I was just thinking about how the world of porn gives us an incredibly unrealistic view of sex and what others should look like and enjoy.

Some examples that I can think of right now, speaking from the man's point of view.

1) All women are perfect.
They are tall and leggy and have the perfect bodies. Perfect tans and perfect breasts. No flabby bits and no blemishes. This is especially apparent in photo shoots where everything is airbrushed to death. I have yet to meet one of these women, but when I see a woman naked I don't expect perfection.

2) All women are mad for cock.
That they love sucking it and can't get enough of it, the more the merrier. I have been with a few girls over the years who I questioned as to whether a threesome/DP/gang bang was their ultimate fantasy and they said that it would scare them to death.

3) All women's pussies taste beautiful.
You watch porn and seeing men happily eating a pussy out for 10 minutes, getting their faces as wet as they can. Yet any pussy I have ever eaten out does not taste that great (sorry girls).

By the same logic, I am sure that penises don't taste great either.

4) All women love anal.
Again from my experience girls are not mad about you putting anything near their assholes, and even less about sticking something up them.

5) If you were to perform anal, that the women's ass would be completely clean and hairless.
I would say if I had anal with the next girl I met then my cock would be a bit gross when it came down. Not all women get daily enemas to keep their asses clean.

6) Women love the taste of cum.
In porn girls can't get enough cum over their faces and in their mouths. I have asked a few in my time and apparently it does not taste great. Perhaps I'm unlucky but only once have I heard the immortal words "cum on my face" as I was nearing a climax. I wish I would hear it more! Having said that, more often girls have been blowing me and kept my cock in their mouths as I came. But I would say that women in general would prefer NOT to take cum in their mouths if they could avoid it.

And to add a quick one from the female point of view,

7) All men have massive cocks and can fuck for 45 minutes non-stop !!!!!!!


Anyone care to add any more?

 

How about all women do not moan and make sounds like that.

 

8. all girls love to be fucked at jackhammer speed in strange positions.

9. every girl loves a big cock and can take it like a champ.

 

Dude, I've gotta tell you...in my life...erm....I don't have a problem with ANY of the entries that you've listed.

Well....maybe the first one since no one is perfect, but yeah. All the women I'm with ARE mad for my cock...they taste lovely from head to toe...all of em do anal for me and are certainly hairless in said specified area and I don't have a small cock. Not huge, but certainly well above the national male average.

Doh! In going over all that stuff...I was wrong, all the gals I know, especially my girlfriend...most of'em don't like the taste of cum. But hey, I'm not one to ever complain...just do something else.

Some of us just live a much smuttier life.

 

That is a perfect example to me. Hell, even I hate watching that onscreen! lol

I think the biggiest lie that porn perpetuates is that unattractive men are really able to score some of this hot ass ladies in the films. While all the women aren't lovely, they number of cute/hot ones still greatly outweighs the number of what would be considered "hot" men in the biz.

And there are FAR Too many old dudes with no cock at all...Max Hardcore and Ed Powers to name two rather easily.

 

C'mon, people, porn isn't supposed to reflect reality...if it did, there wouldn't be any need for it at all.

When you watch the next James Bond flick, do you complain that we don't all have gadgets like that, and any normal secret agent doing that stuff would have been dead many times over?

 

+1

When you watch porn, you should know it's all fictional and it's a movie. I would be more worried about the image that the media is displaying to younger children rather than the 18+ people who watch porn. Their minds are much more open to influence.

 

Of course, but James Bond is no ordinary secret agent! ;-) If he were ordinary he would be dead, so there's the proof. If you need more remember, he his fictional.

