I always wonder about this.
I always wondered why do you like sucking cocks, what kind of pleasure do you get when you are not stimulating any sexual organ (ie mouth is not a sexual organ)?

I think sucking cock (cock in general) is so gross and disgusting. Everytime, I think about it, it makes me seriously vomit and throw up in my mouth. I never directly look at cock in porn, because it so disgusting.

Guys are so disgusting. Half of them don't clean after themselves (so many men don't wash his hand after using the bathroom). Girls, on the other hand I believe are super clean. Most of the guys sweat down there, I just get how anyone can like licking sweat. If I was born a female, I think I would seriously become a lesbian.


It logically make sense to be straight masculine guy (most things in life like to dominate and penetrate and love and feel on things that are beautiful , soft etc. ie woman, roses, soft bed). I logically don't get submissive feminine females and gay guys. What do you guys get out from of it? It doesn't make any sense to me and I always wondered about this.

 

My boyfriend keeps himself very clean down there. There's always the hot smell of cum through his balls but it's a yummy smell not a 'omg he's gross' smell. I love sucking his cock because it's something that I can do that 1) turns me on!! and 2) can give him a taste of the pleasure that he gives to me just by kissing me.

I don't know why it turns me on so much. I think it's knowing that something that causes me so much pleasure is getting the attention it deserves down my throat. I've cum and squirted just from sucking his cock, no foreplay no stimulation to myself whatsoever..

Maybe guys you know are gross hobos, but my baby is more than happy to keep clean so that his little baby will suck his hot cock.

 

Really?
Take pleasure in pleasuring others.

That's kind of a generalization don't you think? Girls can be just as 'dirty' as men. It's the media's construction of women being/should be perfect (completely against that view, I love people for their imperfections). Think about it, sex itself is dirty.

Feminine females, imagine that!
If people like it, don't ask why they do. It's such a hard question to answer. I guess the straight of it is "Because."

 

You'd be surprised how dominant gay men can be.

Why do you suck the nipples of your girl friend? Because you find her breasts so beautiful, you like the way she responds to your tongue.

To me -- and the ladies I suppose -- a cock looks just as beautiful. I like the scent of it, the way it gets harder when I take care of it. It's not only the sucking itself, but watching my partner's reaction.

 

It is very sexy. Even if I am down on my knees in front of a guy and he may think he is dominating me, in fact, I suck his cock and he will follow me anywhere. I take a small piece of meat and turn it into a hard raging red machine ready to pleasure me is such a big turn on. It is amazing. So I don't do it pleasure the guy, I do it as domination. Know how to suck cock and you can lead the guy anywhere.

 

Some gay guys are too masculine. No question, the bodily and facial traits speak for themselves. Also when you check their testosterone levels it's higher than normal. Now deal with this!

If I were to generalize I could say you're not man enough.

 

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Winter.
1/ do you get pleasure from sucking a pussy?
2/ have you a cock phobia? Or is it your own cock sickens you. Why not become a female and remove it? I bet you wouldnt evfen suck your own cock if it was possible.
3/ do you wash yourself?

 

Question: you have a guy's cock between your teeth, his balls in your hand.

Who is dominating now?

 

Thanks for the responses.

I just don't get how you find cum smell so yummy and turn you on from attention. Maybe. we are just wired differently.

It is not generalization. Trust me, most guys are dirty, Ask any guy, how many men actually wash his hand after going to the bathroom.

I just want to know "because why". The question has fascinated me for sometime. I simply don't get it.

According to studies, most of the gay guys love to be controlled and pushed by stronger man just like straight females; I don't think you can call that being dominant. My girlfriend love to be controlled by me like wants me to grab her hair and put her mouth on my cock and call her "slut" and and "whore". That is just messed up thinking in my mind and I find it very disturbing (even though I like it ie control). I think everything in the world would want to be one to be dominant and want to be the one to be in control, like to be independent and be the boss. I always, ask my girl why do you like being "pushed", she said she says do.

I am fascinated by the submissive sexuality and I seriously want to study this in fine details. Can anyone suggest a good book to read on this?

