Jeez, sweetie, do I have to do you too now?

So many virgins...

 

I'm not in CasaDan's position, so YEAH! I couldn't hope for a better lecturer. You must be busy but pleeeease, drop a line of how you would do me. NO ONE in the world can say it better.

 

I'll have to return to the subject when I have a bit more time...

Don't go out and lose your virginity to some floozie for another day or two.

 

Oh, but it was dirty I know it's healthy, but it was dirty. And dirty ain't ever a bad thing with sex

(well... ya knwo what I mean )

Yeah... i know I'm suppressing my true nature, and I know it's unhealthy to do so and I know I probably won't be able to hold it back when I finally can no longer hold myself back... In fact it's a matter I really need to talk to my girl about but cower out any time I attempt to.

Hehe, I'm a wreck in this situation and I know it so very well

In this case, I'd suggest a threesome if you two were up for it. I mean, it would after all be like killin two birds with one stone

 

I haven't lost my virginity in 22 years but another day or two?... that's just too tough. But I'll hold on when it is for you!

 

Well this thread went nowhere.

 

I'm in! This surely would qualify for a memorable first time! Well, if we omit the bird-killing part. Otherwise you would have to make it exceptionally memorable if my first time was going to be my last time as well.

 

haha, yeah, sorry about hijacking the thread... i really didn't mean to...

But anyway, there is info here that still relates.

 

Virginity is overrated, lose it to someone that is worthy of you.

 

Sorry for straying away a bit. But I have to disagree with you. You've got some pretty good advice, for now, the thoughts have been exhausted I guess, you can still bump the thread later and see what comes up.

I would say don't lose your virginity to a nearest floozie (thanks, Kimi, for the word), wait for 'special someone' but don't wait forever, don't be a perfectionist.

For the technical part of it - be confident, relax, most of the time it doesn't make a good appeal when you're nervous. Girls like guys that have things under control. But don't be overconfident, don't brag! Try to build a charisma - you even don't have to look good. I know it's easier said than done but remember being a wimp is a loss in advance, being properly confident raises your chances surprisingly.

For the even more technical part of it - talk to the girls but don't talk about weather. Talk about something you potentially could have in common (don't spy on her, if she finds out, you lose more that you put into it) or find another reason and suitable subject for the conversation so that it's natural.

I shouldn't be giving advice on how to lose virginity but this is among what I learned about girls. Girls, correct me if I'm mistaken, I will gladly upgrade my database of what it gets to hunt you down.

 

Like I said, virginity thing is overrated. Don't care about it too much, lose it to someone WORTH your fucking time.

 

I didnt lose my virginity till i was 18. I use to be REALLY shy, i mean never talked to anyone i was so shy. But i found a girl somehow and im still with her 3 years later.


Now im not so shy anymore lol.


Being in a relationship and losing your virginity sky rockets your confidence.

 

Lucky guy, 3 years. Lucky guy.

 

Extremly

 

well buddy i was a virgin until i was 18 too.
but i can tell you after i lost it i wish i had it back i was drunk night and ended up haveing sex with someone i hardly knew. so my advice to you is just wait and do it with someone special.

 

Aww. I'm sorry. =[

 

*That* is a stereotype. If you have to come up with a stereotype for every type of person they'd just become "types".

808, from my experience, girls open up a lot more around 18-20. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20, now at 26 I've been with numerous women. It gets easier, seriously.

 

no, not really. and who says I came up with them? A stereotype, is a person who perfectly fits a certain mold. Like I said, there are stereotypes for every single type of person, not just the ones most people use. There already are "types" of people, a stereotype, is a person that fits that type exactly, to the point where psychoanalyzing them doesn't even require work. Like I told the other guy though, I really don't feel like getting into detail about all of that right now, considering this is a thread about an 18 year old virgin, not about stereotypes.

but I'll agree with you on the second part.

 

I am 21 and haven't lost my virginity. I have had many 'close calls' but the ship has never entered port so to speak.

I realize now that it is just a matter of entering a successful relationship and maintaining it properly, and we will do what comes naturally. Unfortunately I was stuck with very high standards at a very early age (My first love was extremely attractive and she led me on for many years) so if I were to get with someone I find sexually attractive I would have to reform my body completely. I have a habit of chasing unattainable girls, so I have a very negative view of relationships in general, and even considered becoming a eunuch at one point.


PS:Sorry to necropost, but I find this thread to be one of the better ones on virginity so I am going to bump it.

 

I have the same habit. I'm just picky (not that I feel that I can afford it), that's the way I am and though I don't see myself getting better I could use some help with this but I don't know if logical reasoning could do...

...necropost, lol, I like this one, too.