As for the sex stuff... yeah, that's all make-believe. I have had really only one partner who "liked" to swallow my cum. She never complained and almost every time we had sex I would cum in her mouth. I still fantasize about her and it's been 30 years since I was with her. Yeah, I miss that. Talk about immortal words... "cum in my mouth" is the end of it for me. I dream about being told that when I am about to cum but my wife isn't into tasting cum at all. She does suck my cock but really only as a method for her to orgasm herself. We 69 until she cums and then I usually jerk off while she is struggling to stay awake. Normally I just go to sleep myself and jerk off in front of the computer in the morning. Now why don't they make a video of that??

Pussy: I love eating pussy but the woman has to like being eaten. The taste varies with the time of day and how clean she is. As long as there isn't a foul smell, it tastes wonderful. How much better do you think it gets? You get to put your lips and tongue on her body. I love the feeling of being able to lick her slit and suck on her clit. I like to finger her and lick her clit and suck the juice right out of her. When she cums it is the best sensation as her body tenses and she releases.

Anal sex: I have never had the opportunity and my wife says it is "an exit only" place on her body. She doesn't like it even when I try to lightly stroke her asshole. I would think the digital sensation would make her hot (it works on me) but she just brushes my hand away. I don't even try any more.

Beautiful, flawless women: Of course they exist. I have seen plenty of them, just not naked, in my bed. My god, women are gorgeous just for being women. I love all kinds, even the ones who aren't "Gossip Girl" material.

Lasting 45 minutes: I can fuck for hours and not cum. I have cum during intercourse maybe once in the last three years. It takes me 30-60 minutes to cum when I masturbate watching porn. Of course I might cum more often during intercourse if my wife could last more than a few minutes. She gets sore very quickly and we have tried various types of lubricants. Usually we don't even fuck, just oral and masturbate together; and that has not happened since August.

Sex is overrated.

 

I don't understand the enjoyment that men get from regular porn, its closer to science fiction than anything.

REAL amateur porn is a lot closer to the real thing, with some exaggerations of course.

But to respond to this topic:

Women can always take a 11 inch dick anally like it was nothing when even vaginally if you not used to it, it still hurts

Women's asshole is always wet (Trust me, have dated guys who thought so)

I am bisexual, but a lot of my friends get annoyed because most men assume that all women are bisexual or bi-curious

 

Exactly, exploitation of their desires that they can't/don't want to perform with their partners.

 

But you're missing the point. I do all those things not because I enjoy them per se, but because my sexual partners have all fantasized about an idealized, over-the-top version of sex that derives from their familiarity with pornography. If, because of the influence of pornography, they get powerfully aroused at the thought of a woman acting like a total slut, bathing herself delightedly in their cum, begging tawdrily to be fucked in her ass, or whatever, then I'm going to fulfill all that for them, if it's in my power to do so. And maybe, just maybe, they'll do the same for me sometime.

We're all just trying to get higher...

 

Hardcore pornography is fake with regards to the attitude that women are even remotely like that in real life. Very few if any women I know like it in the ass or like to be facefucked till they pass out. Pleaze. Everyone thinks it's normal, I don't. Why do you think porn makes so much $$$. Because they feed off of the lustful desires and needs of a male population who thinks it is real. Real life and porn is just that, real and fantasy. I like amateur porn better than staged professional porn. It is a little more real.

 

i'm sorry, but i do like worshipping his cock. and i do beg for his cum, and yeah, i get cravings for my man's cum. not any guy, but my guy.

 

I agree. I personally do not wish to have cum on my face. Mouth is okay, but I seriously prefer in my pussy/ass. Or not at all, if they're wearign a condom.

I do like it a little rough, but thats just me. :excited:

SL

 

Let's see, mmm again i was speaking for myself and women i know. Feel free to worship whatever you want.

 

hope that wasnt to me, because i didn't even read your reply.

 

Ah don't worry about the troll problem there is.

 

Hey Porter, let's try and meet in real life so I can punch you in the face. You might be the biggest prick on this forum. Your ways will never be mine. Go live in your little fantasy world, your liberal opinions make me sick, just like you.

 

lol

Yup.

 

That's right Porter, you are scum to me! keep it up.