Certainly. I remember reading "The Story of O" as a teenager and being powerfully aroused by it, partly because the heroine is a respectable lady who is forced to completely submit, due to forces beyond her control and the betrayal of her own lover. She can tell herself that it's not her fault, but she's free to enjoy what's happening to her, no matter how extreme. It's clear, ultimately, that she wants all this to happen, and has, in fact, given her permission for everything that occurs.

 

I gotta admit, when I'm in that kind of a mood, it's really hot, but it's more of an animal lust thing, and rough sex where I'm in control and rape are two very different things.

 

I love having my arms held down by his, as we look into each others eyes and enjoy our body messing together.

But I wouldn't call that rape.

 

They're all just points on a continuum. But I agree that there's a line that one must not cross, obviously. REAL rape is a crime of power, not lust. And it is, of course, non-consensual. In my rape fantasies, I always consent, consciously or sub-consciously.

 

I wouldn't either...but we're talking fantasy here, and simulated rape is perfectly okay fantasy material.

 

I feel that if the other person wants to be raped, then do it, but know where the limits are first. I don't believe anyone should be subject to undue harm. Levels can be from held down with your hands, using ropes, light slapping, and others. Talk with your partner and ask them what would be acceptable first before you regret the results.

 

Ohhhhh, then in that case I would love to have my clothes ripped off, maybe tiied down in bed and ice cubes in his mouth run over my body, before a good hard fucking.

 

Done...

 

I love

:rose:the idea of a rape fantasy with my woman. I would never actually rape a woman. Rape=bad; rape fantasy=good.

RICO

 

Always have a safe word, thats the key.

 

Honestly, Emily, you are SUCH a nasty, slutty girl! *calmly tying your wrists to the headboard with silk scarves*

 

Interesting......anyone ever think about reversing the roles? A woman ties up her man...and rapes him? I'd like to know if this is a fantasy of our fine women. And if you have thought it, or done it, what did you..in fact...do?

And..does that make him a slut?

 

I told someone I had a play rape fantasy and he took it out of context.. You have to be careful about it, and make sure he knows where the line is. I don't care how much of a nympho a girl is, there are times when she doesn't want to have sex, or even be touched by anyone, especially him. And there are some times when a girl who loves being degraded and called a slut in bed, needs some passionate, loving sex. The important thing is to pay attention to moods and reactions, and definitely have a safe word (I'm a hypocrite on that).

 

I definitely have rape fantasies! Unfortunately, my boyfriend is too sweet to degrade me properly

 

fgfdg

caring is creepy.

 

Aw, how sad for you.

 

Are you volunteering to degrade her properly?

 

Slutty slutty!

 

I'm not normally so mercenary with my loving, but there's been a bit of a dry spell here at Bunny Central lately, so...

 

Hey, you don't have to justify yourself to ME! Degrade away!