The only thing worse than being a prick, in Diedre's eyes, is being a liberal prick.

 

You are exactly the type of women that guys crave! Anyone that would willingly try to fulfill a man's desires. I didn't even know that a woman like you existed for real. Of course, you aren't real either; just a part of this forum. I appreciate you but as far as actually existing for me, it won't ever really happen. I can just fantasize about you. I guess the best part is actually being able to talk about the fantasies with someone like you, and the rest of the forum members. The problem is it doesn't translate into anything physical, at least not except by myself. :-(

 

Well dude, of course most of the women here are gonna be like the women in porn, that's just how they are(didn't mean anything bad by that). If they weren't like that, they probably wouldn't like porn, or at least not "normal" porn.

I think the worst thing is the way it makes a lot of younger guys nowadays feel liike their dick is small as hell, even if it's above average, cus they probably don't realize that the dudes in porn are handpicked for their big cocks at first.

There's nothing wrong with fucking like a pornstar, but you've gotta be just plain stupid if you really expect that every single woman wants to be fucked like that and gagged and all of that shit. There's still chicks out there who won't give head!

Thinking about that gives me nightmares sometimes

 

Well it is probably the young guys who are going to be most influenced by porn and the image it creates of women in general. According to the porn industry, a woman's place is on her knees in heels and a short skirt, giving head or taking it up the ass. Not that I am arguing here... ;-)

Seriously... as a guy who grew up with porn being the occasional Playboy or Penthouse magazine, the image that the internet offers of how our lives are supposed to be, including how to dress, play, eat, and fuck, is completely unrealistic. Especially when we grow up and realize that life has not changed as much as the internet would like us to believe. We still have to earn a living and, for those of us who try, raise a family and make our marriages work.

The young guys don't (in general) think about that and may be most impressionable when it comes to what is expected of the women in their lives. I am guessing that there may be a whole class of women out there that may be doing stuff for their "man" that they would rather not be doing.

 

Exactly, and the fact is that the most popular music, movies, TV shows, ads, etc, reinforce the same idea, so what's supposed to be just content to arouse the viewer, becomes an influence, when it was never meant to be.

 

Kimiko, I have stated to you numerous times that I have conservative views and I have liberal views, it depends on the issue.

 

"The only thing worse than being a prick, in Diedre's eyes, is being a liberal prick. "

Would that be one that has a slight bend to the left? I think I have one of those.

 

Life is full of things that you'd rather not be doing but you do for someone else. Otherwise no one would ever take out the trash or do the dishes

I think porn is more accurately a reflection of an extreme. That stuff does exist, some women DO like it, but the error is in assuming that ALL WOMEN are like that, enjoy that. And realizing that error is something that any reasonably intelligent person does at some point in their life (some earlier than others )

Also don't assume that because a woman wouldn't initiate something on her own that you're torturing her every time you do it. Getting rough, cumming in her mouth, dp, anal, all those things, if they're approached honestly and consensually can be an acquired taste. I didn't like wine the first time I tried it either.

But over years exploring my tastes through others I have to say my life wouldn't be nearly as rich without the occasional glass of wine or rough fuck!

 

And as for anal if you want her to be nice and clean for it don't just be like

SURPRISE! BUTTSEX!!!

 

Well if everyone thought that way the world would be a better place. Of course being open-minded and willing to try new things would be the best approach. If everyone acted that way we would probably not have wars or hate, not that the two are mutually exclusive. I think you need one to create the other.

I am not gay but bi-curious. I would love the chance to be with a man, sexually. I fantasize about sucking cock and swallowing his cum. I would perform on him the way I would like to be performed on. The whole do-unto-others routine. I don't know if in reality I would like it and maybe it's a good thing that it is just a fantasy. If I ever got the chance to act on it, the whole thing might be ruined.

My wife and I will talk about a sex fantasy of being with third person, male and female, depending on the mood. We get very explicit, like he is fucking me in the ass while she is sucking me off, or she is sucking him while I am fucking her. She likes it when I describe how I would suck his cock and allow him to hold my head down while he blows his cum in my mouth.

This will never happen, though. It is just a fantasy. We are mature individuals who have been together for 20 years. Even though I believe she really doesn't want to advance the fantasy to a physical, really-happening, thing, I would. The fact that I understand the difference is what separates me (in my opinion) from the young guy who may think that everyone in the world is there to satisfy his fantasies and desires. In fact that is one of the problems in the world, right? Many people living as if the whole world owes them something. Including satisfaction of yet-unrealized fantasies.

 

The fact that so many women (and lots of men, too) can't imagine ever doing what porn stars do suggests to me that an awful lot of people are, quite simply, sexually repressed. Many people WANT to do what they see in porn films...they may fantasize about it...but they're too shy or too afraid or too uncommunicative to initiate it.

From that perspective, pornography may serve a very valuable purpose, in that it may encourage some adventurous folks to put some pizazz into their lovemaking. Especially now that porn is so freely available in people's homes.

 

Then why did you tell Porter that his liberal opinions make you sick?

 

I am a sex addict and from my newly experience you girls and guys ( go go kimiko ) need to get your head out of your ass.

It's all Christianity's fault for damping sexual desires and saying no to your wild dreams.

Even worse especially for me, there are some medicines they are working on that decrease your sex drive.

Lets not all be like the giver now shall we xD sex is good and it is part of everyone's relationship. Those that don't do it are likely having a bad relationship.

But that's what i think and i know people have different views but i really hate Christianity.

 

lol

you...could be inviting debate.

 

bring it!

i knbow bishop is my arch enemy. She hates when i talk about satanism and vikings eating babys and raping teens ( 16 and under )

but i'm a good guy and i like satanism over christianity becuase it's more active. ie. i see weird stuff, dreams, reading certains books brings spirits and other stuff.

I have tried christianity and i tried to get a sign from him but.................but.......( listens) ........any ways no god here just a bunch of bs that tried to control your life.

well i'll kick my self out of the this thread permently so i wont respond to the worst comments.

 

Because his distinct liberal opinion on certain subjects makes me ill. Yes, I am the troll for expressing my opinion??? he just can't accept views unlike his own. He will grow up someday.

 

Whoa, you posted in white? What's the occasion?

Know what deidre dear? You can view anything in your conservative mind and you can see me as scum but guess what? I'm not and you're a troll


Oi, Kimiko best leave this troll under it's bridge. If you cross it, she might get on her knees for Obama.

 

No movie portrays things realistically mainly because real life is usually pretty boring. Porn is the same way. Imagination and fantasy are as important to the human creature as love and socialization because you need the former to deal with the later- haha.
And by the way deidre79- opinions don't make you scum. You need to get over yourself if you think you are better than someone else. Do YOUR best to make YOURSELF the best YOU that YOU can be and let everyone else do their own thing. As long as he isn't impinging on your rights you have nothing to bitch about. Just take a look at yourself and see that you are making an ass out of yourself. You can have your opinion and everyone else can have theirs.

 

Much of what you said here I am in agreement with. That being said, I disgree with your comment that life is pretty boring. Speaking for myself , and only myself of course, I have found every moment i have lived as exciting as hell. It is porn that ultimately becomes the bore and in reality becomes a crutch for many to lean on.
I know that we on this forum, sometimes truthfully more often not, discuss our desires , our fantasies and the like but we seldom touch on those meanfulful things to be garned in a warm loving and sexual relationship. Mores the pity.

 

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