Me ad my buddy are both straight, him more than me I guess. However, lately I have been wanting to suck his cock. Don't know why all of a sudden, but do. How does a guy ask another guy without screwing up a friendship. Oh, and we are both married.

 

Well maybe you shouldn't ruin your marriages just because of a lustful desire.

 

Tell him in the mens locker room when your both nude. He'll have a harder killing you with just his bare hands, plus naked guy's (other than Borat) don't like to fight in the nude.

 

My advice would be getting him drunk first.

No seriously, has this friend ever hinted to you that he would ever consider doing something like that? If it were me I’d first introduce the idea to him in a nonchalant way, just to get his reaction.

And really try getting him drunk or high, or both.

 

Ya But

When You get the hots, it's hard to cool off. I never thought I would desire blowing a guy so badly!

 

Ya but

You're married for fuck sakes! Why would you want to ruin your relationship? What will your friends/other family think? Do you have kids? If so consider all the consequences!

 

try to read this again

 

Sorry, I can't read. Could you read it to me?

 

sorry i didn't mean you i meant to say that he should read what you said before

 

Pardon the sarcasm then

 

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This must be a joke. "Two straight men, both married" is what you're saying, right? Sounds a lot like Brokeback Mountain to me. Not to mention your name is "not2serious185" which sounds something like a response to "Why so serious?" You know, from that one movie Heath Ledger was in as the Joker?

 

Oh man! I know that movie! I loved star wars!

 

When faced with a difficult challenge - whatever it may be, possibly one you could set up when you're both drunk... - jokingly mention, "Hell, if you could pull that off I'd suck your dick..." He may blow it off since you're drunk or you may end up blowing him.

 

Whyy so serioussa?

 

If your both married than the thought of a blowjob should sound very appealing to him.Lords knows they are few and far inbetween..

 

I had a similar situation. Except I had a bet with my friend about the superbowl and if the giants won he would have to suck my dick. Well as you all know the giants won, so yea he blew me

 

My first cock suck was at my country home. I new that he was bi. We had dinner together and we went to my place to "sleep' that was the idea.
After a shower a past his bedroom, (i was nude and with a semi hard on) to ask if everything was OK.
Obviously it was not ....he grabbed my cock and started to suck on it......mmmmmm. With the wine and his expert mouth was very hard to stop it. So i let myself to enjoy the sensation and i decided that ....why not?
I join him in the bed and we enjoyed a great 69. I get hard thinking about it. I am sure would have been more enjoyable if i would have been sober.
The point is that, is a way as is been suggested on this thread to you.
We agree than we would not talk about it and never to happen again. Never again with him ....but it was not the last time for me with others.
I would say that you are not only interested on your friend but curious about bi sex.
Good luck , be discrete and do not handicap your family

 

+1

Man,porter..we are just too damn smart for these people.

and to the OP.
common sense,you haz none!

 

== I can haz a common cents?

 

Why would you guys assume that two married guys experimenting would wreck their marriages, destroy their friendship, and basically ruin their entire lives? Methinks a little rational maturity is in order here.

First, why not try a little honesty with your wives and find out if they're okay with it? If they are, then proceed to the next point. If they're not, then you're free to fantasize about it and jerk off all you want.

Second, if you guys are really good friends you probably already have a good sense of how he'd respond to the suggestion. Rather than coming right out and saying you want to suck his dick, though, I'd recommend you broach the topic in a more generalized way. You'll get a better idea of how open he is by simply talking about being curious. If he's a real friend he'll be okay with your curiosity even if he doesn't wish to participate. If he expresses similar curiosity, then you're in.

As for how it will affect your friendship, well, that depends on how sexually mature you both are, and how comfortable you are with each other and with your own sexuality.