My gf likes for me to stick my finger in her ass just before she cums. I always make sure that my finger is very lubricated and I slide it in very slowly. The first time we did this I did it by accident, when we fuck I'm normally on top and I always hold her ass in my hands (I have large hands and she likes the feeling), as we were fucking one time one of my fingers started rubbing her ass hole and she started moaning. I started to rub a little harder and she stated cuming! So now its a regular part of our love making. So far we have not tried my cock in her ass, I'm only average length but I'm very thick and she's not to excited about tring that!

 

I think that this thread has answered the question pretty much but wanted to add my penny's worth.

I have had several partners who liked or learned to like anal fun except my ex wife
In the beginning though in those relationship it was all about communication between trusting partners, because is does bloody hurt if you get it wrong. Lube, relaxaed anus, cleanlyness and pace are needed to be well in control to make a nice experience. I also let the women guide me and push themselves on as they have complete control at the scary bit, but once in bingo! I can bang away to my hearts content, finger her clit and both of us get a very nice time! Oh and I always us a condom as well as fully washing before and after.

Infact after work tonight we're going to have some bum fun as she is horney as hell after a tay at her parents and being on dampened our sex life for the last week

 

Yr a fny gy! wy yu gt bnd?

 

My 2 cents

Well as a bi guy I can tell you from experience that it hurt the first time. But My wife was real slow and gentle and very liberal with the KY. Which in my opinion is the best lube. ANyway, the first time was with one of her dildos that she used on me. It hurt a little then after she got going she started sucking my cock. Let me tell you when I came I literally saw stars!! It was by far the most intense orgasm I have ever had. Now I took it a step further and went and found a guy to fuck me. A dildo is good but there is nothing like a nice hot hard throbbing cock in your ass.

 

Anal Sex

I had been forced into anal sex before I married and was not very fond of it till I met my hubby. He was very concerned for my comfort and satisfaction as he began to bring me out of my sexual shell. One of the things he asked me to try was anal. Immediately, I was petrified. He knew this and didn't push the issue. After a lot of foreplay and encouragement, he managed to convince me to try. As he entered, I was waiting for the pain I had experienced before but it never came. I felt him begin to penetrate and then go all the way in. He was slow and gentle and between that and some well placed stimulation on my clit, I experienced one of the most intense orgasms of my life. We don't do it often but when we do, it's as wonderful as that first time.

Guys who just ram it in should have the same done to them by a supersized stiff dildo

GW35:rose:

 

Well, that was an awesome first post.

 

Kimi, from what I gather from your posts, you really do not get anything from anal sex?Just do it because hubby likes it? The reason I ask is my wife appears to have an almost violent orgasm from anal and clitoral stimulation. I mean it is explosive.

 

I have done this many times, using a 14" flexible dong. In fact I have worked that thing all the way into my ass, and I mean all the way! I get on my knees and keep working it in until it is buried. The whole time I am stroking my hard cock.

The problem is I cannot cum with anything in my ass. I have tried repeatedly and it doesn't work for me. When I pull it out I can stroke myself to cum but not while it is in. Sometimes I jerk until I am about to shoot and insert a finger in my ass just at the last moment and that works because I cannot stop the orgasm.

 

The orgasm from anal is absolutely amazing. Far different from any other kind of orgasm. Everyone is right, go slow, communicate and most importantly, free your mind! I think you need to have a fair amount of sexual experience to really enjoy it. You also need absolute trust in your partner.

 

welcome

thanks for sharing :rose:

 

Am I too old? Ass fuck never appealed to me. I would do it only if begged to but dont think I'd enjoy it as much. Nothing to beat good ole juicy hot slippery pussy

 

mmm i would love to try it done the fingers and shit but never cock mabey because im above average in size and a bit big but mabey in the future

 

The few times I have been asked to do anal I was already wet from pussy juice, so just carefully stuck it in her ass. They never said anything except that it felt good. Sure was for me.

 

Would it hurt the guy more or the female much more?

 

It has never hurt me.. Not even the first time..

Maybe I've got a lose arse 0.o .... But the guy I lost my Anal virginity too was quite exprienced in it .. I'm hoping it was that reason lol

 

LMFAO

HAHA..YOU SHOULD TRY IT
OF COURSE IT HURTS

 

For me, at first, of course it does.
Guys think they can just ram it in all quick like porn stars.
They don't understand it needs a litl gentle stretching first.
I should invest in a butt plug.

 

It can hurt if done wrong, but it is also a great source of pleasure when done right.
Time is the key word for me, and the preparing always make me so hot it takes little to give me my first orgasm,.

 

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