SO I'VE HAD ANAL A FEW TIMES NOW, BUT IT STILL KINDA HURTS
AFTER THE FIRST FEW MINUTES IT FEELS BETTER BUT I WAS JUST WONDERING IS IT SUPPOSED TO HURT THE FIRST FEW TIMES???

 

I love girls who like anal, they're about 1 in 10, rarer than girl gamers probably. The anus is the most fascinating asset of a girls body, to me. So when she enjoys 'using it' for pleasure its an extreme turn on, for me.

Free rimjobs to any girls who like it up the ass!

 

try to get anal lube and let your lover start doing your front first hard, at this point your anus will open itself than ask him to stick one finger until you feel you need 2 finger trust me your ass will ask for 4 finger from your lover. my wife she 24 years old had same issue before but right now she loves anal without lube even . if you need more help just pm will be happy to help.

good luck

 

o.k. try getting real high and alot of lube

 

Answer to your problem

I have enjoyed anal sex for many years and love the feeling of a girl fucking my ass with a strap-on cock. When I first started I had the same problem with the initial pain and it almost put me off. But then I found the answer.

Sunflower cooking oil, relaxation and a gentle start.

Using the oil you start with your little finger first working up to the middle finger then use both hands working the fingers in one and then two at a time. Once you can use both thumbs at the same time you are relaxed enough to insert a small dildo and work up to any size you like, even a double anal fisting if the fancy takes you. I have never been fisted but I did take a 12" strap-on that was as thick as my own wrist. All the time you must remain relaxed and use copious amounts of the oil.

Hope this helps you to have a good anal experience or two. I personally love it and intend to do it till the day I die.

 

I'm pretty sure there is some measure of pain all the time, as I've heard from partners. Some like the mix and some, not so much...but no one has ever told me that, with me fucking them in the ass...it has never hurt.

**shruggs**

This isn't just a "stick it straight in dry" thing I'm talking about either and I've been with women of varying size.

 

:excited: I'll use Olive Oil instead...but a good tip nonetheless!!!

 

water based lubes are much better than oil/oil based lubes/vaseline etc...

 

Yeah water based lube is amazing

 

anal lube with desensitizer in it.

or water based lube like id glide millenium, a huge spliff. and a partner thats willing to go slow, as well as give clit stimulation.

 

I was told by a former GF who adored anal sex that when she first started and found it really hurt a friend suggested to her using "bongella" (a clear Gel available in the UK for numbing mouth ulcers) Using this inside her anal ring a short time before sex and using plenty of anal lube almost completely eliminated the pain of those early encounters!

 

First time post but I figured I'd throw in my advice as well. This method takes a while but is very enjoyable for both of us.

My girl likes clit stimulation to get her juices going. She says it's much more enjoyable when she is excited already. She says a glass of wine doesn't hurt either. Then gentle penetration with a small butt plug and plenty of ID Glide. We usually use Silicon based ID Glide for anal but the water based is good too.

After 5 or 10 minutes we work up to a large butt plug and take a few minutes to work that in. Then we either continue with the foreplay, oral or vaginal sex.

When the plug pops out on it's own, it's like a turkey timer popping out. We know she's ready.

I go in part way and stop to let her get used to it. Then after a few seconds I continue all the way in and stop. This allows her to adjust to having something inside there. Then we start nice and slow. Before long she's enjoying it.

I've even had her beg me to fuck her ass, literally. Her words where, "Please fuck my ass!" It was so fucking hot to hear that from her. I thought that shit only happened in Penthouse Forum and porn movies.
After a few minutes she was using her vibrator on her clit and had an amazing orgasm.

That's what works for us anyways. YMMV

 

I enjoy anal quite a bit and find that if I have been properly stimulated and lubed beforehand there is no pain because I am ready and eager for the penetration...

 

at this point in time im yet to give a girl anal, something id love to try, just the girth is intimidating for that it seems. A downside for us guys with girth i guess lol

 

I love girls who like anal and im lucky enough to have one it feels nice and with enough lube it feels great with little to no pain for her, or as she tells me.

 

x2

 

My G/f loves anal almost almost as much as the "real thing". In fact, she lost her virginity anal. But, she is a different woman to everyone else I have met! She loves extreme! She even loves me fisting her asshole! Am i gonna complain? Hell, no!

 

If your guy truely loves you he will lick,tounge,nibble,tease,finger,and excite you,to the point you you beg to feel him balls deep inside you,and that my dear,is exciting for the both of you....:excited:....

 

I really LOVE anal! I am not sure why, just feels good. I do not usually use lube as I use juices from my pussy and his cock to get things going.

Luv,
Summer