 

The mouth not a sexual organ? With all its nerve endings and senses?
Your poor girl friend!

According to studies, gay men have bigger penises on average. I don't tell you that to impress you, but to show you that studies about minorities often reflect the prejudice of their authors.

Sometimes I like to fuck somebody vigorously, sometimes I prefer to lay on my back and enjoy being fucked.

 

ME!

 

I don't know if I would call that being dominant. I would call that guys just worshiping you.

Question for you. Do you like the guy holding your hair and guide you? Do you like guys using little bit of force on you and make you gag on his cock?

1) I do get small bit of pleasure from sucking pussy (mostly I do it to return the favor). I don't get much pleasure as I get from when girls suck my cock or when I am fucking.
2) No, I don't have a cock phobia (that is just stupid, I don't fear cock just like I don't fear rotten egg smell). No, my cock doesn't sicken me. I am comfortable with my all my body parts; I wouldn't suck my own cock like I wouldn't suck my own feet.
3) dude, get a clue. Why would I complain about other guys not being clean if I am not clean.

Studies are not wrong. If you go to craigslist and see the gay postings. You will see so many of them say things like tie me up and use me anyway you want, or use force on me, or be aggressive or something in that line. Look it up.

According to studies, most female fantasize about being raped. I always wonder, why female think like this. I find it disturbing.

 

As long as a man has cleaned himself and does not smell bad, it is not gross. It's excites me to hear and watch him get so excited and orgasm.

 

OK, you as a straight man know of course more about gay dating sites and preferences than me.

 

The fact is that everyone's wired differently. Sure, there will be similarities here and there, but everyone finds pleasure in different ways. Personally, I LOOOVE eating pussy. I could do it for hours, even though it technically provides no physical stimulation for me. In fact, my tongue and jaws may be very sore after 20 minutes or so, depending on how vigorously I'm lashing my partner, but it still provides a great deal of mental and/or emotional stimulation. Part of sex is animalistic, part of it is physical, and part is emotional. I think the reason so many people are so unfamiliar with their own sexuality is that they aren't free or courageous enough to seek out what provides pleasure for them and then accept it when they find it. I'm a dude, and although I've never sucked cock I've been intrigued by the idea for a long time. When I find the right guy I'll try it, and I reserve any personal feelings about whether or not it's pleasurable until I've had the benefit of the experience. Do what you like, but don't force anyone to do anything they don't want to do, and don't judge others for what they like.

My $.02.

 

Winter, how old are you? You sound very immature.

 

I told you, I have been fascinated about this for a long time. I researched and studied this kind of stuff like what gay guys think like, what do they want in sexuality. I actualy studied more gay guys (ie from gay forum) than females because I think gays guys are more straight forward in expressing what they think like and what they want than females.

It doesn't matter how old I am. lol, you call me immature for asking obvious and tough, mature questions like why girls and gay guys like sucking cocks, why some people like being submissive in sexuality or why most girl fantasize about being raped.

 

Well, I can't speak for gay guys, but for me, sucking a man's cock is not about physical sensation at all. I would think that would be fairly obvious. It's about pleasing a man, and allowing him to use my mouth for his pleasure, just as I let him use the rest of me for his pleasure.

As for cleanliness, any man I have sex with better know the directions to the shower, because my tongue is going to end up in little nooks and crannies he didn't even know he had.

 

Alrighty then.

Figuring out the why of something is very hard. People do certain sexual behaviors because it pleases them. When I'm sucking Eve's clit and licking her pussy, the pleasure I receive is psychological. Her pussy is sweet and delicious, and being a gourmand, I enjoy tasting delicious things. It pleases me to taste something delicious. I am also pleased knowing that my wife is receiving sexual pleasure, and hearing her moan and squeak during the height of orgasm pleases me too. I've gotten pretty close to cumming just from latching onto her pussy with my mouth.
She sucks my cock because it pleases me, and she in turn is pleased by pleasing me. She gets dripping wet just by sucking me off.

 

Exactly. Where is it written that we all have to be driven 100% by our need for physical pleasure? The brain is the most important sex organ.