i had sex with the friend about two days later. perhaps it wasn't my best moment... but hey, i'd wanted to for a year.

for the record, the friend was a virgin. surprisingly, delightfully good at licking my clit, and touching my skin in a way that makes me want to pounce him.

 

oops...continueing. You need to maintain your self respect always remember your own self worth.

 

Damn Shake...tough love.It's all good young man. If it bothers you that much there are always prostitutes. One good ride and you should be on your way.

 

I say just do what you want to. I didn't lose my virginity until 19, it was because I was nervous and afraid. When I got to college though I stopped being a pussy and things worked out before too long. Being on my own helped me a lot, that and I did what I wanted to do and tried to let go of my fear of rejection and have been fairly successful. I was always so horny that waiting much longer than that was never an intriguing option.

 

I could have done some soft-handed 'hey, just go talk to them, nothing to fear but fear itself, blah blah blah' but he knows that already. He's more afraid of letting a girl know he is interested in her than being alone and celibate and until he decides he wants one more than the other, there is nothing you nor I or anyone can do.


Hence, stop being a pussy. Less is more, ya know.

-S-

 

When you meet someone and you both just feel right, then it will happen.

Worrying about it doesnt solve anything - it only makes it worse.

"a watched kettle never boils"....basically, stop trying and it will just happen naturally!

There isnt a huge sign on you that lets the world know that you havent had sex......and there isnt a rush or any pressure to do it.

Do it because your with someone you care about and are comfortable with - dont just do it for doing its sake.

 

As Lunite says.

You don't have a post-it note with "I'm a Virgin" stuck on your back, so who cares?

And even if you did, if somebody said something, they are just shallow.


The only person who really cares if you're a virgin is YOU, so if you stop letting it bother you, you won't be troubled by it anymore.

I am 18 and still a virgin, and I really don't care.

I myself feel it is something special, that should only be given away to somebody equally special.

 

It's ok, I was 20 before I lost mine... and as lame as the girls sound about someone coming around, they will... I somehow got a cute, sweet 18 year old virgin to fall into my lap just because I was intrigued and felt some kind of spark there, and at my party I pulled her to the side just because I wanted to get away and talk with her... then it all just happened... I was fingerbanging her by the end of the night when she had never even kissed another guy before that. Of course it took a little over three months later to lose our virginity, and it was painful because I was scared I would screw it up somehow before I could actually do it.

Anyway, just try to get things going with girls... and don't focus on having sex with them because a lot of the time they'll sense that from you and look somewhere else so fast you wont know what happened, and they usually won't tell you why.. eventually all your practice with the ladies will pay off and you'll learn the big no-no's of dating and hooking up, and when that girl comes along you'll be more than suave enough to get it done. Baby steps man.

 

You must not know anything about strip clubs... they are paid to do a job, and you are not going to have a chance of hooking up with one. Period. Maybe you'll get lucky and have enough of a spark with a stripper that you can coax her into letting your hands wander during a lap dance, but even that's pretty lucky. My stepbrother lives in LA, makes a lot of money, and is one of the coolest, suavest, and most good-looking cats you've ever seen, but even he had to drop 800 dollars on a stripper in Vegas just to get a handjob.

But I'm not saying stay away from strip clubs, I've been 5 or 6 times and have probably dropped around 300$ to 400$ in them... it's kind of a waste of money, but they are some good memories :excited: I definitely suggest going at least once, they're good at their jobs, and by giving off the stripper illusion (where you swear they're in to you) they can boost your confidence a bit as well.

 

Man, to be honest i've never expected this amount of reponses.
This helps greatly!!

Thanks a bunch guys.

I 'll try to chill out and wait for that one.

 

Wel duh.

 

Hi 808 well first start talking with them don't stare at them for ages BIG TURN OFF of women just glance over and smile if the look back and smile they like the look of you or dont even bother just go over and start talking to them don't bore them with shit just talk to them like they were one of your mates but not about guy stuff ask them their name and stuff if she stars talking back offer to buy her a drink don't buy drinks all night coz some women will take advantage of that ok and once you have started talking you are half way there. Try a bit of skin contact touch her hands while explaining something to her if she pulls away then just say i was just showing you something but in a gentle tone of voice if skin contact works maybe move a bit closer invade her space a bit see how she reacts if all goes well you should know if a kiss is due or not ok i hope this has been useful good luck and don't be nervous their only ppl like us ok mate

 

i was like this at school when you go out to a pub or a club, be a different they dont know you you dont know them have more confidence as they dont know any thing about yuor back ground

 

personally, i think virgins are hot. i'd love to push a guy back on my bed, crawl between his legs, take his cock in my hand and stroke, lick, and suck every inch until it was hard and throbbing in my mouth. direct his cock into my pussy and de-virginize (is that a word? no? it is now.) him. the fact that my tight pussy would be his first, is really, really thrilling. mmmmmmm.

 

Man... when did 18 become the new 40? Still being a virgin at 18 isn't a big deal in the least. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, man. It'll happen when it happens.

If you're 30 and still a virgin, come back and ask for advice. For now: patience.

 

for real man

if this guy keeps going this way, by the time he actually has sex he won't enjoy it cus he'll have hyped it up so much and made such a big deal out of it that he won't be able to enjoy it.

 

That's a damned good way to put it, I'm a virgin too, and just about every girl that I have ended up mentioning it to were completely surprised. When you hang with your friends try to focus on everything that you talk about with them, if you have ever found yourself leading a conversation then remember how you got there. Maybe this is just in my case (and everyone else for that matter because i used to be really quiet) but most of the time, if you have anything at all to say about yourself, then chances are they'll listen.

Here's my advice to you, probably has been said before: you're basically playing poker with no chips but you always have a shot at the pot, you can call as much as you want but no matter what you lose nothing. That's all you need to keep in your head so when you think of it like that, and convince yourself of it, and always remember, you are a lot more important than them to yourself, if you don't know them now, you won't know them again later so don't be afraid to let a rude person know they're rude if it makes you feel better.