No, I don't like it personally. Although I have met many that do. I used to role play sometimes and I ran into a few women that wanted me to call them names. It wasn't any fun for me.

In play or not, it is just too derogatory for me to enjoy it.

I do enjoy my women to have some wildness, but there's no way I'm going to call them names for it. There's a difference in being a bit "slutty" for someone you love, than it is to go out and bang every guy you meet. I wouldn't want that.

 

No, it's not just you.

In porn it's a turn-off for me - calling the girl a slut, facials, deepthroating-gagging when the girl's obviously not enjoying it... it's just derogatory and the girl's being USED. More so in real life.

 

everyone should just get some manors

 

If I drop a few bills on the nightstand, will you shut up and suck my cock...whore?!Seriously, I have never called my girl a slut or a whore, even when doing a little rp.

 

Then we'll have some places to store our whores.

 

i love being called a slut or a bitch, i love feeling 'used and abused' during sex. its so hott

 

it IS degrading,and thats the point.

like other members have said,its a domination/submissive thing.

submissive women LIKE to be degraded sexually.
You and your partner should talk about these sorts of things before you actually engage in sex,just to make things smoother.

I happen to be a sexually submissive chick,and during sex i can dig it.
but..call me a name like that outside the realms of sex,and ill bitch slap you.

haha.

 

This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*

 

Now Bruce Wayne had a manor...wonder what he stored in the bat cave. And what about Hef, wonder what we're to classify the young ladies who enhance his manor?If someone wants to pay me they can call me whatever they like.

 

so what you can do

 

"If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?"

If I am giving you a few hundred for your time, I am going to do more than call you a slut, I am going to treat you like one.

In all seriousness, I have had many partners that enjoyed dirty talk that included calling them sluts and whores. It was all part of the mind fuck that got them off.

 

Seriously, the quality of ANY banter in porn has eroded to the point that I more or less keep the films on mute. It is either embarassingly fake, insulting or silly.

 

slut

 

Well - I am a woman that likes to me dominated and even degraded during sex. I don't know why - it just turns me on soo much. When I am giving a guy oral and he is forcing himself down my throat to make me gag - if he'll call me a slut and spit on my face - it just does it for me. I have no clue why!!!

Some women would be appalled and probably kill someone lol, but everyone does have their own thing.

 

So very very true.

 

If i was in bed with my lady friend ^.^ i wouldnt call her a slut unless i knew she would like it. i wouldnt risk upsetting her or making her feel bad. i personally treat women like goddesses. And its odd because i havent had many girlfriends. but all the guys i see who are douches to women get a new one every month. im still kinda puzzled by that fact.

oh well makes sense i like guys to eh?

almost forgot
if i am the one catching i like it rough and to be called those things. but its just my taste
(im waiting for the creepy pms because i just said that ^)

 

that is exactly what i mean

 

I simply can't pass up a dare. So “you are a slut???” I don't think so from some of your comments. I have to agree with Bishop on this.

 

Agreed. I think we (women, especially) need to own the word, actually.

As others have said, it depends on the person/people involved. I enjoy using dirty language in bed (or wherever) - it gets me off. But I can certainly see why some women wouldn't like it, especially if they associate the word a negative imagery.

 

I feel the same way about "cunt" ...