Ive been with my girlfriend for a long while now, we have amazing sex (great oral on both ends, every and any position in any and every place, both cum 99.9% of the time)

A little more background.. Whenever I even mention putting it in her ass she freaks out, sometimes when I go down on her Ill finger her and get closer and closer to her ass but never in there. Then Ill accidently almost go in her ass when having sex and she freaks.. Is this totally off limits or can I convince her??

She sucks my dick amazing, loves to do it and does it every time but doesn't want me to cum in her mouth or on her face, she says "why would you wanna cum on my face? what's the point??" Same question, Is this totally off limits?? Or can I convince her?? :rose:

 

Just respect her limits. You probably will never be able to convince her to do a facial if she doesn't want to do it... as for anal, ask her why she freak out about it.

Be a man and say "Hey, how about this, if you fuck my ass and I like it, let me fuck your ass to show you how good it feels!" Seriosuly, unless you show her that anal isn't that bad, you'd probably never get it >_> (And no it does not make you gay or anything for trying anal... just use toys or something)

 

you have to fuck the shit out of her dude( think 3 to 4x better than you perform now), get drunk, take a viagra, do what you gotta do...If you bang the hell out of any women you can cum on her face and she WILL love it.....as far as anal goes good luck with that alotta chicks arent with that right away especially if you have a big dick, if this turns iinto a long term thing she'll have no choice

 

haha dude my apologies ive never been able to do it the only time i got a girl to do anal was at a party! an we didnt quite know wut we were doing! but hey if u find out let me know cause its amazingly tighter!

 

lol thanks for the replies. You have a point CASADON, Ive never really attempted or hinted when actually having sex so Ill try that, see what happens.. As for the booty sex, I guess Ill just take that a little slower

 

you are such a neanderthal.

try asking, perhaps after sex, about cumming on her face. maybe she thinks it's gross. maybe she doesn't get why you think it's hot. having a cock in front of your face, ready to explode, can be a bit intimidating, really. and facials can be construed as demeaning... for me, the only time i am okay with it, is if i'm being made to do it - otherwise i can't get past certain mental barriers.

as for anal, have you talked about it? (personally, i don't think anything should be sexually attempted unless you can talk about it.) there are a lot of stigmas and fears associated with it. starting small, with a finger or a toy, and licking, is a good place to begin. i agree with CasaDan's idea about letting her play with your ass.

 

Ok a few questions:
How old is she? (I see your 21)
What sexual experience has she had? (Long term, many, one)
I ask these questions because, if she is young she probably hasn’t had a lot of experience in sex, or she could have had a dick head boyfriend that miss treated her.
Both of these things could cause her not to what anal or facials.
Experience and trust, will open her to try the things you desire, but you have to do it on her terms.

 

Watch a lot of porn with her. Then she'll think everyone is doing it.

Just kidding.

 

These are both pretty tough situations to figure out. It's basically a personal choice foe each woman. Some like to have a guy come on their face, some don't. Some like anal sex, some don't.

I'm sorry to say, but you can't force either of these. Well...You could just come on her face when she didn't know if, but I don't think you'll have a girlfriend much longer.

Relationships are a give and take. If these two things are a deal breaker, tell her that. She might be more willing to consider them if she knows the gravity of the situation. Otherwise, I suggest going about sex in the usual way and if it happens, it happens.

 

Let's make some movies for him to watch

Under NO circumstances should you take the advice of this person.


Perhaps next time you're being intimate you could simply be like.

"Baby, I've noticed you always shy away from anything to do with anal, and I'm a bit curious about that sort of thing, and just wondered if there is a reason. Or possibly anything I can do to make you more comfortable about trying it. I don't want to push you into trying it if you don't want to however."